I am a 22 year old (virgin) engineering student in one of the larger metro cities in India. After living in this ultra blue-pill society for my whole life, simultaneous desire and revulsion towards women is what I feel mostly. I have tried to filter my emotions out of this post and resort to facts and well-reasoned arguments.

A bit of background: Until recently, I was the quintessential good boy of my traditional Indian parents, which basically means I was a socially awkward pussy who believed the only way forward was by studying, being subservient, getting a high-paying job (basically a beta provider) and then look for a wife. This is the script most Indian middle class families follow, and I was no exception. However, while growing up, I came across numerous inconsistencies with this arrangement, most of which I fully understand now courtesy TRP.

As much as anyone would have you believe, the Indian society is NOT patriarchal, but overwhelmingly matriarchal. This is what happens when society as a whole rewards beta provider behaviour over alpha machismo for generations; you get a bunch of pussies (who are controlled by their crazy wives) in legislation to draft laws and construct social structures to restrict and curtail manly behaviour. And what do I mean by 'many behaviour'? The simple act of asking out a girl. In India, a mere asking out a girl for coffee can land you in jail, for real. See the below link:

Why is it difficult to date an Indian woman?

The Anon OP gets arrested for asking out a woman. The Anon OP asks out a woman doctor in the hospital. She says 'Get lost', guy backs off and leaves her alone. Sometime later, the guy gets his ass hauled to the security office by the woman (and her husband who also worked there) and is threatened with severe consequences for asking out a woman. Guy tells them to 'fuck themselves as he had broken no law'. What follows next is that the Anon OP gets beaten up by cops and gets dragged to the Police Station, and that he is slapped with lawsuits of sexual harassment by the woman and her husband. Luckily the Anon with his lawyer manage to work out a solution, and he apologises to the woman for asking her out. Yes, you read that right. He actually apologizes to the woman for asking her out. Such is the state of Indian society when it comes to cold approaching women in public.

The city where I live in, guys being beta and a pussy is pretty much the norm. Girls here, and I refer to the urban middle and upper classes are self-entitled bitches who consider that by being in a relationship, they are doing the guy a favour. This happens because most guys here are vagina-worshipping beta orbiters who have been conditioned from childhood to put women on a pedestal while not getting any pussy. And as far as having sex is concerned, girls will not have sex with you (unless you are an white dude, even then beware! She might just sue you for rape if you don’t marry her.) citing traditions, culture and society while playing the power games that thoroughly wreck confidence of men as a collective while approaching them.

Bottom-line: Traditional gender-roles are not always the bliss. Al least the western chicks are sexually liberated enough to have sex while in their late teens and early twenties. No such luck for Indians, so 25 year old male virgins are the norm.

Query: How do I break out of this repressive society? I cannot practice game because approaching girls brings with it a chance of being booked for harassment, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze because I know she won’t be having sex with me, but will extract the emotional support that a relationship entails. I go to the gym and run weekly for 10+ kms, so that is the only TRP thing I can do.