Cant believe she did this

rafanadal14 · 2017-04-27T04:26:03+00:00

Don't take that week. Use your anger and start working out now. Trust me, you won't regret it.

racetothegrave · 2017-04-27T05:26:05+00:00

No woman is going to treat you with respect unless she is easily replaceable by you. By the way you are acting, like a crazy possessive bitch (no offense), this is clearly not the case.

If you are going to get all spun up over one woman, who doesn't even sounds like she is your girlfriend, you clearly should be working on your dating skills with new women, not trying to have a LTR.

You are depressed because your diet is shit and you aren't exercising. Check out the book "Head Strong" by Dave Asprey. Depression isn't a mental issue caused by feelings, it is a physical issue caused by your diet and other factors influencing your hormones.

MattyAnon · 2017-04-27T16:16:01+00:00

I feel like I'll never find a decent fucking woman

If by "decent" you mean "attractive and faithful and won't flirt with other guys, maintain options and keep orbiters" then you're right, you won't.

AWALT.

darknes66 · 2017-04-27T07:26:52+00:00

Why is it so hard to believe? You obviously weren't the best option in her mind, or she was keeping a guy from the past on standby in case you didn't work out. Either way, it shouldn't effect you this way. The guys calling you beta are correct, your behavior is extremely beta which is probably why she "cheated". If you ask me, she wasn't yours to begin with. You're forgetting the one truth about women that comes up in almost every post ;AWALT! no acceptions. You made way too big of a deal over her phone and that's why she lied. Women lie to get out of uncomfortable situations

SLMC1 · 2017-04-27T03:23:29+00:00

I feel like I'll never find a decent fucking woman.

If you did, you wouldn't deserve her because you're a fucking beta who hasn't learned female nature and sexual strategy. You also think "good" is an adverb.

Girls are always playing with their backup options. Accept it, adapt, and profit.

Vesperous · 2017-04-27T05:08:26+00:00

I have to say, this does sound unfortunate but look at the positives. Atleast you are not believing her lying and asking us if she is indeed cheating. Because it's almost guaranteed that she is, needless to say, abundance mindset is key. Personally, I understand the depression thing and all, I was depressed for a little while after I got cheated on too, I was upset for about a week but after that I decided I would never be cheated on again. I'm only 17 so still in school but I'm now fucking this Venezuelan girl with one of the fattest asses I have ever seen, even on an adult latina female. So shit is good now. Don't let this get to you bro, don't take that week because we know how it goes, it turns into two weeks, then a month, and it's all downhill from there. Just start your improvement now. Tomorrow is a new day. Fuck this girl, if she did that, who cares? You already got a girl you believed was hot so don't start believing the bullshit about not finding a good woman. Improve, read articles, and move on! I believe in you bro, don't give a shit about her. She's a whore just like most women are, they are a dime a dozen. Either ensure monogamy by choosing a girl that you are 99% (you can never be 100% sure), will not cheat. There are some you will meet. You will know by slut warning signs which I am sure I don't have to tell you about. But yea bro, don't let this shit get to you, you can honestly go out and fuck another girl tomorrow.

moargainz · 2017-04-27T10:56:41+00:00

Deadlifts, depressed

Pick one.

Primary__Account · 2017-04-27T06:13:43+00:00

Holy shit, the comments in this thread are so fucking whipped its scary. Is this a joke?

Out-fucking-standing.

edit: just saw op's post history in exredpill.

"Im so confused about the redpill at times. I feel like im Redpilled but then again i feel like im not. But im not their version of a "Blue pilled person" idk makes me think.

Anyways, i think the "Lift" thing is ridiculous."

RPmatrix · 2017-04-27T07:25:05+00:00

and what would you have Done, IF she had let you look at her ph, after seeing those texts? Say "oh cool, you're also seeing Chad? Nice"

I think not

wheresMYsteakAt · 2017-04-27T19:32:04+00:00

TL:DR - listen to the 2nd to the last Share Reality on soundcloud and Eve tried to branch swing on God.

Donovan Sharpe just spoke about this a few days ago. He said women will cheat in the margins, the times you would least expect it. I'm sorry to hear that but you brought up an interesting point I've been thinking about lately. You fucked her well, you seemingly did everything right. A guy asked a question maybe a year or two ago and an EC answered, maybe warlock or the vandude. He asked (paraphrasing) "can you improve to the level where a girl will never cheat on you or leave you". The answer was (more paraphrasing) "Yes, as long as you are her richest, best looking, biggest dicked, most famous, most feared, most respected, most physically fit option. For every second of her life." I think the real one was every day but you get the picture. An interesting thing to note is he left out novelty which would be impossible every second of her life.

Something else that I've recently thought about, the Bible and how one of the first stories of human interaction is about Eve disobeying god. God gave them everything they could ask for and specifically told them not to go, but Eve did regardless. Once she spoke to the snake and he told her he could make her as powerful as God she took the Apple.

That story is even more interesting when you are not religious. It goes to show the nature of women and that wise men thought it was important enough to stick it in a 2000 year old book, and back then women were ALOT more subservient.

flavornuts · 2017-04-27T03:36:32+00:00

Why did you feel the need to check her phone? She doesn't owe you monogamy. Understand that it's in human nature to cheat and accept that reality.

