Does my profession matter?

LawyerInTheMaking · 2018-01-11T09:10:44+00:00

Your profession doesn’t get a mans dick hard (please excuse the crass language but I hope you see what I’m getting at). What does however is your attitude, personality, demeanour, physical attractiveness, etc. In general, a girls profession really doesn’t matter because what we take away is that she has a job and that she make for good conversation. A girls profession can be a negative sometimes though because many women overemphasize the value of their profession when it comes to dating men. For those women, profession = high status = entitlement towards a certain caliber of men. This creates a lot of negative connotations which affect women in similar/same profession who are not like those women because men don’t want to deal with the possibility that a woman might exhibit those connotations.

NubianIbex · 2018-01-11T07:12:21+00:00

I think it has more to do with having a career you're enthusiastic about, doesn't really matter what it is. Having some career goals and success (whatever you define as success) helps you be less dependent on emotional validation from your partner.

TradJenna · 2018-01-11T10:53:03+00:00

I think it might but it might not. I’m incapable of too many things. Too many details or responding to too many bosses or managers. As a result my homelife struggles.

Some women, many, can be a domestic goddesses and have good work and keep it in balance. ie. don’t bring your work home.

Also having passion for the right job could mean you can do it with little effort or grind, because you love it. So if your skin glows because your happy, your apt to put that effort into your domestic responsibilities.

Make sure to put your man first and see if you can handle both. Home first, career advancement is lower on the totem pole after kids, home and aging parents.

ragnarockette · 2018-01-12T00:37:17+00:00

I think your choice of profession sounds great!

Men don't value high status professions in the same way women do. A waitress and a high powered female executive are just as capable of turning him on. However, I think for marriage purposes that most men will want a woman who has a stable, grown-up job. Like a politician is not going to be marrying a hairdresser most likely. Owning your own skincare business definitely falls into that category!

However, I think being a teacher, or a mid-level businesswoman, or a librarian is just fine and puts you in the "dateable" range for 99% of men.

WhatIsThisAccountFor · 2018-01-11T22:29:28+00:00

Profession means almost nothing when it comes to attracting men. It only matters if you're a camgirl, pornstar, escort or something similar and affects you in a negative manner.

The only thing your profession will in terms of relationships as a woman is affect who you spend your days with. If you are a female doctor you will find it easy to date male doctors because you spend 40+ hours a week around them. outside of that though, means very very little.

Rivkariver · 2018-01-12T18:12:31+00:00

The only thing I cared about was not making so much that men don't feel needed and not putting career above him.

If we were already married and I sold a book or something of course that would be great. But it's different bc I wouldn't be at an office all day.

StepfordInTexas · 2018-01-11T17:59:49+00:00

I think your intended career path is perfect for a potential red pill marriage. It’s very nurturing and will tap into your feminine side and not require you to constantly flip back and forth between masculine and feminine.

yamaholo · 2018-01-12T15:23:45+00:00

I make a healthy income and I'm considering taking on a more long-term girl now. I'd be happy with a partner who made even half of what I make, provided she checks off the items which are MUCH higher on the list (and those items are the standard RedPill items).

The amount of money a girl makes is not a determining factor for me. In fact, girls who make TONS of money (not celebrities or special cases-- just normal women) are always the types of girls who are domineering, masculine, and aggressive. This isn't a causation, but it sure as hell is a correlation.

I have several female friends who are "power women," making good money and constantly seeking to move up the ladder. Ages range from 26 to 42. Each and every one of these women is miserable in her romantic life. They honestly believe that they are entitled to upper-level men, now that they themselves are upper-level power women who have taken on the masculine role. And when they see their upper-level male colleagues scoring all these hot tasty younger women, my friends then think, "Oh ok, that means that I myself will now get all the hot tasty men, since I'm now making all the money and being domineering and masculine."

That's just not how it works, and no amount of militant feminist cultural conditioning will ever change that.

Title	Does my profession matter?
Author	Blueeyeddd
Upvotes	7
Comments	45
Date	January 11, 2018 6:57 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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