I'll start this off by saying that I'm a pretty good looking guy and I have above average game, if I may say so myself. However, I went through most of college a sexually frustrated virgin, because I neglected something even more important than looks/game: status. You see, when I started college all I thought I needed to get girls was to look good and be a smooth talker. I didn't care about frats and all that stuff, and thought that none of it matters.

I went to a wealthy private school, where 50% of students are in Greek life. So the claim that frats run the school is an understatement. They basically control the entire party scene, and a large amount of conversations start with something along the lines of "what frat/sorority are you in?" Thing is, I didn't know that all of this mattered. Every time a girl asked me what frat I was in and I responded by saying I wasn't in one, I could see the interest fading from her face, before she inevitably had to leave to "find her friends". I thought I was just having bad luck. However, I also noticed some of my other good-looking unaffiliated friends having the same problem. And at the same time, I see these guys with beer bellies and dad bods pulling some of the hottest girls at school. I remember during my senior year, I hooked up with a girl from another school during our senior beach week. The next day, she meets this guy who was skinny fat and shorter than me. However, she finds out he's in a top frat, and instantly ditches me to hook up with him instead.

By the time I realized the importance of status in college, I was already an upperclassman and it was too late. Luckily, I managed to get really good at online dating, and started dating/fucking girls from other schools. But no matter how my looks/game were, even until the end of college, I'd still get condescension and rejection from girls at my school.

After graduating however, my success with girls has fucking skyrocketed. I live in a suburban area, so you'd expect it to be WAY harder to get laid as opposed to in my college. However, in just the month I've been back, I've been going on a lot more dates than I did the majority of college. I've gone on dates and hooked up with girls way better looking and down to earth than the ones who rejected me in college. After struggling so much with girls in college, I'm still astonished by how easy it is now. Right now, I'm talking to 3 different girls, while having a FWB on the side -- this is something I never coul