Be Slightly Bad, Break the Rules, Get Laid.

JustTruthful · 2014-12-21T05:41:59+00:00

Nice guys don't finish last, but boring guys do.

khxddr · 2014-12-21T11:16:01+00:00

Then there's the further handicap that college guys today have from not having grown up during wild times but sissified times. Higher docility, or lower boldness, is not bad for females, but it's a real killer for young guys.

Every week at '80s night I am always amazed at how little testosterone college guys today have. It's like a 6th grade dance where the young boys and girls may be near each other but rarely interact, aside from the occasional guy who backs up his butt into a girl's crotch -- it's an attempt to get into her personal space by being disarmingly goofy and absurd, but the role reversal just makes him look pathetic and effeminate.

They're totally unsupervised and surrounded by half-naked girls in a dark club with hormone-driving music, and yet they're remarkably well behaved. There are a few young guys who get attention, but why are they so rare today? Again, times are just less wild overall, so young guys don't have as much experience as they would have had in previous decades.

It’s Not Fear Of Rejection, It’s Fear Of Punishment

I think we should be talking about all the ways that men are punished for doing the task that is assigned to men ANYWAYS. I am meaning how men are forced to be the ones to initiate, or else nothing’s ever happening for you. What sense does it make to force a person do a job, refuse to tell them how to do it “right,” and then dole out powerful punishments for doing it “wrong” ..? This is the most important paragraph in the thread post. Women won’t correctly tell a man how to approach a woman, that’s the Manosphere’s job.

FerrusMan · 2014-12-21T14:09:49+00:00

One can either be a rule follower, or a rule breaker. Guess which one makes panties wet? The trick is to do it without ending up in jail and being fudgepacked.

This is such a low level of rule breaking that it's laughable, but it worked so I will. My wife and I go to a christmas party last night. A bunch of people, with a variety of incomes including some millionaires. A couple of them had brought a really nice bottle of cabernet, but were hiding it so the unwashed masses wouldn't drink it up on them. They even had it in a fancy, heavy glass decanter. Pre red pill I never would have touched it, but post red pill I viewed it as a low level rule breaking. I mean, it's like saying I'm going to really swear at you, and then say damn, you know? Anyway, I go where the bottle it hidden, take it and give myself a nice portion. Then I made a point of going to my wife, telling her "here want to try that wine out? I stole it from them". It was a gold moment for me when she looked and reacted, for probably the most minor rule breaking event in the history of mankind.

Diece · 2014-12-21T07:39:39+00:00

You forgot one thing thats pretty important.

To be able to achieve this whirlwind effect you can't be spending 50% of your time on reddit.

SilentAlpha · 2014-12-21T14:03:43+00:00

It all comes down to not being a 'follower' or conformist. If you have that edge that makes you unique..almost totally counter to the established boring norm and behave appropriately, then you have that edge.

Notice how women actually have steamy fuckfests with all those otherwise 'loser' guys? Maybe the guy doesn't work full time or at all but he is decent looking and sits around and smokes pot...likes to party.

In essence, he is flawed and likes to combine that with letting his primal human energy out.

An average looking guy who just acts authentic, parties and doesn't suppress his sexuality gets a woman a lot more hot and horny than a buttoned down office slave who provides a home and stable life but never steps out of line or really cuts loose. There is a definite correlation there.

I'm also not advocating breaking the law...because you can emulate this in other ways.

I'll tell you what I found out that is so profound and simple several years back. I grew a gotee, worked as a radio DJ, laughed and let my goofy personality come thru combined with my relaxed, laid back social charisma, cussed more, talked filthy, yet was still 'good' to people which helped win their hearts to me.

Know what? I had more women within 3 months of making those changes than I had in my whole life. (This was in my very early 20's). It's also when I eventually met my wife.

The DJ job didn't pay good, I lived in a two room apartment, etc. But, I worked out, let my masculinity otherwise 'hang out', was social, didn't hold back my emotions and just had fun.

It worked.

RedPillSafe · 2014-12-21T15:34:38+00:00

I'd add that you must accept hatred by those you don't conform to.

Many guys like the idea of being the "bad boy" but you have to accept that this means you often reject beta males as peers and that will make you their target.

It takes a thick skin to be surrounded by hostility and hold your frame.

Women love it though.

The best advice is to focus on truth (MGTOW) and dismiss your hostile peers as being clueless which is itself the truth.

Nitrobroom · 2014-12-21T15:25:03+00:00

Lol, guys get this too. It is the rush that the kleptomaniac feels when he gets away with a crime, the soaring the bungie jumper feels when he sails over a cliffside for the second time.

It's the feeling of intense and simultaneous risk and reward. Women really are slaves to emotion huh?

Talkshitgethit · 2014-12-21T18:54:00+00:00

Break the rules, not the law. In America, the justice system can fuck you up for the rest of your life if you fuck up once.

Sad but true.

JackGetsIt · 2014-12-21T14:55:41+00:00

Showing you're the 'nice guy' is like a restaurant whose only selling point is that the food doesn't make you sick.

lubeoil · 2014-12-21T06:16:43+00:00

Worldwind? Do you mean whirlwind? Or worldwide?

vengefully_yours · 2014-12-21T17:54:40+00:00

Modus operandi. This is what I do. The way I walk, talk, dress, drive, and what I drive says "fuck rules and fuck you." I don't do enough to get in deep shit, but I skirt the laws and ignore most rules, opting to be me. Hell I was 44 before I was ever arrested, and then it was for something I didn't do. Call me Andy.

I could have been arrested many times. Everything from street racing (11 second cars) and high speed driving (140+) to firearms violations and weed, things I 'should have' been busted for, but wasn't. The cars I build have obvious intent, they look the part but are not overdone with gaudy bullshit. Satin black paint, or a cheap enamel in a non flashy color, loud, obnoxious, no interior, big tires, lowered in front, V8s with way too much powerthat vibrate and shake the ground while barely idling at 1100rpm. Not a "hey look at me" desperation like a Honda with six wings, neon, and a fart can, but an understated "don't fuck with me" vibe that comes from confidence due to capabilities.

I'm the same as my cars, they are an extension of me. Black T shirt, jeans, hiking boots, flat top, thin beard, muscular though not tall build, and a pronounced IDGAF attitude. Intimidation is my key, it comes from knowing exactly what I'm capable of due to having been tested in life.

I get a chick in my GTO for a drive, it's up to me if I will fuck her or not, because opening the throttle on the 455 in it makes them wet. My fastest car scares them, one ride and they won't go near it again. Its way faster than 11s now, and doesn't get raced often, shit happens too fast in it. It's a balance, just enough bad and danger to tingle, not a terrifying experience they don't want to have again.

Be bad enough, but not too bad. It's better to stay out of jail.

HeadingRed · 2014-12-22T23:26:03+00:00

It's probably the one biggest thing that got women interested in me in my 20's. I looked bad and was pretty broke. I was also willing to do what others would not. I'm not saying take major legal risks or rob a bank- I am saying if you occasionally do something a bit risky\sketchy it's a big win.

A buddy of mine used to do this move. He would be out and shoplift a sandwich from the convenience store when he was with a girl. She would usually freak a bit when he was doing it. He would then hand it to the first homeless guy they saw.

Evilores_Left_Ear · 2014-12-21T05:51:28+00:00

So basically, as with many things in life, balance is key.

rainmeter1 · 2014-12-21T19:20:01+00:00

BIOTRUTHS. So you became a drug-dealer, OP?

Title	Be Slightly Bad, Break the Rules, Get Laid.
Author	badmillennial
Upvotes	48
Comments	48
Date	December 21, 2014 5:07 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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