Explaining the dark truths behind why some older guys chase younger women and the "playboy" lifestyle.

verify_account · 2016-06-28T18:02:28+00:00

Thanks for the moralizing bud. I prefer younger, tighter, and cuter girls. But you're free to have all the post-wall gods you can eat!

nicetimevers · 2016-06-28T17:11:36+00:00

imo you are nobody to judge what other people do and why.

I'm in my 30s and i agree getting younger chicks might be quite easy now.

but your point is just sad, you say "the real chads are out of the game, having married etc. even if now you can get chicks you are not a chad", this is nonsense.

if you used to have nice times in your youth and now you've become a fatty beta hudband then i say this is YOUR problem and you better spend time working on yourself instead of come here crying like a bitch.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-06-28T17:22:31+00:00

I can get behind the idea of taking it off the pedistal, and breaking covert contracts. I can't get behind the subtle shaming of men for doing it.

Would have preferred the focus on what men can do to create their own happiness, instead of warning them about going after young chicks.

Ditching your need for validation would be a good one. Leaves the field wide open for finding meaning in life.

FrameWalker · 2016-06-28T18:40:00+00:00

The main reason to go after young women is that single women over 30 are broken. 26-30 almost broken and a massive headache. 21-25 have formed bad habits and need to be retrained. 18-21 can be quite pleasant.

1v1crown · 2016-06-28T17:41:32+00:00

I'm not 30 yet, but I know that even when I get there, I know I'll still want younger tighter bodies than watching a once-hardbody slowly deform into a mess over time and having to fuck only that for the rest of my life.

worktillyouburk · 2016-06-28T18:30:19+00:00

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Davidkpa · 2016-06-28T17:27:26+00:00

I got married to a woman four years younger than me. I still chase younger pussy and kinky pussy. I raise my Godson after his mother died (his dad will be in prison for another ten years, no matter how many times the brothers gang rape his ass). I'm still building Real Estate Investment Trusts, and websites to make money when I'm not practicing law or selling life insurance and annuities.

Are there guys who chase pussy to fill a void? Yup. Because guess what, life is full of voids. But pussy is still fun, it's just as you get older and you get better at playing people, you look for more and more challenges. I did porn with girls 18-23. I've got a video of four women sucking on my cock and balls, it was a good seller when I still had it up for sale on Clips4sale. The main reason I took it down was out of fear of being prosecuted for producing indecency and other bullshit because of a Sheriff in Polk county.

I enjoy the debauched and the kinky. I'm a user and manipulator of people, because that's what most people want. Most people want to be a complete punk bitch for someone else. Just look at the Democratic party and you'll see what I'm talking about.

So yes I'll keep fucking around with younger women, yes I'll keep having my fun in the BDSM scene, and might start my own Dungeon. Because why the fuck not? What am I going to do? Be boring, watch sports, drink shitty beer, and wait to to die? Nope, I'll fuck, lift weights, and make money, when I'm not at the shooting range or playing with my dog. Sounds pretty good to me.

EuronPacificus · 2016-06-28T19:40:58+00:00

Yeah right.

When I was 18 and was chasing the hottest girls in high school, almost all of the hottest girls had boyfriends at least 26-30 years old.

Thats when I learned a valuable lesson.

telenoobies · 2016-06-28T21:15:28+00:00

Lmao u call 30 yrs old old?? wat

tridentmark · 2016-06-28T19:51:54+00:00

OP doesn't get it.

At almost 50 years old I don't bed 20 something girls because i have an insecurity, I do it because its a special fetish for them and I love the way they treat me. With the girls 21-26, they love to play the mentor / student game with me. Knowing I can turn tricks for them in bed that the 20 something guys mostly don't get yet. Taking them on exotic dates that make them my sex pet for a weekend or a week or more...sometimes they bring girlfriends who leave their 20 something boyfriends at home because of "its a nice island party" and then I end up fucking them both. Leaves them alpha widowed a bit too and the marking of the territory seeing girls I have been with before show me they are open for more sex any time anywhere really gets me off and shows me I left a deep impression on them. They are never my 'girlfriends' at that age, and often they are cheating on some guy who is trying to put a ring on it. Never being my girlfriend lets them play more and do things with me they wouldn't do with their nice boyfriend.

