Getting a plastic surgery

ygfam · 2023-03-25T12:43:35+00:00

I don't understand why people don't like their hooded eyes. Imo they give off a very sexy look. Feel free to do what you want but remember it's not a magic fix to all your problems and I think you just need to love yourself more. There's a huge risk with surgery.

ReformSociety · 2023-03-25T11:55:29+00:00

I see surgery as self-improvement, no different than how people groom their hair, wear nice clothes, and exercise to get fit.

But don't forget to work on your insecurities also as surgery isn't some magical fix to all of your problems. Be 100% confident no matter your physical appearance. It's all about how beautiful your soul is.

We can't really recommend whether to do eyes or nose, especially when we don't know what you look like--go to a specialist and get an expert opinion.

4rosesforyou · 2023-03-25T14:24:51+00:00

Just to let you know: eye bags are fixable and usually a sign of a nutrient deficient diet and stress.

Try to cut out caffeine and add high quality beef liver to your diet. Fixing your sleep can also help.

I’ve seen people thinking their eye bags are genetic, but in reality their whole family was just malnourished and stressed.

Wife_and_Mama · 2023-03-25T13:06:50+00:00

I don't think there's anything wrong with plastic surgery. I had a breast reduction at 15 and have had several moles removed for cosmetic reasons. When my husband and I started IVF, he agreed I could start saving for a tummy tuck if I got pregnant with multiples. When we found out we were having twins, I set up an account. I'd like one more child first, so I have a few years, but I plan to go into my 40s healthy and confident.

All that said, it sounds like you're doing this for emotional reasons and to please others, more than you're doing it for yourself. It sounds like you should spend some time trying to accept yourself as you are, perhaps in therapy even. I'm not saying you shouldn't get surgery, but if you're treating your own insecurities, there's a good chance you won't feel any different afterwards. Additionally, the kind of surgery you're talking about can be very well done, but also very poorly done, especially if you're trying to save money. There is a chance that the work done won't suit your face and you won't feel any better about appearing as though you've had poorly done plastic surgery than you do about your natural idiosyncrasies.

Most people don't have perfect faces. Try to find out if that's all this is for you. You likely look entirely normal. If that's not the case, save for an excellent surgeon and pursue therapy in the meantime.

Miserable-Read7597 · 2023-03-25T14:02:06+00:00

I would recommend consulting with multiple doctors to determine minor (or the most minimal) tweaks that could help with your appearance. Research and invest in a really great surgeon. Please keep in mind possible negatives like tissue death, infections, healing times being delayed.

Try to find positive features about yourself that you like and change your self-talk about your appearance. I say this because surgery was not a cure for insecurity. It also won’t magically make you more feminine. Those come from the inside. You likely will need to do the same inner-work with or without the surgery.

Puzzleheaded-Lab7741 · 2023-03-25T19:59:35+00:00

Your in your own head to much, get out of your own way.

angelicasinensis · 2023-03-25T13:48:02+00:00

I think that using health foods, supplements , fasting and exercise can bring about way more positive changes than surgery.

divinecohmedy · 2023-03-25T15:15:50+00:00

I think plastic surgeries can enhance or improve what you already have, but it is best done in moderation. Id suggest looking in a mirror and noting what you love about your face and what you want changed, while also keeping in mind your facial balance.

Aside from that, consult a doctor (or doctors) whos board certified and has a lot of good reviews. Ask them their professional opinion, and dont chase surgical trends. Maybe one would suggest maybe a filler and the other would suggest something else, do research on what they recommend and find the one that suits your needs

Surgery wont be the fix-all cure for your problems, but i think they can enhance your confidence and make you more comfortable in your own skin if you dont already. I myself used to hate my extemely hooded eyes bc it makes me look monolided, but i worked on that and now im very comfortable with my natural features, and I do believe in beautiful inside equals beautiful outside. So if you do decide to get the surgery, dont forget to work on your on feelings because i believe these things work in tandem with one another

sunlitroof · 2023-03-25T13:02:35+00:00

Since my personal opinion of PS was asked this is my opinion. Please dont take it personally and im not interested in debating about it with anyone.

