How can I make up for n count?

youllknowwhenitstime · 2024-06-28T03:18:20+00:00

N-count of 3 with no intercourse is not a horrible background and you shouldn't tell yourself it is, or you'll self-sabotage because you have poor self image.

If asked, say you fooled around with the long-term boyfriend but never had intercourse. There's no reason to mention the others unless you very publicly had a ho phase on Instagram or bragged about it to all your friends or something that could follow you, and you're not misrepresenting yourself as an untouched virgin. It never happened. Learn to be private. If you have a tendency to trauma-dump, STOP THAT.

Now, about moving on...

Think about your ideal future life, your ideal spouse, your ideal relationship setup. Get detailed.
Now think about the kind of man you want, who builds that kind of life and leads you to it.
What does that man want in a spouse? What kind of woman would be attractive to and help a man like that?
What can you do to become that woman, or better become that woman?

If you want to go from a teenager who fooled around to fullblown tradwife, I have specific tips for that, but there are plenty of other ideal lives you may have in mind so I won't do a write-up on that unless you or someone else wants it.

poetically-living · 2024-06-28T12:50:24+00:00

you are a virgin by the definition of most men so I wouldn't even count the 2 flings as bodies.

as the top comment said, say you fooled around with your ex before but you're still a virgin if asked, if not don't bring the subject up

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-06-28T14:55:20+00:00

Well, good news: guys only count PIV so from our perspective your N-count is zero.

There are some men, Not sure what the percentage would be, but it’s not big, who think that oral sex counts as body count, but I tend to think they’re very repressed. If you were talking about just kissing, then that doesn’t move the N-count needle at all.

So congratulations, you are off the hook, and still a virgin, now go enjoy the rest of your day.

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Title: How can I make up for n count?

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Full text: I'm 18 (incoming sophomore in uni) and I have an n count of 3 people 1 being a LTR relationship the others being short flings. I technically have never done piv cause of a pelvic floor condition which by very technical terms means I'm still a virgin. I'm in a relationship right now but I regret my two times that weren't in a relationship but since I'm young I thought it was still okay. I work on myself and my appearance very highly though and I don't really suit flings and hookups anyway which is what I learned about that period in my life. What should I do?

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sandstonexray · 2024-06-28T04:06:50+00:00

For a long time I always thought I would settle down with a much younger, low N count, no tattoo/piercing foreign woman. Instead, I fell in love with a smart, gorgeous, slightly younger, highly tattooed, highly pierced, half-foreign woman.

Shit happens. If you are high value, it shouldn't matter very much.

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tornteddie · 2024-06-28T02:17:26+00:00

You dont. Past is past. It doesnt change your body, it doesnt change anything fundamentally about you. So youve had sex, so have billions of other people. You cant go back and change it. Only growth from here. If it really bothers you, figure out why, and go from there

And any guy thats stuck on body count is a child. People have sex. Thats not a new concept

SeeeVeee · 2024-06-28T02:54:30+00:00

You're a virgin, and overthinking this. You're fine, continue not having flings. It's good that you understand this about yourself so early, you're ahead of the game.

Title	How can I make up for n count?
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