Every date I go on, I make it an attempt to focus on ONE concept to either learn, field test, or solidify. Tonight, I verified how critical the notion of "Always assume attraction" is.
Met up with a HB7 via online dating app at a bar who claims she is an avid Christian and acts like she's a unicorn of family values (which admittedly intimidated me, hence the title of this post). She looked even better in person which immediately got me motivated to have a good time. Grabbed a drink at the first bar and immediately from the start, implemented calibrated kino; Resting my arm on her leg, poking her for high points in stories and jokes, playful shoulder punches, and seeing how long I could hold her hand. Got her talking a lot about herself and had good conversation. At lulls in the chat I held firm and unbothered by the silence, and waited for her to reinitiate conversation which, to my surprise, happened every time. Paid for our drinks (she bought the next round at second bar) and escorted her out.
Escorted her arm in arm to the next bar a few blocks away. Further small talk and calibrated kino escalation and I pick up on some IOIs I may have missed. When I withdrew my hands from her legs and arms she searched for them. When I bantered that I bet she can't stop smiling we stared at each others eyes and called her out for losing our "game". I realized that I had been talking more rapidly/pressured than I should have and slowed down my speech tremendously. At this point she became very fidgety and would not stop looking at my arms and hands. I figured that her attraction to me was at its peak, yet, only one way to find out. Easy kiss barrier was broken which transitioned to caressing, resting my hands on her inner thigh, and likewise her hands on mine.
Kiss her a few more times outside the bar while waiting for our respective ubers and she mentions how I was her first date in about a year. I don't believe it's true, nor do I give a fuck. What matters to me is that she has been a large step up from the former low value girls I was pulling as of recent. I had a great time, texted for logistics only, and realized the whole "Christian" thing was just a shit test. I didn't dread the thought of being rejected, nor did I feel the need to impress her like I have tried with many girls before finding TRP. Instead, I focused on myself having fun, and she was merely joining me on the sideline. Even if she does go to church every week, all girls, fat or fit, work nearly the same on the inside; They crave the companionship of high SMV males. Hence, I need to keep lifting and improving myself socially and in my studies to keep this up.
I feel on top of the world this week; Maxed my bench at 225 this morning, have a date with an HB8 tomorrow, another date with a HB7 on Thursday, and a date with the girl from this post on Friday. Sent her a brief text saying to enjoy the rest of her night after she let me know she got home safely, and she already is asking to hangout again. I can literally feel my SMV increasing from all the work I have been putting in, and for once, I am finally starting to see myself as the prize, rather than her.
Always assume attraction.
-RPD
Edit- Just as an update as I don't feel like making a separate FR with my HB8 tonight, ended up passing multiple shit tests, heavy resistance, and had a make out close. Hardest date yet but had great success. Thanks again for reading.
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