I... uh he's not wrong...

Valac_ · 2020-05-26T02:58:09+00:00

Take me shopping. Pay for it. Plan our dates so I can just show up and get things. Work harder to make six figures. Grow an inch.

Pandoras-Soda-Can · 2020-05-26T09:14:56+00:00

Okay... I’m all for men being romantic but I think a far bigger thing is that a lot of women REALLY have NO idea how appreciated and heart wrenching it would be if they planned one date every once in awhile that actually made their boyfriend happy, not a “oh okay let’s go buy you some clothes that’ll be nice” (which maybe you can but most guys want activities not clothes), something that ACTUALLY applies to your boyfriends interests, do they love paintball and airsoft? Cheer em on or get blasting, love sea creatures? Trip to the local aquarium, do they love legos? A picnic that’s just you and him making a set. A good boyfriend will hear you mention the name of a brand you like and get you a gift basket full of their merch and set up a nice activity alongside it, do the same for your guy and he’ll hold you closer guaranteed.

DiamondDiggler · 2020-05-26T04:15:40+00:00

I thought men making decisions is toxic masculinity?

Pick a god damn lane women.

Rohan-Ajit · 2020-05-26T02:14:38+00:00

This bitch got a philharmonic taste with a Nicki Minaj tongue.

Koorany · 2020-05-26T10:43:02+00:00

I think some woman don't realise pussy isn't that valuable.

420blazeisme · 2020-05-26T02:46:09+00:00

No wonder people are gay

rmeestudios · 2020-05-26T02:16:01+00:00

If you ask yourself what you're gaining from the relationship, and you can't think of anything of substance, you don't have a relationship. You have a leech.

Rowdy_Tardigrade · 2020-05-26T04:08:01+00:00

Yup.

Also when he picks something she is just gonna shoot it down.

When im picking food (i do all the cooking for reference) and my 4th meal idea gets shot down i give up and is she doesnt pick then i dont cook.

Bitchesanitshit · 2020-05-26T07:38:12+00:00

I can see why our black bretheren chase the white meat.

This bitch is playing hard to get and she is already hard to want

RS7633 · 2020-05-26T11:34:38+00:00

I've been saying this shit for decades by now. Dating scene is unfair and I refuse to have anything to do with it. Man has to do EVERYTHING. Literary EVERY single fucking thing. Man has to approach, man has to interest, man has to pay, man has to invite, man has to plan, man has to pay again. And again. And again. Only for a chance to MAYBE get some pussy. MAYBE. These cunts? The only thing they have to do is show up and then either enjoy, or complain that HE did one of 1000000 things not good enough. Fuck. That. I'm out.

OnLyHeReFoRtHeMeMesX · 2020-05-26T10:08:08+00:00

It’s funny how you think you deserve that with that face

SocialForceField · 2020-05-26T03:11:43+00:00

First dopes mistake was asking the bitch where she wants to go, I take girls out like they don't know if they're gonna get murdered or have a fine meal. Keep um confused it's the way they like to be.

Swagger_For_Days · 2020-05-26T11:45:32+00:00

Shit doesn't work like this anymore.

There used to be a largely unspoken social contract that stated men had to do all these things because his wife/future wife wasn't going to work and he had to prove he could support her financially while she stayed home and was a homemaker. Also, like it or not this was largely the only way to get sex as a man. Now we can just hop on tinder and there's some kind of person to get our rocks off, and at worst we're using the Hub.

I refuse to do all this nonsense when the woman I'm taking out probably makes more money than I do, and I have no reason to try so hard when tinder and pornhub exist.

KingKang_s · 2020-05-26T12:40:55+00:00

My girl wasn’t even that hungry and I was starving and she deadass said no to everything I wanted and HAD THE AUDACITY TO SAY “Just choose what you want baby” WHEN I DECIDED I WANTED PIEOLOGY SHE HIT ME WITH A FINAL “I don’t like pizza”. BRO. YOURE NOT EVEN HUNGRY AND THE PLACES YOU WANT ARE TRAAASSHHHH. ended up at whataburger with a bbq bacon burger so she could have her dumb ass avocado bacon burger. 😤

2020-05-26T02:08:27+00:00

Honestly is rare and amazing to find a woman that will atleast meet you halfway on a date once in awhile. Not going to say it does not happen but has been extremely elusive in my experience.

