I have seen many RPillers saying that Disney movies made them beta or that it's Homer Simpson's fault they are the way they are.

I don't think the media shape who we are, if anything it shows us what we already are or what we desire. Homer Simpson wasn't created to make people similar to him, he was created because of the stereotype that a lot of husbands are alcoholic, lazy and fat. It was a stereotype that already existed.

If the media really affected our behavior, then how come the gamers who play ultra masculine games like GTAV or whatever aren't the most masculine folks around? If the media really affected our behavior, how come kids aren't more violent? http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/gaming/long-term-us-study-finds-no-links-between-violent-video-games-and-youth-violence-9851613.html

My grandfather is beta but in a good way (high beta?) and he had always had a happy marriage. He is masculine and a businessman, yet the music he listens to is the gayest thing I have ever heard. According to some people's logic, my grandfather should have become feminized just from the music he heard.

The media doesn't affect our behavior and the characters are often not meant to be role models anyway. If you really want a masculine role model, why don't you watch movies with Jean-Claude Van Damme or whatever?

Also, why do people say movies tell them to be nice guys? That's not really true. First of all, "bad boys" get women in movies all the time, second of all, can you really think of a lot of movies where a nice guy gets the girl just by being nice?