OP sounds like he lost a few to an older guy and is in defense mode over it and doesn't get what an older guy could possibly do better or how a girl gets wet over the fantasy and the power of getting an established older dick inside of her.

melxer · 2016-06-28T21:53:17+00:00

This is such a nonsensical post. What's your point exactly ? That since 30+ men were natural beta in their youth and couldn't get laid they shouldn't chase younger girls and have the time of their lives now that they can ? What do you recommend them to do instead exactly.

Basically you are as salty for them having young pussies now as they were when you had the pussies then.

Whisper · 2016-06-28T23:35:48+00:00

So what?

Give me one good reason why men who missed out in their 20s should settle into mediocrity in their 30s and 40s, rather than enjoying themselves when they have developed the skills and resources to do so.

You spend a good deal of words trying to convince men that it "won't be as good". This is a little strange, because college girls are still college girls.

And even if it weren't "as good" as being younger... so what? It's better than wifing up some bitter post-wall harpy.

Do what you can, with what you have, in the time left to you.

LegendaryPeace · 2016-06-28T18:07:25+00:00

Yeah, some guys are looking for validation.

But be careful with this train of thought. I've had similar thought patterns before, and all they do is lead you right back into the Blue Pill.

A lot of kids I went to High School with thought the popular kids were egotistical, vain, "chasing validation" etc.

That's fine...those guys (whom I eventually ended up hanging out with) still ran the school in every single respect.

You might psycho analyze the guy with a new car and younger girlfriend and decide he's going through a mid-life crisis. Maybe you're right.

Or maybe he's having a fucking blast.

There's nothing wrong with any type of material pleasure. Its your intentions with these things that matter. Leonardo DiCaprio is living the lifestyle you describe and he's 41. Obviously celebrities can be depraved as any body, but I think he's doing just fine for himself.

Plus, a little egoism is actually good. Yes, part of the fun of getting hot girls is that it signifies you have higher status than other guys.

But that's not bad.

heapbigfun · 2016-06-28T18:08:43+00:00

Projecting really hard here.

Validation is tempting, but it is not akin to beauty, which is physiological.

I don't tell anybody when I fuck.

Maybe it's because I'm not 30 yet. OP might be onto something.

ScarletFever82 · 2016-06-29T04:20:02+00:00

You're almost right brah, I am trying to fill a void, but the void isn't inside of me, it's inside of the 20yr old girls I'm chasing.

Seriously though, your rant... is the anthem of every post wall bitch.

Congratulations, your are a mangina!

Some guys were busy in their 20s establishing themselves so they could live it up in their 30s.

What I get from this "projection;" You wasted your 20s away, and now you are in your 30s and still not yet established, so you myopically assume the guys that are living your dream do it for the same reasons you would, had you the means to do so.

The difference is, they have the means to do so because they are established men, unlike yourself, and that is why this comes off so tongue and cheek.

GayLubeOil · 2016-06-28T18:30:21+00:00

Lol we have a few of those guys here? No bro we have a metric shiton of insecure guys who flip their shit over: deliberately trolltastic bible post, Asian girl post, being told the truth that if they can't out squat my 5'2 110 pound girlfriend that they are weak willed.

The same guys who can't handle some light button pushing on the internet are all allegedly Uber Alpha masters with Iron frame. Lol.

The Red Pill can only really help 20% of the men here the rest are destined for beta purgatory.

WeedDaddy · 2016-06-28T16:58:24+00:00

they missed out and are haunted by it even at their age

Curiously, this is what many here advocate: concentrate on your career in your 20's and you should be able to have a feast with women in your 30's and 40's.

