How do you deal with risk

TheBunk_TB · 2024-08-26T23:36:29+00:00

Be a person of class, eloquence, and integrity?

This spans religions

InevitableKiwi5776 · 2024-08-26T23:39:26+00:00

Just like every other woman, you need to cultivate your RMV. This means making yourself “wife material”. You need to do this yourself even if you expect to have an arranged marriage of some sort. You need to learn what men value and do your best to provide that to your husband, if you want a chance at a happy and successful marriage.

Jenneapolis · 2024-08-27T00:05:16+00:00

In this case, the woman would probably marry another guy who is 250 pounds and has no real solid masculine skills to offer. Unattractive people marry unattractive people all the time. A guy like that has very few options and probably is not pumping and dumping because there’s not a lot of girls who will let him pump.

youllknowwhenitstime · 2024-08-27T00:14:55+00:00

"Let's say I was incapable of winning the commitment of the level of man I desire."

You become capable of winning the commitment of the level of man you desire.

Never has anyone here ever claimed anyone can get what they want without working for it. In your hypothetical example that would mean losing weight, learning to cook from YouTube, changing your media consumption (and people consumption) to elevate your mindset, taking an actual makeup class (because no YouTube video can help you understand your own face), and other appearance-bettering measures. (Fortunately, feminine beauty is highly controllable. Although those who are truly deformed will need to get their finances together to pay for dental work or whatever correction is needed.)

Your other option?

Make the conscious decision to settle for winning the commitment of the level of man you're capable of with no self improvement. The girl getting an arranged marriage will not win anything she couldn't have otherwise won.

Consistent-Citron513 · 2024-08-27T03:06:10+00:00

I don't have sex outside of marriage. There are various reasons for this (none of them religious), but this something I won't budge on. If all they want is sex, they're not worth it. My last ex would try to make me feel guilty for not having sex with him even though I shared my thoughts on the topic early on. I loved him, but I'm glad I didn't shift my values for his guilt-tripping.

AnonishCath · 2024-08-28T02:34:55+00:00

Now, this isn’t a problem for me anymore since I converted to Islam and am going to get married that way

Good luck with that, being a Muslim convert won’t remove all your problems lmao

let’s say I was 5’4” and in the 200s, no cooking skills, not wife material at all whatsoever, the kind of girl men bring home but is so ugly they won’t show to friends, doesn’t know makeup, etc

You know all of that is within a woman’s control, right? Lose weight, learn to cook, etc

It’s the 2020’s you have to have sex on the third date. Then they pump and dump you and blame you for a high body count… oh well.

Again, within your control. If you spend time with men like this and compromise on your values, you’ll end up with trash. Plenty of us don’t let strangers hit and quit.

Sounds like the answer to your question is “discipline”

biohacking-babe · 2024-08-27T14:13:47+00:00

Troll alert

AutoModerator · 2024-08-26T23:02:50+00:00

Title: How do you deal with risk

Author MathematicianMean273

Full text: TL;DR How do you get a guy to commit to you if you have to have sex outside of marriage?

Now, this isn’t a problem for me anymore since I converted to Islam and am going to get married that way, but if I was single and non-Muslim, let’s say I was 5’4” and in the 200s, no cooking skills, not wife material at all whatsoever, the kind of girl men bring home but is so ugly they won’t show to friends, doesn’t know makeup, etc

How would I get a man to commit to me? They all want sex and now since it’s the 2020’s you have to have sex on the third date. Then they pump and dump you and blame you for a high body count… oh well.

Not that I’m really wife material but I don’t see that changing anytime soon. At least I can still get married through my imam.

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tornteddie · 2024-08-26T23:36:13+00:00

Dont compromise on your values. Find a man that respects/shares them.

Title	How do you deal with risk
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Date	August 26, 2024 11:02 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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