JustVega · 2020-05-26T11:18:03+00:00

Babe I’m hungry.

Same, what do you feel like having?

I don’t know something good.

... (screams internally while your mind goes, “every fucking time.”)

reverend234 · 2020-05-26T11:35:20+00:00

Yeah I’ll tug my own dick at this point

Tsobe_RK · 2020-05-26T07:20:21+00:00

Well if hes lucky she'll lay on her back /s

Nightwingvyse · 2020-05-26T12:40:25+00:00

I find it so strange how women often make such a song and dance about how men condescend to them and try to take control with their "toxic masculinity", but then expect men to pay and plan for everything, and make all of their decisions for them. That masculinity suddenly ain't so toxic when it's suiting their whims.

Men are damned if they do and damned if they don't.

2020-05-26T07:02:04+00:00

If they’re hot enough then they are spoilt due to how they’ve been treated their whole life.

BuzzBoi95 · 2020-05-26T12:00:32+00:00

To top it all of those are the ones who won’t sleep with you after

2020-05-26T13:41:37+00:00

Women provide the pussy though. Don't you know that's worth your weight in gold? /s

DrDeathMD · 2020-05-26T05:37:36+00:00

Women who refuse to do anything are low value women.

FlattenedCash · 2020-05-26T03:03:30+00:00

Smh I’m about to switch to dudes.

ItsOnlyTheTruth · 2020-05-26T10:47:55+00:00

What language is this

OaklandCali · 2020-05-26T11:47:57+00:00

She has a 0% chance of me making any plans with her.

FivePips · 2020-05-26T13:42:37+00:00

I’ve tried paying but guys always refuse.

srgbski · 2020-05-26T15:19:11+00:00

if guys plan the date, part of the plan will be having sex

and than many women complain again

blaseblue89 · 2020-05-26T12:21:33+00:00

"I AM the prize, hunny!"

SkippedTheSaladBar · 2020-05-26T12:43:34+00:00

I would make her a salad based on the fact that her handle is @yesimchubby_

She's had enough to eat. Take her jogging. Lol

Matthew8312 · 2020-05-26T12:48:49+00:00

Alright yesimchubby....

Highly doubt you’d date a guy named yesimshort, no matter how much he planned

asura227 · 2020-05-26T15:21:16+00:00

Wait, just wait. I gotta plan it, pay for it, transport her to and from it, and for what? A chance for her to tell me that she, "just wants to be friends" because she really only wanted a free meal?

How about you earn my trust and access to my finances, wit yo leeching ass...

2020-05-26T17:55:04+00:00

Romantic = spend money on me

maxkorus · 2020-05-26T19:43:20+00:00

women dont build, they move in.

WereNotGonnaFakeIt · 2020-05-27T22:58:58+00:00

Here's the only thing you need to know: most female profiles have something indicating "don't text me if you don't have a car", and usually a certain model or better.

You ever see a guy who refused a date because she didn't have a car? Neither have I.

ojioni · 2020-06-06T05:36:38+00:00

How many of you have played this game.

Him: Is there anyplace in particular you'd like to go for dinner?

Her: I don't care. Any place if fine.

Him: Let's go to X.

Her: I don't want that.

Him: Ok, Y.

Her: I don't want that.

Him: Uh, Z?

Her: I don't want that.

Him: What do you want?

Her: I don't care. Any place is fine.

Back when I was married, my wife pulled this. I got out of the car and went back into our apartment. No sex for a week.

Optimistic-Charizard · 2020-05-26T12:51:29+00:00

Damn I'm happy that bad word is crossed out so I can't see it phew

Random_Link_Roulette · 2020-05-26T12:59:00+00:00

If the man has to pay for everything, it's no longer an equal date. The date has become a transaction and the product being bought is pussy, so if the dude gotta pay for it all, pussy better be given out the same night.

alexdiezg · 2020-05-26T14:13:31+00:00

Worst blur of a word I've ever seen.

benjobeast · 2020-05-26T14:18:44+00:00

"The guy has to plan it that way when it sucks I can blame him!"

