Partner count only matters for commitment (why would it matter for casual?) If partner count bothers you, your best move is to simply not commit.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-01-23T20:44:55+00:00

Temporary Moritorium on N count threads

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-01-23T19:45:59+00:00

Worrying about partner count is normally a red flag for me, as is bragging about your own count.

SaBahRub · 2021-01-23T19:42:44+00:00

But the cake! I want to have it AND eat it too!!!

DualFish · 2021-01-23T19:51:30+00:00

I do kinda worry about it. What if there's a part of the relationship she expects to happen that I'm oblivious too?

A high count for them means they're experienced and im not and there may be different views on our relationship fundamentally.. However, I am all for "their body their rules", i just don't want to be unfullfilling for them

Its kind of a stupid worry, I know. But its still a worry

CanisLupisAutism · 2021-01-23T20:09:44+00:00

why would it matter for casual?

Because it's grace and people generally rely on gut instinct rather than autistic analysis

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PoliticsIsBroken · 2021-01-23T20:13:38+00:00

"there's no way to really know" uhh yeah there is. Just ask. Or ask her friends. It doesnt even matter though, I've never met a high n count girl who I was considering for a LTR before I knew what her n count was. It's highly corelated with non ltr characteristics.

QuenchlessGato · 2021-01-23T20:20:43+00:00

It's a pretty defeatist attitude. Just because you set the bar on a level that most women will not meet doesn't mean that it's not worth vetting and looking for the few who do meet this bar.

If you are looking for a long term commitment it should be with a person you can basically trust, and trust goes well beyond the single information of partner count.

jdobrila · 2021-01-23T20:04:47+00:00

You do realize that this whole n-count drama is mostly about women right?

Like, women are far more outraged about men caring about n-counts than men are outraged about women's n-counts.

So adopting a defensive stance, when you're the attacker, is kind of pointless don't you think?

Grave_Heresy · 2021-01-23T20:12:05+00:00

ALL women ride the carousel. By the time they are in their 30s all women have an n-count in the triple digits.

The only one's that don't are virgins and they constitute 1-2% of Western women. Many have emotional hang ups about sex and relationships or are aesexual.

Even if a guy does find a nice, attractive, fun, childless woman with a low partner count, he still has a 40-80% chance of being divorce raped within 8 years of a marriage or cheated on within 6 mos of dating.

It's not worth it.

But if a guy is intent on getting getting with someone, I guess he could go younger since a person can only fit so many partners into a given time frame.

I would avoid any woman over 30 years like the plague. She has been on the carousel too long and cannot love, respect or be sexually satisfied by the average man.

Title	Partner count only matters for commitment (why would it matter for casual?) If partner count bothers you, your best move is to simply not commit.
Author	Lie-Equal
Upvotes	3
Comments	73
Date	January 23, 2021 7:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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