ED and The Ultimate Shit Test

Clint_Redwood · 2016-01-04T18:20:44+00:00

I applaud you on how you handled it. Typically I always try to A&A when chick pull shit like that, but if they are being blatantly disrespectful then they deserve having it thrown back in their face. A fake tit jab would have been great for the first chick.

I have to say though, that's some serious ED. I've had serious performance anxiety before. Especially when i was a virgin and not even able to get it up but you having as much experience as you do, it seems pretty severe.

I know you've probably been through the hoops already on how to handle it but there really are a lot of things you can do to improve your situation. I've been on both ends of the spectrum, not able to get hard at all and lasting for like an hour or more.

I found that stamina is mostly a psychological thing were erection quality is physiological/psychological and diet.

Causes for lasting to long in bed

death grip. Strangling the monkey when you jerk it. symptoms, erection usually around 50-70% during intercourse, quickly goes soft when not physically stimulated. Solution, buy a fleshlight, stop using your hands, always use lube.
desensitization, watching hardcore porn. No more bukkaka's, keep it to instagram pics and late night HBO
edging to much. practice restraint and only masturbate when you can get off in 5 minutes. If you have severe deathgrip, it can take up to a week before you get off the first time with a felshlight
poor circulation, this can actually be a big one, especially in the US were it's common to have a deficiency. I can see huge changes in EQ(erection quality) when i use certain supplements. try these one by one to test their effectiveness on you.

L-arginine 2,000-4,000mg a day or EOD. This shit turns my dick into a pornstar. I've easily held 90%+ EQ with it and that's rare for me. The emptier your stomach the better.(Bonus, above 4g a day it starts to produce HGH for you body builders)

MSM powder tastes like sulfur but I always combine a bit of it with my preworkout and l-arginine.

Ginko Biloba - general all around good herb for circulation and clears up foggy brain.

ZMA good to take before bed and will tell you if you have a mineral deficiency in your diet. If you wake up and have a great day the next day. You are deficient.

lecithin & pygeum- these two come from a thread on a forum called "The holy grain to cumshots"(just google it). basically they increase your volume, but I also notice EQ increase and it just hanging fuller.

To me it sounds like you have a physiological issue of poor circulation since once you get it up, it's doesn't take long to get off. This says that you're nerves aren't desensitized but your brain is. Try deathgripping and edging for long periods of time to improve EQ by desensitizing the nerves but do the opposite for psychological by keep your porn to the most basic thing you can find. I.e. instagram pics.

edit if you want to get fairly severe on desensitizing the nerves. There are certain workouts you can do that will reduce it's sensitivity. I can PM you the info, it's a bit taboo for reddit and usually downvoted to oblivion.

cobalt172 · 2016-01-04T20:50:02+00:00

Welp, this describes my sex life too a T. I have never had good sex and if I do then I bust in 20 seconds of entering her then I can't go again for the rest of the night because the only way to have sex nowadays is to go get fucking drunk and it's like 3 am and am too drunk tired to go again.

Girls just don't have patience for guys that need some assistance...so fuck it?

I nearly committed suicide a few years ago because of ED but now I just accept that relationships and especially one night stands are out....

BluepillProfessor · 2016-01-04T20:34:23+00:00

You can express your dominance before your dick is supposed to get hard and I bet it would work just as well without the drama.

I don't think it was the BJ that gets you hard but the girl submitting to you and finally listening....

This is not ED but a normal male reaction to bitchy, entitled cunts. Most of us are so horny and deprived we don't realize how much of a turn off the behaviors of the women he describes really are.

MattyAnon · 2016-01-05T09:56:05+00:00

I say "You want me to get you going but you can't get me going? I'm not a fucking robot. And then you say something insulting about my dick like that? Something I can't change? Fuck you."

Next time just start with the leaving, don't say a god damned thing. It just makes you look weak.

To this one I say fuck you, what if I said some shit like that to you? and walk away.

Again with the talking. Stop being so fucking logical, reasonable, and trying to get past their solipsism with your logic. There are better ways to handle these tests. Like ignoring them.

You're all logical and confrontational and it seems like you care. Just agree and amplify, or "ok" or best of all: ignore and say nothing.

It's all just being attacked by a kitten - it's amusing. Don't give it the dignity of a logical response, don't be phased by it.

You sound like you're doing fine, but don't get into these arguments with women - it just brings out the deranged hamster-beast.

B_uckets · 2016-01-04T21:58:10+00:00

Women have it made when it comes to this type of shit.

No such thing as a big pussy, just small dicks.
No need to learn any moves aside from the starfish.
No such thing as a girl who can't orgasm, only guys who can't get her off.

etc.

IamGale · 2016-01-04T20:10:36+00:00

Funny stories dude. I like it.

seattle1971 · 2016-01-04T20:24:31+00:00

Yeah man. I took a fucking bullshit SSRI antidepressant medication nearly two years ago and my dick has never been the same after. Difficult erections, reduced sensitivity, etc. It really fucking sucks. I feel for you man.

0638003094 · 2016-01-04T22:36:22+00:00

I suffer from pretty serious ED myself (21M) and once I get going I can last for a lifetime. Quit porn a year ago and I only masturbate through ballooning, so it's not deathgrip either. It's probably psychological nerves, but the only girl I was able to get it consistently up with was my ex, since I was very comfortable around her (the first month of relationship was impossible though).

