Maybe?

IntrovertTurtle2 · 2020-10-09T00:56:08+00:00

Don't ever trust random women bois. I'm serious. It's perfectly okay to not speak to someone about intimate and personal things until you feel completely comfortable and trusting enough to do so.

Probably going to get called a misogynist or sexist or something, but I am just giving my personal experience and perspective. I love all women, and have many women in my life that I admire and cherish.

Many women out there don't actually care about your personal problems or care about the shit men go through everyday. They just want emotional ammunition in case the relationship doesn't work out. Many women (not all of them) are just emotionally manipulative that way. They will literally beg you to open up, but as soon as you get into an argument/disagreement and they don't get their way, they will use whatever you told them against you.

Can't even recall how many times I have seen this in real life. It's happened to me a couple of times as well. The feeling of disgust/betrayal/anger you feel in this moment is indescribable. But learn to breathe and walk away if it ever happens to you.

You're going to get a lot of shit from a lot of women for having this perspective/mentality. But I can personally guarantee it's better to break up with a girl and find someone who is patient and understanding, than to trust the wrong person and have your heart ripped out and shit on.

P.S. If she doesn't wait for you to open up at your own pace, she's doesn't really love you, and doesn't really want a relationship with you, she just wants a warm body and free meals. When a woman really loves you, truly admires you, and cherishes being with you, she will wait as long as she has to for you to open up.

clopz_ · 2020-10-09T00:37:54+00:00

“If you cared about me you would already know where I am”

GumP009 · 2020-10-09T01:20:08+00:00

Bitch saying men have no communication skills when she writes like a 14 year old

ProfessorChuckFinley · 2020-10-09T00:23:47+00:00

She unintentionally admitted that she was the problem.

When a man is with someone who works with him and makes him feel welcome, his communication is great. When he is with someone judgmental and argumentative, his communication disappears.

Shes so close yet so far away from self awareness.

longlivestheking · 2020-10-09T02:32:50+00:00

Do yourself a favor lads and just take mixed signals as a no.

machvstraveler · 2020-10-09T03:44:11+00:00

“Contact left!”

“Which way?”

“Left!”

“What do you mean left? Which left?”

“East!!”

“What do you mean East?”

Convo me and a teammate had... while standing on the same building...

Proper communication requires a certain level of understanding to begin with.

Kyonkanno · 2020-10-09T01:57:12+00:00

"they're planting on A site"

+the whole team coordinates and knows what to do and how to do it without saying any other word+

Yeah, that's not gonna work with a gurl

Zetch505 · 2020-10-09T02:27:26+00:00

It’s a lot easier to say “shotgun east hallway” than it is to say “my crippling anxiety is ruining the relationship”

Hammer1024 · 2020-10-09T03:04:09+00:00

He's gotta point...

MAGPIECUmSLUT · 2020-10-09T02:03:12+00:00

Describing a situation and discussing strategy is a very different thing from generic conversational skills. One requires some level of awareness and strategic skill, and the other requires some level of creativity and social-mindedness. For one, the material for conversation is already there (the contents of the game), and for the other, you have to make it up yourself and decide what is appropriate (as just going off what the other person is saying will only get you so far).

In the situations being referred to, the subject matter is a lot more clear with the game, while the girl is probably referring to unclear emotional conversations where she will obfuscate the information being conveyed (“it’s fine”, “nothing’s wrong”, etc) which makes understanding such information significantly more difficult.

TL;DR They are completely different situations so treating them as equal as an argument is stupid.

Shr00minator · 2020-10-09T03:24:51+00:00

They targeted gamers.

Gamers.

We're a group of people who will sit for hours, days, even weeks on end performing some of the hardest, most mentally demanding tasks. Over, and over, and over all for nothing more than a little digital token saying we did.

We'll punish our selfs doing things others would consider torture, because we think it's fun.

We'll spend most if not all of our free time min maxing the stats of a fictional character all to draw out a single extra point of damage per second.

Many of us have made careers out of doing just these things: slogging through the grind, all day, the same quests over and over, hundreds of times to the point where we know evety little detail such that some have attained such gamer nirvana that they can literally play these games blindfolded.

Do these people have any idea how many controllers have been smashed, systems over heated, disks and carts destroyed 8n frustration? All to latter be referred to as bragging rights?

