Hi, I met someone recently while asking for directions... He seemed to be MORE than helpful, and asked if we could exchange numbers. I didn't get any weird vibes from him, so we exchanged numbers, he asked me out, and is extremely chivalrous when we meet. His personality is animated, but that can be draining for me at times because my energy levels fluctuate throughout the day. As we speak he will ask me a question then as I open my mouth to respond he is already answering the question for me four times over.

Ex: What did you have for lunch today? I know you had Chipotle, you love Chipotle, Oh you said you liked Chinese food etc. etc. I told him that IRKS MY SOUL. He continues. I find him to be a poor listener at best.

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Last night we went out on a second date and he emphasized how much hes looking for a serious relationship, after I told him that I'm "having fun" As a co-pilot I see a huge storm cloud ahead but he is happily pushing forward. I told him three or four times that I am not looking for a relationship and he just tried to word the conversation differently.

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Then he told me that he NEEDS ME and looked me dead in the eye as saying this. I saw in his phone a few conversations in his texts where he is "needy" with women.

I am not one to waste anyone's time but I like him as a friend, and want to continue our friendship.

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Love it or list it?