Still not sure how to handle my ED, because getting blowjobs, what seems to work for you, doesn't work for me at all. Trying to get myself hard is my best bet but it is an awkward thing to do during a one night stand.

Anyway, thank you for your post, very insightful and it talks about a problem that isn't touched upon often enough on this sub.

BadgerBurger · 2016-01-05T12:18:18+00:00

I'm not sure it was ED. Seemed like OP had a fair bit of booze in both stories.

WhiteKnightFgt · 2016-01-04T18:48:17+00:00

So she starts passing out, and I get pissed and start putting my clothes on. I say "You want me to get you going but you can't get me going? I'm not a fucking robot. And then you say something insulting about my dick like that? Something I can't change? Fuck you."

Pathetic loss of frame here. Obviously It's a major insecurity of yours and she was indeed being very divisive, but you can't get emotional with women like that. That was exactly the reaction she was looking for

In fact I'm not sure how this is RP at all. Paying 100$ for a fucking bathroom blowjob. That isn't golddigger, that's straight up prostitution, which is fine, but don't kid yourself. Also, please tell me I read it wrong and that you didn't actually PAY for a women's AIRFARE to come see you (that you met online for gods sake) I think you're majorly lacking abundance mentality. Do you live somewhere where there are literally no attractive women? Of course you don't.

Firespit · 2016-01-05T19:44:16+00:00

I feel inclined to mention that many people reported they cured their ED with nofap and noporn (google yourbrainonporn). If you have trained your mind to this kind of artificial stimulation, it is worth a shot.

justinjj1 · 2016-01-05T19:52:28+00:00

I've had this issue too, which made it really hard for me to have one night stands for a while. However, I went to the Dr. and he gave me some Viagra. I take half of a pill before we are about to have sex and it does the trick, I get hard as a rock but I can't cum. I usually can fuck for hours after taking one. And after that first time once she sees how good you are, there's no pressure for the second go round. They're expensive though, almost $40 each but it beats having ED.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-01-06T05:50:18+00:00

Kidney qi not firm.

That's treatable.

Rasalom72 · 2016-01-04T18:05:50+00:00

What you have is not actually ED. ED is a problem that you can't fix mentally, it's a physical problem that medication/ surgery is needed to fix.... (think Viagra, etc).

If you can get hard enough without medication/ surgery some of the time, then you just have anxiety issues...

Vietnom · 2016-01-04T19:36:59+00:00

You completely lost frame and you paid for a blowjob lol. Not a date more like an experience with a disrespectful escort.

I have had ED before from porn. Did NoFap and I'm back to normal. Performance pressure made it worse. I realized that once I stopped caring I stopped getting it. I'm 100% fully recovered. I like the underling message about not caring. You shouldn't care... at all. Once you develop true confidence situations like that don't faze you.

Davidkpa · 2016-01-04T18:35:33+00:00

I'm circumsized, erections are easy for me. I'm 31, and I can get hard and off five to six times a day with my wife and sub without too much help. Seven to eight if the women help generously.

Get in the gym, practice with porn (stroke yourself for 30 minutes at a time), fantasise about sex regularly, and the issue should alleviate some unless you have some hormonal imbalance or diabetes.

Tie5o11 · 2016-01-04T23:28:05+00:00

Just an aside, you may want to try Maca Root if you are having ED issues. The powder is great to mix in smoothies / almond milk / coffee, etc, and tastes pretty good. They have capsules as well, just do your due diligence to make sure its a quality sample. Give it a few weeks, you should notice a difference after 2-3 weeks of daily supplementation.

Make sure you cut out any estrogens, such as soy, from your life if you can identify them.

Lastly, no-fap or fapping once every few days is another way to boost your libido and reduce ED.

Vietnom · 2016-01-05T00:00:00+00:00

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daddymonsterpoodle · 2016-01-05T01:25:57+00:00

Sounds to me like your brain is redpill but your cock is bluepill. Maybe there is some residual dissonance about "just using girls for sex." Your casual fucks don't sound like that much fun. Maybe if you only fucked women that you saw as a potential LTR you might have less ED, whether you ever make them a LTR or not. Either that or you aren't that attracted to sluts.

1WhoWatches · 2016-01-05T03:23:15+00:00

Look up the supplements Post Cycle & Unleashed by Protein Factory.

Take them together.

I had a similar experience as you with new women when I was single, when I was taking these, I was hard instantly for anyone in any situation. Plus, you will cum a gallon. Most women are amazed when you are firehosing LOL.

I love these supps above any other I ever used. The T goes way up, the E goes way down, and you have an iron-strong state of mind. Give it a shot.

silver_nuke13 · 2016-01-05T14:51:34+00:00

Wtf is an ED, please guys, if you wanna use ambiguous abreviations, put the full name in brackets or something the first time.

fightlikeacunt · 2016-01-05T22:07:09+00:00

Just tell her to hit the gym and call you in a month. My "ED" went away when I started banging younger, hotter chicks.

SureImShore · 2016-01-05T05:15:09+00:00

This terrible post should be removed.

Title	ED and The Ultimate Shit Test
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Date	January 4, 2016 5:30 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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