Hi all, I made a post a few months ago lamenting how ‘I feel invisible’ to men and then the strangest thing happened… men started popping up everywhere! So thanks to this sub for helping me make some progress!

I was recently on a trip a few hours from my city, and was approached by a man who is literally my ideal. Smart, business owner, successful, generous, handsome, polite, cultured etc… 12 year age gap which is perfect for me. We spent time together over a few days (nothing sexual) but ultimately it seems he just wants a good time and nice company.

My questions is how can I keep on improving myself so that if I come across another man like this, I’ll actually inspire him to commit? I’m very committed to getting what I want in marriage, and I feel it’s close. I know getting a young-ish wealthy man isn’t easy. Any tips?