CMV: it doesn't really matter whether the wall really exists or not

future_space_boobs · 2016-12-08T21:06:48+00:00

This falls under the umbrella of "only hurting yourself." not everybody has a normal childhood and adolescence, not everybody matures at the same time. It takes longer for some of us. And if that's you you can do one of two things:

1) give up on sex and dating because you never got to experience "young love"

2) get on that horse, make the best of your situation, and stop comparing yourself to other people. A relationship that began when one or both partners were a little older isn't any less valid or worthy than teenage puppy love. Not every relationship or life needs to follow the same trajectory.

The world is going to go on regardless of what you do. People your age and older are going to keep dating and getting laid and getting married no matter how futile you think that is. Your judgement and disdain has no bearing whatsoever on their enjoyment of life. You are your own advocate and you only go around once, why the fuck would you give up on an important part of life a quarter of the way through? what a waste.

fuxdpus · 2016-12-09T00:49:17+00:00

I agree with this 100% it is IMPOSSIBLE for men to get younger legal women after the age of 23. I mean it's not like women don't care so much about youthful good looks and fuck men who can do things for them. No man over 23 has EVER had sex with a younger woman, EVER. I mean its not like older men have bang young hotties or anything. It is totally unheard of and you totally CAN'T do a 5 second internet search and come up with countless examples of older men getting with younger women.

theiamsamurai · 2016-12-08T21:38:42+00:00

You act like this decline happens overnight at 30. Sex drive is a gradual decline. Women's actually peaks in late 20s early 30s. Same with physical attractiveness, men peak at 27-35, women peak at 17-25, depending on genes, diet, and exercise. Women go down faster than men, but it's still overstated how fast the decline is. When people think of fast declining girls that hit the wall, they're generally thinking of party girls who chain smoke, binge drink, do drugs, and eat fast food. While the average woman declines faster than the average man in attractiveness, it's not quite that fast, and you'd be surprised how much make-up can help offset it if she keeps her weight down.

wub1234 · 2016-12-08T20:40:08+00:00

To some extent, I agree.

But wallowing in self-pity because things didn't go your way when you were younger, however understandable this may be, has a very low percentage rate of making people happy and fulfilled.

KoennonTiger · 2016-12-08T20:40:18+00:00

Why is that? You can easily date young women if you are a fit, attractive older man with good game. Seriously look at your competition.

raindient · 2016-12-08T20:41:48+00:00

You'd rather starve outside the banquet hall because you should have been invited but weren't?

DucksCanDance · 2016-12-08T20:52:25+00:00

You're right, I might as well give up and cry myself to sleep for the next 50-60 years

thereddespair · 2016-12-08T22:04:57+00:00

is this just about women coz that does not apply to men.

since when did a man of quality past his 30s have an issue with getting younger women? youd have to imply people are limited to date within their age range which is not the case for men.

and men not being horny enough past 30? men chase women even in their 50s even past that

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PostModernismKills · 2016-12-09T07:04:28+00:00

Even with all this peaking, human-beings after the age of 25 still manage to have sex all around the world. So maybe that's not your problem.

BPremium · 2016-12-09T13:58:26+00:00

damn... I'm fucked then. and not in the good way

LipstickPaper · 2016-12-09T17:37:01+00:00

Fertility is best for men and women in their 20s.

biblesjedi_mindtrick · 2016-12-10T01:08:43+00:00

Self-improvement after 24 for a sexually unlucky man is like trying to sneak in after the feast and lick the crumbs.

What a Pollyanna... Glad you don't get too caught up in cynicism. I hope your Xmas is going better than that.

Title	CMV: it doesn't really matter whether the wall really exists or not
Author	-CcCc
Upvotes	1
Comments	46
Date	December 8, 2016 8:36 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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