Fake It Until You Make It

The Natural

The most authentic and true “Red Pill” men are not on the internet trying to find reasons why they got dumped. They are not familiar with such terms as “abundance mentality” or “Oneitis”. They aren’t sitting around pondering exactly how to respond to a text, or coming up with a strategy on how to approach women or get them to fall in love with them.

These men are Naturals. They don’t go to the gym because some sub-reddit told them to lift. They don’t need to be told to STFU because their instinct already tells them to. They have never heard of the term “DEER” because the thought of DEERing would never even enter their minds. I could go on, but I think you get the point. Or do you?

The very fact that you are reading this post, (and that I am writing it), indicates that we are not Naturals. We are here because we have noticed trends in relationships in our lives that we are struggling to understand. Why does the nice guy finish last? Why do the assholes get and keep the girl? Why did she leave me even though I treated her like a queen?

The Internal Conflict

I see so many posts from angry men struggling to comprehend the full magnitude of relationship dynamics. They are very angry at women, for simply being their true selves. Women are the epidemy of what it means to be red pilled. It is biologically hard wired into their DNA. They exhibit these behaviors subconsciously, without even thinking, similar to the way the Natural does. Sure, there are some girls out their who are completely vicious and calculating with their manipulation, but that is the exception, not the rule. They are natural manipulators.

Too many men on here demonize and objectify women. I am guilty of these at times as well. This is not healthy. Women are not the enemy. We are our own enemies in this battle. Once we learn to quell the internal conflict, we can take steps to truly understand the nature of relationships. Not only between men and women, but between every human being.

Figuring It All Out

One method that was very helpful to me, was to understand what influences in my life made me the way that I was. For me, my father was a true beta in every sense, and I was raised in the dogmatic teachings of the church which shunned sex outside the confines of marriage. I was raised, much like others, to search for The One, the Unicorn, marry her and have kids and live happily ever after. Every girl that I dated became The One, until she was not.

You must conduct this self analysis to identify the root influences in your life that have affected your relationships. Once you have done this, you can take steps towards re-wiring your brain. You must fully accept the truth, i.e. swallowing the pill. So many of you put the pill in your mouth and cheeked it. You cannot progress without having the full understanding of biology and the effect that it has on every relationship dynamic.

The Importance of Abundance

You cannot truly understand the reality of The Natural, or women in general, until you experience abundance. Women have it simple in this regard. I would say with reasonable certainty that any average looking girl can go out and get fucked any night of the week and twice on Sunday. Even below average looking girls could spread their legs and be more successful at getting laid than an above average looking guy. Women don’t put all their eggs in one basket. There is always another option. It’s left to them to swing to the highest branch.

The Natural has it pretty easy too. By his nature, he has women flocking to him. Even when he has a dry spell, he doesn’t give a fuck anyway. True abundance mentality cannot be achieved until you have actually experienced it. It doesn’t happen overnight. Once it does finally happen, you can truly not give a single fuck when one of your girlfriends gives you shit. There is always another option. And even when there isn’t, you know what it takes to add another horse to the stable.

Conclusion

Some of us are closer than others to naturally exhibiting red pill behavior. Others have a long way to go. There is no light switch that you can flick that will magically give you these qualities. Even if and when you do obtain these qualities, you will have to continue faking it until you make it.