Thoughts on men who forgive cheaters.

afflictuseternal · 2022-01-03T12:18:58+00:00

The only bf i've had said that he wouldn't mind if i slept with other men as long as i still have sex with him too😂 but i'm staying virgin till marriage

E-2-butene · 2022-01-03T14:44:31+00:00

Unless they are doing something like “keeping it together with the kids” and just opening up the relationship, they are spineless, weak men with no options or self respect.

Everyone, women included, should just leave after being cheated on. They showed you that you can’t trust them, and they will stab you in the back for some temporary, hedonistic pleasure.

PM_ME_STRIPPERS · 2022-01-03T12:51:08+00:00

They have been conditioned by society ( moreso by the feminists and sjw) that the woman did a mistake and to forgive her and not to leave her, because if you do you are a horrible human being/ sexist etc

_mwk · 2022-01-03T13:10:01+00:00

idiots

Devourer_of_felines · 2022-01-03T13:32:46+00:00

They're either naive enough to think it won't happen again, have such low self esteem that they don't believe they'll ever get with another woman, or they stay in the marriage because they know they can't afford a divorce.

John_Oakman · 2022-01-03T13:19:32+00:00

It take great mental fortitude to genuinely forgive the transgression of another. It's also a sign of weakness in modern society.

Make what you will of that.

TheJim66 · 2022-01-03T14:07:51+00:00

Broken pathetic men.

Vtridolla · 2022-01-03T14:25:20+00:00

Everything is subjective and every relationship is different. Best stay on your P’s and Q’s.

Murphysmongoose · 2022-01-03T15:21:29+00:00

TL;DR: I guess it does depend on why they cheated, the circumstances and such. Also the cheated on person sort of gets a free pass for one boo boo now too, in all fairness. Still, normally would agree it's most likely a bad idea/bet though. He/she needs to look for a new lover.

Person man bitch diary, tmi ramble part: Only one time have I ever done this, and she kind of gets a pass b/c I broke up with her first. I broke up with her, b/c I knew she was going to fuck him.

An old guy friend from way back was coming back into town, and I could just see and hear the chemistry. She had always had a bit of a crush on him (I gathered) but has been hiding it, or so she thought. Anyway, fast forward to a few years later, her glowing up a bit... and now he's willing/wanting to hit it.

I could see all this in the making, so I stepped out of it. I told her to, "Go check that out, let's just step back, and see if we come back together" or however I hopefully better worded it. Anyway, she went and picked him up at an airport, and I went out with the bros like a single man for the weekend to chase tail.

I didn't sleep with anyone, b/c I didn't really care. I knew she'd come back, and I did really love her. I knew he'd give her some drunken shitty sex... It would get awkward... And he'd bounce back to whence he came... And she'd be apologizing back on me. Which is how it went down.

She had a very low N-count, and was naive in a lot of ways, and I could see everything unfolding like a cheesy script in front of me. This is why I don't date very low N women, like less than 2 or 3 anymore. They don't have enough concept of, "average sex" to fully appreciate what I'm going to be bringing to the table.

Edit: Low N women are going to get curious later on about what other men are like. A more experienced woman knows what the average guy is going to do for her. Gives you an advantage, if you give better than average...

KirthWGersen · 2022-01-03T13:01:23+00:00

I think it is the fear of going through a dry patch after breaking up.

The sensible guy keeps shagging her while he lines the next ones up.

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wejaow · 2022-01-03T13:58:34+00:00

🐱

Mark_Freed · 2022-01-03T21:06:06+00:00

I think those guys are based. Depends on why they forgive. If he does it cause he is afraid to lose her, then is a clingy weak ass bitch.

Title	Thoughts on men who forgive cheaters.
Author	lonely_mixtape
Upvotes	2
Comments	16
Date	January 3, 2022 7:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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