Askhamsters about why they cheated.

Evers89 · 2014-02-25T05:26:50+00:00

his sub delivers again. I hesitated clicking into this conversation because the rabid demonisation of women (and occasionally, but less often, men) who cheat is quite depressing. And by that of course I don't support cheating or betrayal of trust in the slightest - but there's something so medieval about the reaction in reddit sometimes. In here there's actual serious and reasonable conversation.

I see. She's the victim here. In fact cheating women in general are victims in their marriages and on reddit. I guess she has a point though: don't feel bad for the guys.

lupilipid · 2014-02-25T08:42:13+00:00

The comments were so fucking disgusting.

Those husbands call themselves men? Especially those who take care of the other dude's baby. The baby is a constant reminder of the betrayal. Jeez!

I would rather have my dick chopped off instead of raising another guys's baby.

LinkenSphere · 2014-02-25T10:55:29+00:00

She came clean eventually, but its a complicated story. I caught her during the emotional affair and all they had done was kiss at that point. They continued into a physical affair that she admitted to later in counseling. We were already in counseling when it happened.

Strange thing. I always thought fucking counseling solves every god damn problem ever?

f0undation · 2014-02-25T05:08:20+00:00

wow.

Guy here. My wife cheated on me years ago. She never told me and I am glad she didn't, because I know I wouldn't have handled it well. I suspected something was going on. A lot of extra time being spent with friends, distance, and the new relationship glow. We were driving in silence and I pulled the car over. I told her, "I don't want to know any details. I just don't want you to do anything that will destroy me, us or the way our daughter grows up." (Daughter was six at the time.) Wife started crying. I held her. Ten years later and we are stronger than ever.

kuddos to you and how handled the situation. I'm glad things are good for you guys!

You are such a strong person. I would have never been able to handle that so well.

Imagine them reversed roles.

autoNFA · 2014-02-25T09:08:21+00:00

In other words, women act and then concoct rationalizations in order to live with themselves. We all know this, don't need to go over to askwomen of all places to receive confirmation.

But what did surprise me is the amount of betas chiming in support. Like homie, these are your fucking future wives we're talking about. Why are you chiming in with your 2c, encouraging their cheating is ok circlejerk. Ten years later its going to be your dumb ass sitting in the beta dad's seat in one of these stories, and you're wife will be the one confessing and playing the victim.

The psychological damage done to a man, the sheer brute force required to make a dude who is mentally healthy, capable of logic, educated, etc go and support behavior that hurts him is huge. It's comparable to imperial powers going into colonies like Britain in India, and then making the Indians all aspire to be more British / idolize British culture.

You can hate these beta guys for being such pathetic bitches, but for the most part, these are normal dudes with perfectly healthy brains and bodies, who in a different society would do just fine. The damage done to them psychologically is just extreme. On one hand, yes, they are bitches for not having the mental fortitude to resist the BP dogma, but on the otherhand, if I grew up in some of the households these guys must of grown up in, maybe I'd be too.

johnnight · 2014-02-25T14:04:24+00:00

My husband loves this baby because she's apart of me and he loves me unconditionally.

Why are genetic losers even in the gene pool.

vengefully_yours · 2014-02-25T06:42:36+00:00

Both of my wives cheated, both of them, and quite a few other girlfriends also cheated, each and every one of them blamed me, said I was abusive, controlling, and the last one claimed I limited her freedom.

If I had been abusive and controlling, the bitches would still be with me because that is what they like. Instead I treated them well and they decided to fall on a dick and blame me for it. Never again.

smokeybehr · 2014-02-25T11:11:22+00:00

She came clean eventually, but its a complicated story. I caught her during the emotional affair and all they had done was kiss at that point. They continued into a physical affair that she admitted to later in counseling. We were already in counseling when it happened.

Trickle truth, and full-beta mode. Read that last sentence over and over: THEY WERE ALREADY IN COUNSELING WHEN IT HAPPENED. IOW, she didn't give a shit about the marriage, and fucked someone else while HE wanted to get things straightened out.

