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How do relationships, both lesbian and between men, work for TRP?

JustAdolf-LikeCher

December 8, 2014
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Title How do relationships, both lesbian and between men, work for TRP?
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JustAdolf-LikeCher

Upvotes 2
Comments 24
Date December 8, 2014 3:29 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]Will_Im_Not 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It doesn't fit into TRP's worldview so they ignore it for the most part.

[–]SirNemesistitties not tithe0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://www.reddit.com/r/altTRP/

You're welcome.

[–]TheScamr0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maintain frame over shit test and continue to improve yourself. Applies any way you want to splice it. M-f, F-m, F-f or M-m.

[–]GridReXXit be like that-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

TRP seems to be about satisfying the man's sex drive.

Improving oneself so that no matter what, a woman will find him sexually irresistible so that his sex drive is sated.

This is fantasy.

The amount of women with a sex drive equal to that of a man's... a minority. And those women probably have unusually high testosterone levels.

At the very least he can improve himself so that a woman will acquiesce and have sex with him even when she's personally not in the mood. Duty sex. Duty sex because she loves you. But duty sex nonetheless.

However the myth of passionate wild sex forever more... a lie. The passionate sex comes when she's just as horny as you, which simply isn't going to be as often as him.

  • Women aren't driven by sex to such a debilitating degree, so sex isn't a huge a concern for the majority of lesbian couples.

  • And men love sex so much that most of my gay male friends in relationships, still choose to be in open relationships where both partners are allowed to use GRINDr or JACKd.

TL;DR

Doesn't apply.

[–]Wolfsouls 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I guess I must have unusually high testosterone levels because I'm pretty much always ready to get in the mood when my partner is attractive. Where's my lady beard and big muscles? :(

[–]GridReXXit be like that0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Haha... I may have been exaggerating.

Though in my mind Chris Brown and Rihanna are both attractive. I still think Chris may have more moments of spontaneous horniness than Rihanna.

[–]buarthaDelights in homosexuality2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

men love sex so much that most of my gay male friends in relationships, still choose to be in open relationships where both partners are allowed to use GRINDr or JACKd

I've never understood this, even as a gay guy myself.

Unless you're in a long distance relationship or constantly unavailable to each other for some reason, if you're both on Grindr looking for sex with other people, why not just have sex with each other? My partner having sex with someone else while I was available would drive me mental with jealousy because I'd feel like he was saying that that person is better than me.

Absolutely no judgement on those who do like that kind of thing of course, but on a personal level my mind is boggled by it.

[–]GridReXXit be like that1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unless you're in a long distance relationship or constantly unavailable to each other for some reason, if you're both on Grindr looking for sex with other people, why not just have sex with each other?

I don't understand it either. One of my closest friends lives with his partner. And they both still prefer an open relationship.

He just laughs it off as something I don't understand. I don't, but kudos to them.

[–]namae_nanka0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Camille Paglia could've used it.

PAGLIA: A woman I'm talking with at some event says, "Let's leave here and go to this bar," which is a lesbian bar. We go to the bar and we're talking and then she says, "Let's go have coffee," and we go to this coffee shop and end up, at three in the morning, half a block from her apartment. Finally, she says, "All right, well, goodnight." She's ready to go home alone and I look at her, like, "What do you mean? Aren't we going to go back to your apartment?" "No." "What?" And she says, "Do you think I was leading you on?" Un-fucking-believable. I can't tell you the rage. I am, at that point, looking at her and.... All I can say is, if I had been an 18-year-old street kid instead of a 45-year-old woman, I would have stabbed her. I was completely humiliated and furious. If I had been a guy with a hard-on, I would have hit her.

[–]sh1vRed Pill Man0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They dont. That's why we generally dont write about them.

[–]homo_homini_lupus -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

lesbian bed death and gays have open relationships, as would be predicted by TRP views on sex differences

[–]relationshipdownvotethe blue pill is a suppository0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Why is this getting so many downvotes? It's dead on. Men crave sexual variety thus open relationships and promiscuity. Women crave relationships, thus explaining how lesbian relationships cohabitate quickly.

[–]homo_homini_lupus 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Because it's not the "correct" opinion to state

[–]Those_Who_RemainIrrelevant Homosexual1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

And because it is often simply incorrect as well.

[–]homo_homini_lupus 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Stereotypes and generalizations come from somewhere and never seek to described every member of the class being described

[–]Those_Who_RemainIrrelevant Homosexual1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And stereotypes are also often flawed or false. A stereotype about a vocal minority does not accurately describe the entire group.

[–]homo_homini_lupus 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

never seek to described every member of the class being described

did you see this part?

[–]PhokusProgressive-Lazy Christian-Leans RP-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I wonder if gay men realize how lucky they are that they don't have to deal with the same bullshit hetero men have to deal with.

[–]Those_Who_RemainIrrelevant Homosexual6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Two men together deal with plenty of bullshit from each other as well. Men aren't as logical and 'easy' as TRP thinks they are.

That said, I do think we have it slightly easier due to more similarities.

[–]PhokusProgressive-Lazy Christian-Leans RP0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If your gay partner treats you like garbage, you can easily drop them and find someone else (which is what straight women do). Not so easy for most straight men.

[–]Those_Who_RemainIrrelevant Homosexual2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Casual six-wise yes. Relationship wise not so much though.

[–]GridReXXit be like that2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just as happy as lesbians who aren't worried about being nagged for sex? The woes of heterosexuals.

[–]homo_homini_lupus 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are Anglo American men gay or just Priapic?

[–]Will_Im_Not 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it's pretty great.

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