So what can fix it?

Men of all ages are attracted to fertile women. Most women over 25y.o. look old and ugly.

zedsdedforever · 2016-06-28T22:03:26+00:00

Damn, I was working my ass off to reach the levels similar to Hugh Hefner. After this post.... I still am.

__ROOSTER__ · 2016-06-29T00:34:01+00:00

A mans value goes up as he ages if he does it right. What a man was is irrelevant, what he has become and what he is, is whats important.

A guy wasn't a 10 when he was 18 years old so now he has to stay at whatever level he was or he's insecure?

The entire original post is pretty gay

JohnIan101 · 2016-06-29T02:31:31+00:00

The truth is, American media and society literally put the "youth" experience on the pedestal.

Going on a tangent; something that has been on my mind for some time, Pop Music.

Grew up in the '80s, the artists/singers were in their early or so twenties. You could expect a certain level of life experience in their work. Granted it started in the late '80s, but really took hold in the '90s was gearing towards teen artists. The '00s has seen that dip further into tween. The rise of Young Adult novels read by adults can be seen as side effect.

I recall Craig Ferguson on his former show, calling it the "deification of youth". Which means, the next stage is juvenile artists, pre-teens. This saddens me.

As for your post; I think you have missed point, it's not so much about claiming lost glory as it is making up for lost time - very late bloomer. Not about bragging, as it is about getting your piece of the action.

Now having the upper hand; money, time (and health). Options that were not present in the 'then'.

And be honest, youth has vitality and it is contagious, 'you're only as old as you feel'. Sure at some point you can't eat candy because it'll screw up your system. But until then why the hell wouldn't you?

I get what you're saying The_Game_Delegate, but I think you're trying to assign a deeper meaning on a topic that is mostly surface level. Some of what you said is spot on, but attached to a subset of those men - who are really, seriously trying to recreate their school experience, this time radder.

Frack, so many of them roam halls of Reddit.

Entropy-7 · 2016-06-29T08:13:04+00:00

I honestly don't know any "players" or "partiers" or whatever you want to call them. The guy I know who slays the most pussy in terms of quantity (ie. variety, not just frequent sex) and quality (ie. hot looking chicks in their 20s, not Nobel Laureates or whatever) is nothing like what you would expect: a fat guy of average height. The thing is, he is smart (I think a 143 IQ, but scads of practical intelligence as well) and has the gift of the gab (charismatic, champion debater and public speaker, second or 3rd generation Irish so maybe there is a touch of the blarney). We would go into a restaurant or a bar and if the waitress or bartender was hot he would #close and then be dating her within a few days.

Well, then he got his law degree, then his MD and now is an ER doc making about $350k a year or so. He said to me, sort of rhetorically, "You know, this whole dating thing is just so much easier on a physician's salary." But as I said, he was scoring Hooters-eqsque girls (and apparently their twin sister on one occasion) before he was turning coin.

I don't know if he was the fat kid who got picked on in high school, and he would be 42 or 43 at this point and I don't know if he has wifed-up, but he spent his entire 30s - not "partying" and not "playing" - but jet-setting about (he is on various boards of directors), sipping champagne, eating pate and banging 20-somethings.

The other alpha-ish guys I know went down the more conventional path and wifed a quality woman - albeit, one lives common law with his young flamenco dancer and the other pulled the pin on his married with two kids lifestyle and is now shacked up with a Hong Kong girl a dozen years his junior.

As for me, I found a job opportunity in China and said "fuck this, I am out of here". But game here is completely fucking different. I have been doing mostly the serial monogamy thing with other dating and ONS action with significantly younger women. I'm pushing 50 and the oldest woman I've been with is a 38 year old retired fashion model who lied about her age and could pass for several years younger; I don't even bother with women over 35, 30 and under is doable but it takes work, however the under 25 crowd - less than half my age - seems to be my asymptote unless I change the equation with some major upgrades that are not fully under my control.

