How do stereotypes affect men's value?

future_space_boobs · 2016-11-13T18:28:17+00:00

do the people on this sub ever leave their college campuses?

gavinok · 2016-11-13T19:07:40+00:00

I would say the "nerd" is the most prominent, disadvantageous stereotype for men out there.

It consists of:

Lack of confidence/courage.
Lack of fitness or no possession of strength or muscularity.
Being boring, doesn't know how to have fun.
assumed lack of sexual success.

BiggerDthanYou · 2016-11-13T19:26:17+00:00

They may get some pussy from the SJW type cuz they are 'so sensitive and caring' but as soon as a 10/10 alpha male comes along, these boys get dropped

It's so cute when guys think like that. It's like you really got a disability that makes it impossible for you to realize that not every women is the same person.

I know that face-blindness exists, but there may be another one that makes it impossible for guys to recognize that just because one woman did something that this doesn't mean that every woman will do the same thing under similar circumstances.

You know I could just say the same thing turned around. Women cheat on their muscular alphas with artsy guys and drop them for them as well, but I'm not an idiot and thus don't run around and claim that it's impossible for women to be attracted to muscular alphas or that the artsy type is the only type.

You know, you might not even see me as competition and thus let your guard down around me, but that's exactly why it is so easy for me to befriend your wife and fuck her all the time.

Rhunta · 2016-11-13T19:06:44+00:00

You don't have much life experience, or you live in a closed environment. Here in the Netherlands I have seen so much black/white couples/children.

[deleted] · 2016-11-13T19:08:28+00:00

I think what you are talking about is growing the strength and cojones to project a vision of yourself that isn't ready-made by society.

Like being a black dude and being sensitive. That isn't exactly something society trumpets from the roof tops, and recognizes as universal reality. But you can be that way, you can own that. And when people see you believe that about yourself, and honor that about yourself, then they also believe it about you (generally), and honor it about you (oftentimes).

Hopefully you are screening for people who appreciate you as you are, and see you as you are, and not for people who want you for being some kind of stereotype for them. Especially something as two-dimensional as the last one you described.

Then I think, the individuality is achieved. And then stereotypes aren't as important, I think. Being focused on stereotypes is being focused on what you think others are thinking. Its an analytical form of social anxiety, I believe.

yo_radical_one · 2016-11-13T19:28:49+00:00

The typical engineer/science white boy: Usually these boys are on the nerdier and introverted side, but not all. They tend to be quieter, but not all. The advantage they have is that they are more likely to realize that life isn't all puppy dogs and rainbows, sometimes you gotta go out there and stand up for yourself and fight, which the ladies love. Some of these boys got some hot women, like outta they league. The other's would tap more ass if they knew how to talk to women more and were more social. Ladies tend to have mixed feelings about this type.

This can work really well if you have hypermasculine/attractive traits balancing out the perception of softness, like being handsome and/or muscular, but also a slightly violent streak. Basically you have to transition into this statesmanlike archetype.

It's the opposite balancing act Black guys have to go through, you're already stereotyped as aggressive and brutish which is why the Black guys who do best with women mix it up with a really professional aura or a softer romantic side.

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hauswyfetechno · 2016-11-13T21:09:37+00:00

I live in South Africa. This ingrained racial bias shit is laughably false. This is the perspective of a sheltered, inexperienced man-baby. Even in my country, where, trust me, we have arguably THE most difficult and contentious racial relations in the world, mixed-race relationships are relatively common and happen across looks- and social boundaries. OP I can only assume that you come from a very isolated, hyper-conservative community if you think that only "white trash" will LTR black dudes. Also

The white trash fat chicks are the only ones who will ever get into a relationship with an African dude

Heidi Klum and Seal, anyone?

anitapk · 2016-11-13T21:32:25+00:00

I don't think it affects people that much, but if it does it sets a standard

despisedlove2 · 2016-11-13T22:44:04+00:00

Stereotypes, if grounded in reality, are useful.

Nerds often make tons of money. A socially acceptable nerd in his thirties is a prime target for women.

Will largely agree about white women. Even more so than most women, they are the most faithless, self indulgent, borderline misandrist, SJW leaning creatures. The worst wives conceivable. If you are going to be stupid enough to marry a Western woman, don't marry a white one. She is likely to be utterly worthless, and you will live to regret it.

Title	How do stereotypes affect men's value?
Author	LongDongBlackKong
Upvotes	3
Comments	50
Date	November 13, 2016 6:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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