3rd date cancellation

Littleknownfacts · 2018-10-25T17:10:02+00:00

Removed for lack of participation.

goatismycopilot · 2018-10-25T10:24:55+00:00

She is less into you or has better options or both.

SpaceWhiskey · 2018-10-25T11:30:40+00:00

What made the second date bad?

zeitgirl_ · 2018-10-25T09:13:55+00:00

You have border-line oneitis for a girl who is in “job / casual fun mode” (aka the cock carousel) and not “LTR mode”. You’ve made her feel like she is on a pedestal, which is unattractive and causing her to be iffy about you.

Give her space and wait for her to reach out to you. If she doesn’t, you are not her top option.

More frankly, you sound neurotic and stage-5 clingerish. Get busy with something that isn’t pussy.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-10-25T13:41:15+00:00

She lost interest after the bad date and was being polite

exit_sandman · 2018-10-25T11:48:15+00:00

/r/asktrp is that way ->

MercedesBenzoAMG · 2018-10-25T12:52:47+00:00

Next.

dylang92 · 2018-10-25T14:27:08+00:00

She probably found someone she liked more and is pursuing things further with them.

kandyapplez · 2018-10-25T16:01:14+00:00

she's conveying that she's not looking for anything serious

321PK · 2018-10-25T12:21:21+00:00

There’s no checklist. If I were you I’d keep looking for other girls.

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wtknight · 2018-10-25T12:16:37+00:00

You made a mistake sleeping with her right away if you are actually interested in a potential LTR with her when you should have focused more on romance and a gradual escalation towards sex when the two of you have feelings for each other. As much as RP says that men are the gatekeepers of relationships, women can play that role just as much too if they so choose.

Anyway, just let her know subtly without seeming desperate that you’re interested in more than sex with her and, if she’s interested, she’ll get in touch with you and, if not, then find someone else. At least you got some sex out of it, which is better than a lot of guys do.

Mr_White119811 · 2018-10-25T14:22:00+00:00

Carry on with your life, your goals, your ambitions. See other girls if they come along.

If she wants to date you again, she will let you know. If not, carry on doing what you do.

Your life does not revolve around her.

LewisCross · 2018-10-25T14:54:36+00:00

She's not all that into you. She's lost interest for one reason or another. Probably because your answer to her question "what are you looking for at the moment" wasn't what she wanted to hear.

Move on.

crackrocksteady7 · 2018-10-25T14:39:32+00:00

youre plan B

Then she asked if i was free today to which I said yes.

Plan A did something that made her think he wasnt interested 5 minutes before she sent that text

Title	3rd date cancellation
Author	bigpharma3
Upvotes	3
Comments	39
Date	October 25, 2018 9:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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