These people honestly think this is a battle they can win? They take our media? We're already building a new one without them. They take our devs? Gamers aren't shy about throwing their money else where, or even making the games our selves. They think calling us racist, mysoginistic, rape apologists is going to change us? We've been called worse things by prepubescent 10 year olds with a shitty head set. They picked a fight against a group that's already grown desensitized to their strategies and methods. Who enjoy the battle of attrition they've threatened us with. Who take it as a challange when they tell us we no longer matter. Our obsession with proving we can after being told we can't is so deeply ingrained from years of dealing with big brothers/sisters and friends laughing at how pathetic we used to be that proving you people wrong has become a very real need; a honed reflex.

Gamers are competative, hard core, by nature. We love a challange. The worst thing you did in all of this was to challange us. You're not special, you're not original, you're not the first; this is just another boss fight.

iced1777 · 2020-10-09T05:12:51+00:00

lmao I played with a dude exactly like this for awhile. Every fps the same, would jump in without communicating, get shot, sigh loudly, and explain what he imagined in his head we should have done while sighing loudly

LimpWibbler_ · 2020-10-09T05:14:20+00:00

Look man I need to yell at Yellow when we are mac 10 rushing B and that fucker decided to stop at the window we jump out when there is a molly balcony. Like come on Yellow FUCKING JUMP I AM BURNING. Then Purple throws a smoke and I am saved, but Yellow is now blind and just in all of our ways and we lose. I don't care if there was a guy cat yellow, If you got to the site he can't hit you and we could have all be watching market, besides green watching for an apts flank.

freman · 2020-10-09T03:19:59+00:00

Also, have you ever actually listened to those conversations? If half of what boys say to each other in general banter/ribbing style conversation was said to a girl she'd have a breakdown.

ActualWhiterabbit · 2020-10-09T05:27:22+00:00

One time my ex wife was listening to my highlander team lose a match. She said listening to us was giving her anxiety because at the time I had broken my headphones during a gaming accident and had to play with speaker audio.

After our match was over, it was pretty much the same sentiment as the initial post but had some added psyD grad school vocab

Rip IFA Ω

Jonas_- · 2020-10-09T04:12:04+00:00

Maybe the emails were from a Nigerian prince?

SDSUAZTECS · 2020-10-09T04:39:06+00:00

So funny

omfgipwnedunoobs · 2020-10-09T04:48:54+00:00

Except thats exactly the response I get from my friends when im playing COD...

DUBIOUS_OBLIVION · 2020-10-09T04:59:30+00:00

Repost

2020-10-09T05:09:26+00:00

Facts

Revorob · 2020-10-09T05:11:28+00:00

That is so 100% true.

iNuclearChicken · 2020-10-09T05:38:21+00:00

Aaaaaaand have my award

hd_malicious · 2020-10-09T05:40:54+00:00

Also, it usually is life or death

UndulatingSky · 2020-10-09T05:43:25+00:00

I'mma be honest with you, we don't do that shit all the time. For me it's like "bro he's on A bomb site you fucking idiot" and then my friend either is muted or he just calls me a retard and then afterwards we blame each other for our mistakes until the end of the game where we laugh and don't give a shit. Unless we're trying to rank up. Then it's a whole fucking military strategy life vs death scenario

Renn132 · 2020-10-09T06:17:15+00:00

This bitch CLEARLY has no idea what bois really communicate ABOUT while gaming... If we used our gaming "communication skills" in public, imagine the shitstorms that's gonna be created...

SaintClaude · 2020-10-09T06:24:12+00:00

Conversations with girls like her are like having a teammate that types the callout after the round is over

2020-10-09T06:42:26+00:00

Someone hasn’t played among us.

2020-10-09T07:11:42+00:00

This is just a copy of that "shotgun in the hallway" one

Blue_reaper_ · 2020-10-09T07:23:14+00:00

r/niceguys

q00qy · 2020-10-09T08:38:39+00:00

Dont worry, its just a few bullets

Megalomatank030 · 2020-10-09T03:57:10+00:00

Okay this doesn’t really apply to a sub. This is a joke with a serious response, that’s really all.

FreyjadourV · 2020-10-09T04:15:24+00:00

This sub is just looking for an excuse to be mad sometimes, it’s obviously a joke post.

starsaber132 · 2020-10-09T04:27:05+00:00

MGTOW is the only option for men

w3duder · 2020-10-09T02:59:42+00:00

Where is the pussypass?

qwertash1 · 2020-10-09T02:40:51+00:00

not my experience these "men" have small pps

Title	Maybe?
Author	ConnectHurry
Upvotes	11066
Comments	208
Date	October 8, 2020 11:43 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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