Some thoughts. Wdyt?

So it's often perceived as women either chosing for attraction vs. providing, and providing is seen as money. A woman is risking her life essentially and her future for a man and the child. A man can abandon a child and the woman will still care for it, so she needs to ensure that he will stick through. But is not providor also being a protector? Strong men can protect women from other men and are strong enough to shield them from that. Some women sure, they don't even try with those guys but women tend to think that if they give men more sex they will be more likely to stay, so even AFBB is this thought that maybe they will get a man that will protect them more and increase the survival of children. Essentially it's about caring for women, and protecting is another side of the commitment part as providing.