You can either obsess about women's devotion to you, and lose your mojo in the process, becoming reactive to women's moods and behaviors. Or you can focus on being present, happy, and fulfilled, focusing on your mission and discarding the notion of the devoted princess that plagues the lives of betas.

troghin2 · 2017-04-27T12:58:13+00:00

Hopefully, you'll get your shit together like a redpill man and laugh at this in a near future. Seriously, one week to be depressed and just be lazy as fuck? One week is a good amount of time of self-improving. Study, lift, meditate, work, do some shit. Don't stop, always forward.

Don't be fucking lazy. Being lazy irritates the shit out of me the so I avoid it at all costs. I get fucking berserk when I'm not lifting, practicing sutures, pharmacology and everything my med grade requires me to learn. Do your thing, always self improve, don't waste a day, NEVER. By the way, don't put a chick on a pedestal like you did. They are not that worthy.

stonepimpletilists · 2017-04-27T18:31:53+00:00

January was what 90 days ago?

What were you expecting?

You didn't need to look even. sounds like you knew the answer already, the rest was theatre for your ego

Also I fucked her great and had her crazy. Yet she acted like I was her all

If you think you get this that early, and you're anything special, I got a bridge to sell you

Brennus390 · 2017-04-27T04:52:53+00:00

Why are you acting all shocked n' shit? Women have no concept of right and wrong or anything so abstract. Just enjoy the fuck.

Primary__Account · 2017-04-27T07:42:15+00:00

while it is understandable that you're feeling like shit but train your brain to detest her. Start playing games with her to fuck her good, while start searching for a girl you can be with. Once you find that girl, then dump this one, and be faithful to the new one. If girls can play games like this, then you have a right to do the same. Equality bitch. Remember that you are going to be the bread winner so don't try to degrade yourself by giving your attention. It is the woman who should be pleasing man for the bread and house.

abolishpmo · 2017-04-27T09:31:53+00:00

She's not yours, it's just your turn.

BusterVadge · 2017-04-27T12:47:34+00:00

Even "good" girls are talking to guys on the side, lining up their options in case things go bad with you. You should be talking to, and flirting with other women.

That being said, I wouldn't tolerate a woman lying to me and would have walked out right then and there. You did the right thing.

SanjayMethylPump · 2017-04-27T14:00:53+00:00

It was a 5 month relationship. Who cares. That's how long my 6th grade relationship lasted.

ddelicia · 2017-04-27T16:36:57+00:00

You know, I know this is a place for self improvement and shit, but these repetitive sob stories only make me glad that people weak as you that feel the need to whine instead of reading the sidebar and thrive don't get to reproduce and populate this earth with more weak men.

raisins3142 · 2017-04-27T16:44:41+00:00

Nearly all women love attention more than they love their BF.

cashmoney_x · 2017-04-27T16:47:50+00:00

HUMANS ARE NOT MONOGAMOUS.

The end.

ecosci · 2017-04-27T21:46:30+00:00

Dont be an emotional cuck if she was doing disrepsectable things you gotta end it for good she want ever respect you again anyway, dont ever take back a cheating woman get more options and save money (for yourself) stop stressing they always look for bigger and better its female nature.

19RomeoQuebec · 2017-04-27T22:38:08+00:00

Wal-Greens has a great pill called Stress Complex, Its a multi vitamin. That shit will perk you right up. When you come down to it. All those feelings you have, well its just chemicals. So you are technically chemically imbalanced because you were stressed and used up all your vitamin and mineral stores in your body.

So refuel and replenish all that you have lost. Good Day.

Lsegundo · 2017-04-28T18:34:43+00:00

Don't know why but there was always a thought in my head saying "check her damn phone"

Always trust your gut. Most of us aren't paranoid and there is a reason things don't feel right.

so I'm checking her phone and she constantly tells me "I have to delete a personal message from my bro"

Don't even fucking bother checking. Just walk. One of the most valuable things I learned at TRP is just to have abundance and be willing to end it. You will probably never know the truth. Women can lie like their life depends on it because 600 years ago their life did depend on being able to sell a lie if they were cheating. You want to believe her so bad it is easy for them to deceive us in that moment. Ill say it again. Just walk.

Mckallidon · 2017-04-30T23:20:28+00:00

Time to workout and smash hos.

A22H013 · 2017-04-27T23:48:37+00:00

I feel like I'll never find a decent fucking woman.

You won't. All you'll find is holes of varying quality, attached to women of similiar quality. It's a symptom of being alive right now. Enjoy the decline; and your gadgets, that's all we have now.

Mangoinhand · 2017-04-29T14:42:41+00:00

Needy, Outcome dependent.

Why does it bother you what she does with her time, body and phone?

Did you sign a contract with her?

Blows my mind that there's nothing better to do than check a woman's phone. Have you that much time on your hands?

BTC_Millionaire · 2017-04-28T02:43:14+00:00

lol what gives you the right to go through her phone, you angsty little manchild?

Title	Cant believe she did this
Author	Primary__Account
Upvotes	3
Comments	138
Date	April 27, 2017 3:13 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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