Idk much about male red pill. But female red pill is dangerous. And I was on it for a long time. Pretty much I became disillusioned with men. From what I saw growing up and in my family. What I saw happen to other women. It’s not all men. I know this logically. But those bad feelings and bad experiences even if just watching them play out leaves a bitter taste. You’re angry, you want to protect yourself. You might even want revenge. Men who cheat, lie, abandon, and use and abuse. They ruin it for other men. Because then women hyper focus on the bad. And say, I want to protect myself so much. I’ll take the female red pill which is basically to see men as a means to an end. If in this state you will try to protect yourself. So you figure to see men as a ladder, a tool, an accessory but bottom line something that will benefit you so that when the inevitable day comes that he betrays you in any way at least the benefits always outweighed the cost. Which is where we get gold diggers, etc etc. I know for me I for awhile thought well love doesn’t exist. I will never feel like I can trust a man fully so I’m going to go for the man who can give me the most. And emotions aren’t on that table because then you’ll be putting yourself on the line to get hurt. It’s really shitty. The recent Ariana grande Ethan whatever scandal has me so scared. A woman with a man for a decade, a baby, and he trades it for a few months of superficial highs. Many women in the comments saying they experienced something similar. It’s understandable why some women lose respect for men. I don’t believe that all men are bad and I know they’re not. But if you see women going on about using men it’s because they’re scared and hurt and it’s understandable they are. And it’s the job of men to fix this amongst themselves or for good men trustworthy men to be more vocal. And as for me as a woman. I’m going to try really hard to remain optimistic and let my heart open up and be soft around men. Of course I will have boundaries and asses red flags. But it’s really hard because it’s my biggest fear to be used and lied to