Samantha_Simpson · 2014-02-25T06:40:00+00:00

You need to man up and take care of the mess I caused! You need to man up and take care of YOUR daughter! Who has nothing to do with you! But she is yours because we're married and I want you to provide for her and me! When I go out into the world seeking some more alpha cock, you will stay here because YOU need to be a father and a responsible adult!

I would've kicked her ass out flat! So she'd know what she caused. She'll just make another beta feel bad about her and make him take care of her. But if he's dumb enough to feel bad for the octopus, he'll be responsible for his own mess.

America, you've given your women too much slack. It's time to reel the hounds back in and starve them so they know once again, the meaning of gratitude.

Endevour · 2014-02-25T10:13:34+00:00

Fuck me.

Yes I came clean. I got pregnant with the other guy's baby.

Yes we're still married and plan to stay married.

The last question you asked would require a wall of text (to give background and context to it all) to answer.

For now I'll say it's a work in progress.

OP is asked if she had an aportion.

No, that's never been an option for me.

I'm five months pregnant. The other guy says he'll sign over his paternal rights to my husband when she is born. His wife (yes, he's married too) said that if the baby was a girl she didn't want him to have anything to do with it (because they have two boys and she's always wanted a girl.)

My husband loves this baby because she's apart of me and he loves me unconditionally. My kids are excited about having a new baby sister.

The bottomline is get a fucking paternity test!

nivek7913 · 2014-02-25T14:48:22+00:00

Wow women have it soooo hard. I mean fucking other men on a whim and having their mangina stay with them, even if she's carrying another man's baby. Poor poor women. They were obviously forced to cheat because of the constant "abuse," and not because they're sluts.

Honestly these "men" deserve whatever they get. They sure as hell are not to be respected.

Don't. Get. Married.

2014-02-25T09:12:52+00:00

Top two posts are men staying with cheaters. Says a lot about what the women who use that forum want in a husband: a good provider who let's you fuck attractive men, basically an ATM that gives out free money.

2014-02-25T10:45:49+00:00

FML. These guys are disgusting. How fucking low can you go? No wonder western civilization is falling apart.

blowlinesfuckdimes · 2014-02-25T14:48:06+00:00

If that confession thread is TRP porn, this is TRP gore. Barf.

GushyWetWet15 · 2014-02-25T13:31:55+00:00

oh fucking lord i'm really hoping that slut who got preggers by another man and her husband pathetically staying with her is a troll. i.......just can't. these faggots should chop their fucking balls off since, i mean they haven't got any use for them if they are comfortable in letting their wives get fucked and impregnated by other men so whats the point in keeping them?

2014-02-25T12:04:24+00:00

So much of what people say is just noise, designed to delude themselves and others. They will say nearly anything, most of the time never realizing that what they say makes no sense.

It's social noise, nothing more. And it's so easy to spot that it is ridiculous.

HitlersCow · 2014-02-25T10:21:21+00:00

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thekidfromthegutter · 2014-02-25T14:21:18+00:00

As much as disgusting and nauseating this story is, fellas, look at the bright side of it. It's an easy way that Alphas is going to spread their seed, while betas are taking care of the kids. Alphas having their cake and eating it as usual.

SadFace959 · 2014-02-25T17:53:08+00:00

That's ridiculously messed up. I don't understand the mindset of raising another man's kid. My struggle would be to not end up in jail.

Mengs87 · 2014-02-26T07:56:46+00:00

The wife should do a rainbow tribe: Mexican, asian, african, east indian - hey he loves her unconditionally right?

2014-03-13T07:11:55+00:00

I say treat one as you want treated. This guy needs to grow a set and let this woman know that this type of abuse will not be tolerated.

NikolaTeslaMGTOW · 2014-02-25T22:38:52+00:00

I think women who cheat in marriage should be killed by the state tbh. I would never do it myself, but I would definitely be for the state doing it. Thats how far of a transgression it is for me.

There should be mandatory DNA testing for children before ANY child support or financial awards are given to the women too.

Oh wait I'm living in logic land, I always forget. Ok Ok here we go. Can we have lube dispensers in prison to take the edge off male rape? No? Ok Im sorry I asked Feminist Overlord Im only a man Im sorry I thought for myself.

Askhamsters about why they cheated.

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