I have 3 brothers, we all get it different ways. But we all get it.

My oldest brother is a very respected head coach and teacher in a football crazy state. He is John Candy fat but gets mad female attention. He gets it through social proof and being extremely dominant. Some would call him a bully but I call him a leader.

I'm a business owner and I get it by not caring if she stays or goes. They're replaceable to me and almost all seem unremarkable. Women hate feeling like they're not given their due, and appreciate being challenged. I offer more than I take and they all want a ride, and they try harder when they see your finger on the ejector seat button.

My younger bro is in the military and before that was a fireman, he gets it through the hero card. Women love being a hero wife, even if in reality they're just a hero bang. I think women all think they're writing their own movie but they're not the protagonist, they want to be the protagonist's love interest.

My youngest bro is in college and he takes impeccable care of himself. Focuses on treating his body like a temple. Girls throw themselves at him because he's more attractive than them.

We all are made from the same stuff but have 4 different strategies to get it and they all work equally well. Bottom line is that there is more than one way to skin a cat and whether you're focusing on your social skills, your wealth, your social proof, your emotional well being or your physical appearance it doesn't really matter.

Women aren't complicated, they feel lonely and literally empty without the validation from a "good" man. What makes a good man isn't really important, and if they can't get a good man they'll settle for the best of the rest. If you can put yourself in a situation where they feel lucky to be in your life than you win. If you're not winning it's probably because you're lazy and focusing on the spoils of war instead of warfare.

How do you get it?