First, imagine a 13 year old girl walking in the mall with her parents (Hah, just put them together, the girl and mom and dad). What's she doing?
If your picture is realistic, and she's not a Mormon or something, there's a good chance that her parents are WRONG.
.....for even EXISTING.
from her. Like nuclear-huge huffy eyerolls.
How stereotypical is that?
Thing is, that girl grows up. And a lot of guys typically live in a kind of fear, desire, maelstrom of that whole eyeroll dynamic. (Women get more sophisticated, the eyeroll can be sublimated into other signals in body language and tonality).
Some guys learn to be PUAs and they can playfully toss it back, make her wrong.... or if she's really tough, sometimes you get her into the game to make other people wrong, and you have your own little club. They name it, "negging" "shit-testing" etc. But frankly, just tossing it back playfully, the same PROCESS (without need of content) is a nice way to flirt.
Girls also do this with each other all the time. I just read another thread where someone had said, "Most guys don't notice how women are put off by 'that bitch Stacey.'" Yeah, the one who talks about how wrong everyone is, hell she's gonna talk about YOU as soon as you get up to go to the bathroom.
About 75% of couples, and Redpillers call these guys losers or beta or cucks or whatever, you'll see it at the mall also. The girl says "what do you want to go eat?" The guy will immediately try to disperse the attention, "Oh, the Thai place? Or would you prefer Greek tonight?" The punchline is her rolling her eyes. Hell, maybe she has her eyebrows cut to look extra "right" and everyone else is wrong.
Yeah, everybody loves Raymond, and every other TV show with a loser guy (And overwhelmingly most TV is written by MEN, not women)...
It's simple, but I think that's everything the Red Pill is about in terms of women. By the way, my experience in Asia is that this doesn't exist among many Asian women, and I think that's why Western guys like them. They read it unconsciously as "Whew! Holy fuck, I'm not WRONG?!?"
It's also everything I think incels haven't learned to deal with.
And maybe the nice guys and such have learned different ways to deal with it (there's also the percent of women who DON'T DO IT).
One thing men seldom think of in regards to the whole thing: Can you imagine HAVING to be right ALL THE TIME? It's a psychological burden.
I'm not saying this is ALL WOMEN and ALL MEN, but if you think I'm wrong, then just look someone slowly from head to toe and huff out a little air as you roll your eyes. This WILL read as EXTREMELY FEMININE to ANYONE, because it's a behavior women are so deeply socialized to do in US culture.
LOL, this isn't to say women are wrong. Men usually DO a symbiotic match to this. Remember the guy in the mall who is trying to defer attention around? He wants to be happy, while she's also happy. He's trying to balance both of them, like a type of negotiation.
Girls who have been in a drawn out argument with a guy wanting the kind of closure where I'm okay and you're okay would understand how fucking annoying this is, just as a small example.
In trying to balance everyone, he does justice to no one.
TRP says, "So he should honor HIMSELF FIRST." And that's the truth that opponents of TRP never acknowledge.
He can grow, and his sense of self can come to encompass more people. And that actually IS a lot healthier than all this, "I hope I can be okay and I hope you can be okay too" nonsense that a lot of guys (the stereotypical guy) fall into. It will never work.
Now, a lot of guys trying to do that are WOUNDED, which is where the meanness sometimes comes from. (Likewise, a lot of women are wounded, which is where the meanness can come from)... Clearly, all the TRP aggression is a fight reaction to fear induced by being made constantly wrong by most women they might be interested in loving. Same as Black Pill throwing up their hands and giving up....
How happy would a (straight) man be with a woman who always makes him RIGHT? That's actually all the TRP fantasize about.
How happy would a (straight) woman be with a man who puts all his attention directly on HER instead of trying to spread the energy around due to fear? That's a whole lot of female fantasy stories.
TRP is a step away from the symbiotic relationship style that leaves both parties feeling shafted. -- a WARPED STEP, but without the wounded anger, it's actually the right step.
TL;DR: Men and women have largely fallen to patterns that everyone is unhappy with. TRP has got some issues, but it's trying to break those patterns which make a lot of relationships hell on both parties.
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