It is often said to not put girls on a pedestal.

But the fact is they are, the demand for a 20 year old hottie in a particular club setting is far greater than that of any guy in the venue. Except maybe the top of the top alpha. But it certainly exceeds the value of your average to lower top guy.

So from the sexual market perspective TRP endorses, her value in this particular situation far exceeds what I have to offer.

She can get the validation she craves from every other guy there on her terms. So why will a girl fall for a TRP guy who will treat her objectivle worse than your average Beta?

I read the sidebar and all, but my mind just cant grasp the concept.

I understand that by treating her "like shit" you are demonstrating that you dont need her, that you have options and that you must therefore be of higher value than her.

So she would feel attracted to you.

But in my mind every sane person on earth with a chimpanzee brain would see through this within 5 miliseconds. Being treated in a nice way is objectively more desirable than being treated like shit. I just dont get how women can be turned on by it, and not just see through it.

This is one of my major problems with overcoming approach anxiety. I always assume that it must be so obvious that Im projecting a much higher value than I actually have, and therefore be called out.

From a facts standpoint I dont have much going for me. Not tall, not rich, no band,...so its kinda hard for me to justify approaching women with obviously much higher SMV.

Edit:

I am a fervent supporter of eugenics. And in my book the human race must strive for perfection by all means. More so from a genetic standpoint. But I do not posess superior genes, like the tall, hyper intelligent, super masculine Alpha male Im imagining. So its really hard for me to justify (potentially) procreating with a lot of different women, as I think this should be reserved for the best genetics. So my desire for Sex is a purely selfish one, not beneficiary to the human race. I understand that monogamy leads to a stable society for all the Betas will be content. But something deep inside me feels repulsed by the idea, that inferior genes should be allowed to be passed.

How do you solve this dichotomy between your very own and selfish desire for Sex and the need of the human race to pass on only the best genes?

So amused mastery and confidence, yes okay, I guess it works. But it is just pretending from my side. I have much lower value (SM-value) than her. I am not an amused master gentlemen living in a castle, driving a Rolls Royce bathing in gold with a private army. Im just a broke dude that wants to fuck her pretending to be an amused master.

Its all fake. Its all a lie.

Now Im actually okay with faking and lying to get what I want, as long as Im honest with myself, that Im lying and faking. Contrary to what I wrote before about eugenics you might say. But the weird thing is that as long Im clear with myself that Im a lying I am ok with it, what Im not ok with is when Im pretending not to lie and fake and pretendig to myself that I REALLY am a superior "amused master". Because I obviously know that I am not.

By writing this I am more and more comprehending that maybe there is a central message that TRP is lacking. So I give it a try.

I accept that I am of lower value to the females (in this society) and that my value is lower than that of some other dudes. I should therefore not be entitled to sleep with women. But I accept that those moral values are not a universal principle. They are just what society and my brain have come up with. Id rather embrace full out Hedonism and accept that I, a low value guy, am allowed to lie to women, just to fullfill my desires. That maybe it doesnt benefit society, but I dont need to justify my actions anymore. Edit 2: I thought this was TRP were political correctness is not tolerated. By saying treating a woman like shit I obviously mean amused mastery, confidence, etc...jeez