T4mvv1lc0xx · 2020-05-26T14:29:49+00:00

Women never take initiative in dating yet they expect quality men to appear in front of them

rootabega57 · 2020-05-26T14:38:32+00:00

Why the fuck did you cross out nigga? You didnt even do it well lmao

TFWnoLTR · 2020-05-26T20:38:43+00:00

She brings the pussy. That's actually her mindset. Good luck getting her to admit she basically a prostitute by another name.

shaftlamer · 2020-05-26T10:42:39+00:00

Never seen a women be romantic. Romantic means using their cunts for them

surkhagan · 2020-05-26T02:38:44+00:00

"Its up to you" is a polite way of saying, "I don't care as long as we fuck later. So you might as well pick."

Blustof · 2020-05-26T07:55:54+00:00

Wtf was that low effort censoring? You trying to get monetized for Twitter screenshot?

Judgement_Nut · 2020-05-26T13:22:42+00:00

Even worse is when you have ideas but every single one is shot down but they don’t have any other ideas.

TikTok-is-gey · 2020-05-26T13:32:20+00:00

Nice censorship

WheresHarveyDent · 2020-05-26T13:55:11+00:00

Did that say nigga? Hmmm

SuaveWarlock · 2020-05-26T14:00:32+00:00

And then the last 15 minutes of the date a mysterious headache comes on

PozzanMWT · 2020-05-26T14:27:41+00:00

I plan on staying home playing Warzone then.

Save me some money

19TowerGirl89 · 2020-05-26T14:52:35+00:00

I don't see that it's so wrong to ask your SO to plan something once in a while. I've had guys do it for me. I've done it for guys. Other than her delivery being less than wonderful, there's nothing wrong with that ask.

mrbigsbe · 2020-05-26T15:06:00+00:00

no they aren’t useless my guy, i mean they have pussies right?

ZSCroft · 2020-05-26T15:16:34+00:00

But she never said any of the things that the guy responded with, all she said was “plan something” and he started arguing with all of these nonexistent points. Literally upvoting a straw man argument here

dinosaursnshit · 2020-05-26T16:10:52+00:00

These type of women don’t want a partner they more or less want a simp they can fuck

13083 · 2020-05-26T16:15:21+00:00

She's not a hopeless romantic, she's just hopeless

Bigjwooood · 2020-05-26T17:06:48+00:00

Lmao, this was my ex and she wondered why I got pissed off. I’d constantly arrange the dates and usually pay for the majority like a mug. She would constantly complain ‘omg are we doing this again/are we going their again?’ Even if it was like the second time. I’d try and arrange out of the ordinary activities like going tree climbing etc but she was too scared apparently. This is all while she never once surprised me or organised anything.

Zillaho · 2020-05-29T08:21:54+00:00

Well by the looks of it she’s just a pinch of testosterone away from being a man herself

Bolognanipple · 2020-06-01T04:45:12+00:00

It’s like she complains about the D but she flat as a pancake.

lets-fucking-talk · 2020-06-04T20:03:27+00:00

I hate it’s up to you

Proceeds to do it

rizzlej01 · 2020-06-05T03:48:14+00:00

Poor dude getting chastised from this rat chicken head.

chrissy2305 · 2020-06-07T08:31:29+00:00

Ya see I would plan something but also staying in and cuddling/watching a movie sounds so much better tbh I don’t really like going out

fool4discgolf · 2020-05-26T15:22:43+00:00

This is why black women are the least desired women of all the races.

Be better, black women.

TheViverRiver · 2020-05-26T12:17:05+00:00

The only time it’s acceptable is if she’s genuinely the one always planning dates imo. My bf and I take turns.

ThatDigitalNinja · 2020-05-26T12:46:04+00:00

I'm excited for this topic to pop up on fds.

Chickachic-aaaaahhh · 2020-05-26T14:40:18+00:00

And still not get the pussy at the end of the night because she used you to brag to her other broke friends

SonOfHibernia · 2020-05-26T13:22:21+00:00

Also r/technicallythetruth

realWoefulEnema · 2020-05-26T13:35:46+00:00

Is this English?