I was the "high school loser, never made it with the ladies" until I reinvented myself, and if you want to say that I "swallowed the Red Pill", that was 15 or so years before The Matrix and it was more like the low-dose aspirin people take daily that staves off a heart attack rather than a pair of 222s you down to deal with an acute headache of mind-splitting proportions.

ex_addict_bro · 2016-06-29T10:41:40+00:00

Well, I'm not sure you realize that other options are actually way easier. And I'm thinking single moms, divorced women, married women, post wall women. Chasing a girl younger 10-15 years is actually something decent and a bit harder than other options.

Theotropho · 2016-06-29T15:48:30+00:00

eh. I've dated 50 year olds that were more immature than the last 20 year old I dated. People that target that age group specifically tend to prefer the power/knowledge disparity though. Mostly stems from insecurity.

HiGuysiamkewl · 2016-06-29T08:24:34+00:00

Im only 22 at the moment but as far as I can tell when I am in my 30/40's I will still want to date 20 year olds. Young Women get to date older guys without being shamed. After high school that is about as high as their SMV is gonna ever be, Whereas a male can continue to increase in value over time. Why should I spend my peak SMV years dating women my own age, when younger women will generally speaking, be better looking and have less baggage? Yeah, Thanks but no thanks. Leave that shaming shit to the females, when a male does it, it tends to come off as whiny.

squidracer · 2016-06-29T11:18:58+00:00

Would I have preferred to have had a wonderful wife and children in a traditional household by 30?? Yep

Is that a realistic reality for the modern man?? Not really, and it's getting worse..

So I adapted,, don't judge me!

TrumpRules2016 · 2016-06-29T15:32:13+00:00

Chad has either given up on the game or grown old/fat, a lot of other guys are opting out, women are desperately looking for men now, and if you have it together then the world is your oyster. Problem is, we don't want that anymore.

Why wouldn't I want the world as my oyster when I'm older? That doesn't make any sense.

richardnorth · 2016-07-01T02:31:00+00:00

how can you know all this unless you are projecting bro

sethius03 · 2016-06-28T21:01:08+00:00

I'm 31 and my girlfriend is 22; and not to brag, but she is a smoke show, damn near a 10 - I've got the pics to prove ;) . A lot of younger girls like to date older men because 1, we know how to talk to a woman. Many guys that are 18-26ish do not know how to "woo" a lady, or even talk to them in general. My girlfriend told me this herself. Also, we are established, have a career and the money to treat them to nice dinners and trips, although I don't mean in a sugar daddy type of way. They also feel more secure because we know WHO we are as a person and have been through enough serious relationships to know what we want and how to treat them. Also at 31, we aren't running around the clubs chasing other girls. We are past that scene. I've always dated younger women, and always will, although this one may be "the one", so no more dating.

disgruntledearthling · 2016-06-29T10:25:04+00:00

I'm 57 but look more like late 30's. There's no fucking way I'm gaming wrinkled up old entitled hags like my ex that I spent 28 years with.

This is my time now. I had the pleasure of a young fit escort when I split and man, there's nothing like a hot tight smooth body. I'm not chasing young tail to show off or brag - I'm a discreet guy. I'm a forever-young old guy in both body and mind. As long as I can get it up, it's going into younger chicks.

I'm not sure why you wrote this article. Maybe you'd like to revise it once you hit my age.

Gumpool · 2016-06-28T22:22:35+00:00

Whats with the cuckolds coming in here trying to shame people lately?

casemodsalt · 2016-06-28T16:58:55+00:00

I'm 30

I prefer older.

Only retards go for younger women

Retards and gym rats who are just as self absorbed as an IG attention whore

Title	Explaining the dark truths behind why some older guys chase younger women and the "playboy" lifestyle.
Author	The_Game_Delegate
Upvotes	0
Comments	66
Date	June 28, 2016 4:54 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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