I think the way to find middle ground and commonality in a debate between the sexes isn’t by facts or feelings. It’s by imagination here me out.

I’ve seen plenty of debates on here where the points made go completely over the opposite sexes head.

So what I’ve figured out is creating non gendered scenarios and helping out the other person to “walk” in your shoes is the best way to find middle ground.

I.e to women “imagine no matter how hard you try people see & treat you as a threat, they don’t want to be around you until proven otherwise. You’ve got so much love to share but people look at you funny if you call a baby cute”

I.e To men “imagine what it’s like to have to say no to someone bigger & stronger than you not knowing what their mental state is like. Imagine the mental strain an anxiety that possibility could cause you over and over again. ”

If anyone understands what I’m getting at Does anyone else have any good examples of this ?