Sadd0Catt0 · 2020-05-26T13:52:44+00:00

This is why, I will not share my nuggies

irsmart123 · 2020-05-26T14:15:55+00:00

*an

People these days amirite

Galaxy_Vixen · 2020-05-26T15:09:29+00:00

Sorry y'all go through this

Cfwydirk · 2020-05-26T15:30:58+00:00

He is wrong. Plan the date for what you want to do. Fast way to find out if she wants to be with you or wants you to please her.

lionbryce · 2020-05-26T15:42:04+00:00

Homies, let's take eachother out

absolutezero911 · 2020-05-26T16:22:07+00:00

Men let's unite and just date each other.

fringegawd · 2020-05-26T16:45:13+00:00

Yesimchubby 😂😂

DeathPony07 · 2020-05-26T17:03:23+00:00

What? I don't speak ghetto.

ManwichInABox · 2020-05-27T00:03:22+00:00

no_not_this · 2020-05-28T12:52:54+00:00

What’s an “ass nigga”?

MatchaMaker · 2020-05-31T22:45:24+00:00

shitpapisays

Camman43123 · 2020-06-03T17:04:02+00:00

Why the fuck would we date women then I mean if guys plan all the dates guys know what guys what so I mean

LugnutGuzzler · 2020-06-04T23:13:30+00:00

Repost

KezH0 · 2020-06-10T23:56:08+00:00

im gonna flex my height im taller than a toddler

ElMilagroTortillas · 2020-06-12T14:30:32+00:00

NIGGA

2020-06-13T08:08:03+00:00

fact

Lost03-8 · 2020-06-13T20:32:55+00:00

The only thing they pride themselves on is they dick takin abilities so what do you expect they all fucking brain dead actin like we shouldn’t jus bat a hoe for dumb shit she already brain dead won’t hurt her

BreadLoafBrad · 2020-06-14T16:07:40+00:00

Shit maybe I should be gay, then it’s reasonable to split the check right?

2020-06-14T21:34:16+00:00

Lmao so it seems like out of all the work the men do all of this system is set up for is women to benefit and men to sacrifice so much for nothing in return , now when I say you got me fucked up .... 😂🤦‍♂️ the ego on women these days.

brawl-fan · 2020-06-15T08:10:26+00:00

That’s why you go for tomboys

peepeoepeoep · 2020-06-16T20:53:51+00:00

Some women were born just to be sex dolls

NugVegas · 2020-06-17T00:59:39+00:00

I'd have that bitch run into the gas station to get a pack of smokes and drinks with a $20 bill and leave her waaaaaaaay the fuck out in the next major city.

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2020-06-18T14:51:47+00:00

I agree that as a man, you should lead. Do an activity you’d do anyway with our without a date. If she wants to tag along, great. If not, I’m still doing me. As far as pay for everything, never. I don’t owe a stranger a dime. Woman work now and can pay for their own stuff.

turtleswag69 · 2020-05-26T16:03:28+00:00

Reading some of these comments and y’all are borderline incel. Y’all just need to find better girls and why the fuck y’all bringing up height like it’s actually relevant. No girl cares that you are short. The reality of it is, They just think you are a douchebag

SleepDeprivedUserUK · 2020-05-26T12:20:08+00:00

/u/repostsleuthbot

mtmclean86 · 2020-05-26T17:16:48+00:00

I mean her contribution is the pussy. Everything the man does is in an effort to get that. If he's satisfied her selfish needs, he is rewarded with the one thing she can offer. At least early on in the relationship. Things change if and when you might achieve a healthy relationship.

Koonsthekoons · 2020-05-26T17:44:22+00:00

This sub is an Incel sub

DLanceD · 2020-05-26T11:49:30+00:00

Lot of incels coming out of the woodwork ITT. Not all women are like this.

GalironRunner · 2020-05-26T12:35:40+00:00

I just like the ones that say you pick anything is good. Then bitch about your choice. It's taken years but I'm mostly trained my wife. If I ask were she wants to go and eat if she says anything good id pick what I know I liked and she hates. She dont sayanything is fine anymore lol. Still working on getting her to stop asking the do I look fat in these questions. I take heat but always say yes without even looking .

dobeye · 2020-05-26T14:13:37+00:00

So you're just a MGTOW? Cause you can just be MGTOW on r/MGTOW instead of going on here about how women are useless and dating is a scam

I... uh he's not wrong...

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