I think cosmetic surgies outside of some extreme situation (like a face burn) is usually more harmful to a person than helpful. I think it only magnifies your insecurity. I think its bad to obesss so much about a trait you dont like that you to under a knife and possibly harm yourself. I think some are bullied into it too, which is terrible. Then some get bullied after it which adds more misery. I think its better to accept yourself as you are. I am ok with things small cosmetic adjustments like getting braces, or smthn but plastic surgery will always seem extreme to me. Not to mention health risks or crazy expenses for it, things that go wrong or cost of any upkeep. I would never want to do it and wouldnt encourage others too.

Especially if i would do it, i would think, what message am I sending to my younger sister about body image? Is my physical apperance such a priority that I should go under a knife for it? What kind of insecurities could that build in her?

I think there are much healthier ways to improve your body image, like eating well, exercise, journaling and positive thinking on what you like about your body instead of focusing on what you dont. And focusing on what your body does instead of what it looks like. (Example im so glad my nice legs take me where i need to go, im glad my nose can pick up so many kinds of scents, im happy my eyes can see so well etc). These are things that improved my body image and i feel good about my body when i accept it for what it is. But i am not everybody and i cant speak for anyone elses mental health and what they may do.

AutoModerator · 2023-03-25T11:08:45+00:00

Title: Getting a plastic surgery

Full text: Hey, it's me again. I guess I'm stuck with my looks on this journey to find my own womanhood. I feel that my appearance has too many masculine features. Like my nose, chin, eyes. When I try to act in a feminine way, I feel like it's very strange to me because I don't look cute or sweet. Also, since I have a genetic heritage, my eyes are hooded and I have eye bags, it gives me a very tired look, even if I put on make-up, I can't cover it up. I was recently considering getting surgery for my eyes and nose, but my family said they couldn't afford both so I have to choose one. I don't want to regret doing this, I want to know what you think about plastic surgery. If any of you have had it done, can you share your experiences?

I also sometimes wonder if people don’t like me rn cause how I look in a romantic relationship, will their feelings be genuine after surgeries? Do I deserve to be loved only if I am beautiful? Sounds quite depressing to me. I'm afraid to project these feelings onto the people I will meet in future.

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countrylemon · 2023-03-25T13:18:34+00:00

OP if you don’t mind me asking, how old are youV

alady-in-the-streets · 2023-03-25T12:40:39+00:00

Surgery is a lie. Men desire women based on genetics, and when you lie about how you look, those genetics are passed down to kids that will then be likely to receive your natural (possibly unattractive) features. What would it say to your kids if they find out that you thought a trait you gave to them was so unattractive that you had it surgically altered? I would be mortified.

To me, it's no different than a man lying about how much money he makes.

Then there's the factor of safety and botched surgeries. I've met more people who look plain weird after an elective surgery than those who don't. Plastic surgery was invented for fixing broken bits, not for lying about what we look like. It is not a perfect science and it doesn't always come out looking the way you want it to. Additionally, any surgery comes with safety risks, and doing it purely for cosmetic reasons is... a bit steep to me. I literally knew a woman who got a boob-job, and the anesthesia paralyzed her for life. I'm not saying that its likely, but I don't suggest playing the lottery on that if you don't need to.

That being said, and it's your face to do with as you please. Everyone will have their own opinions on it, but it's ultimately up to you.

brushshstrokes · 2023-03-25T18:20:05+00:00

Go get a second opinion from a couple of plastic surgeons on what would benefit your face. You may think it's your eyes or nose when really it's something else throwing off your facial harmony.

That said, people tend to regret plastic surgeries they got for others and not themselves. Make sure you're doing this for yourself.

SilasDewgud · 2023-03-25T23:23:59+00:00

I don't think any guy cares about hooded eyes. The bags may help you feel more confident. It could also make you look younger and more refreshed.

If you have to pick one, that would probably be the one.

springbby24 · 2023-03-26T03:19:46+00:00

Instead of a full rhinoplasty, look into fillers for nose and undereyes.. they are temporary and not as pricy (around 500 - 700). In regards to the beauty thing, that is something I wonder about a lot... "if someone falls in love with me bcos I'm pretty, are they really in love? Will they leave when my beauty fades away? Will they leave after they get bored? Am I a trophy gf? I don't want to attract people I actually care about with my looks only, so I make a point to not wear makeup/ be very chill/regular looking when we are getting to know each other bcos if they stay and get used to my makeup-less face and flawfull body its because there is something else they are attracted to.

Title	Getting a plastic surgery
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Date	March 25, 2023 11:08 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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