body count

cohost3 · 2022-10-22T20:28:59+00:00

Absolutely, and I think the most insidious thing women do is tell other women that is doesn’t matter.

I see “A real man wouldn’t care!” or “he will never know” all over other woman’s subs and it’s just not true. He might be willing to accept a few previous partners because that’s pretty much the lowest option now a days - but almost no man wants a woman that’s been intimate with lots of people. He might put up with it if he really likes you, but deep down he’s not happy with it.

I think most woman are also unhappy after having multiple partners, and most woman are miserable being in “situationships”. Yet they still spread this message.

mistressusa · 2022-10-22T21:24:04+00:00

I think studies have shown a correlation between promiscuity and divorce, for both women and men.

I always thought that women with high body count could just lie, if asked. But at another sub recently, someone posted a list of signs that indicate high body count in women. I have to say, his list was pretty accurate for the few high count women I know irl. So, if a man cares about body count and he can recognize the signs, he could choose to stay away from women with high count. Or not get into a LTR with them.

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-10-22T21:42:09+00:00

I think high body counts can be symptoms of other things. For a lot of people it may be a sign of trauma, an inability to bond emotionally, or just a lack of desire to be in a committed relationship. So yes, if it is a sign of a mental health issue, that mental health issue is probably going to effect the relationship.

I'm not sure about other women with high body counts, but I've never personally experienced being Alpha Widowed and I don't compare my husband to other men in the bedroom. These are stereotypes that I've heard the RedPill community spout about promiscuous women, but they're not something I've experienced. I'd be curious to see if other women have experienced them at all.

pieorstrudel5 · 2022-10-22T19:55:58+00:00

I think it does. Male or female. There is a lot of focus on women's body count in the RP world. But I would say promiscuity no matter the gender says a lot about the person. Not saying it's bad. But I definitely don't understand why women are the ones who get villainized for promiscuity.

Anon82634 · 2022-10-22T21:40:23+00:00

Yes it can, sorry I don't have a woman's perspective but there are a few studies out there that indicate more partners can have negative impacts on future relationships. If I remember correctly I think for women it was over 5 or so partners that the impact started growing. Sex releases chemicals that can help you bond with a partner, so more casual sex with various partners could lead to a less intimate bond. In a way it sort of rewires your brain to not view sex and intimacy as being as meaningful and bonding between you and your partner. These studies also indicated that over 5 partners for women lead to a big increase in being unhappily married 10yrs down the road after marriage. I think there was some impact on guys as well but much less so due to guys being wired differently. My wife was a Virgin, I wasn't looking to marry a Virgin specifically but I can say our bond 15yrs in is as intimate and good as it has ever been, I had only slept with 1 other person, she said she was happy I had previous experience but that I hadn't slept around a ton. And even if you don't have a lot of experience, open communication and willingness to experiment together can lead to an extremely fulfilling sex life.

abishagofthevalley · 2022-10-22T19:52:55+00:00

I inherently never could trust guys with higher body counts. They take sex lightly and not as meaningful. Major Weltanschauung mismatch. Im sure there's many repellants if I were to make a list but this too is one of them.

Interesting_Exam8166 · 2022-10-22T20:02:21+00:00

Yes and no - I think it depends on how/why. I wouldn't have married a virgin and neither would my husband.

Wondering if the grass is greener was not something either of us wanted to worry about, having some experience allowed us both to talk more openly about sex before we did stuff.

With that said - my husband is the only man who has touched me in about 17 years, so if I ever have to start over, if not being a virgin was a deal breaker down the road, the man wouldn't be my type anyways. (or woman, I go both ways.)

I've had a full life, I don't have any regrets that way, and I'm confident in my sexuality and I'm willing to communicate it. I am almost past my childbearing years, (37, and currently pregnant.) so if I had to start over, it would be with an entirely different stage of my life going forward.

These things are important to discuss. It's not just about virgin status, or being 20. Relationships are more complicated than that, and the stage of life your at.

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Mission_Honeydew_597 · 2022-10-23T03:32:53+00:00

Why was this deleted 😭 I want to read

ihearthandbags · 2022-10-22T20:40:39+00:00

There’s no reason to ask or share your specific amount of partners. Past relationships will inevitably come up and having a lot of relationships should lead to questions. But if either person had a little too much fun in college or something that’s their journey that no one is obligated to. I would be completely turned off by a man who asked how many people I’ve been with, even though my number is relatively low. It’s rude at this point.

Title	body count
Author	alphagigachadsigma
Upvotes	9
Comments	41
Date	October 22, 2022 7:40 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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