How to Develop a Rock-Solid Frame That Magnetically Attracts Women

Ostradamus · 2017-06-12T20:38:24+00:00

Great post. Lifting and changing habits is easy compared to developing a strong frame. This is one thing I really need to work on and your post is insightful and detailed.

SLMC1 · 2017-06-13T01:25:58+00:00

Having accomplishments and self-improving clearly help one develop a stronger frame, but it can't be overlooked that having a strong frame is itself a skill that for most people has to be deliberately worked at even if you're already the man in 100 other ways.

We know this because there are people with incredible frame that are effectively losers. These people are never losers who are self-conscious about themselves. They're losers who don't give a flying fuck.

Now, you don't want to be a loser that doesn't give a flying fuck. You want to be a winner who doesn't give a flying fuck. But that's a difficult thing to become. It's also probably the best possible thing for a man to become.

While you improve in other respects, one of the things you can do to consciously work on developing stronger frame is to set hard rules for yourself about what you'll express in an interaction. The most important is to never express any sense of having been offended or hurt by something either her or anyone else said. That includes complaining to her about things other people said or empathizing with her if she herself complains. Almost nothing is a more clear break in frame than being emotionally hurt by the noises coming out of other people's mouths.

If she can make you upset, you're not the alpha male she's looking for (move along, move along).

Anonymous_Caucasian · 2017-06-12T21:15:54+00:00

Most ~~young~~ guys lack frame because they don't know who they are, or what they want. Just like a house, you start with a weak foundation, any frame you build on top of that will be weak as well.

CanuckinFL · 2017-06-13T06:20:36+00:00

I'm offering a suggestion that in many ways, the only real way to have an authentic frame-is, quite counter-intuitively...

you have to like yourself deeply. I mean real deep. Into the solar plexus deep. Nothing moves that, and nothing shakes that.

Because it's relevant- Rudyard Kipling's "IF" is worth a read- won't repost it all, it's lengthy but it starts-

"If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or being hated, don’t give way to hating, And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise..."

Google that shit for the rest. Words to live by

PS-note there is not one single reference in that poem with regard to women.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-06-12T21:31:25+00:00

Frame comes from confidence and confidence comes from becoming excellent at something. So one way to develop frame is to become exceptional at something.

Another (and described by the OP) is to work on your social weaknesses until they become strengths.

Finally, frame must be maintained. To wit, OLTR2 was giving me some shit last night because I had bee out in the sun longer than I had planned and got a bit of a burn on the side of my neck. It's quite red, but without much pain, because that's who I roll. So she started picking at me until she reached the point where she got a Stern Look and a "What is WRONG with you?" out of me.

Her: "It's ok. Forget it. I was just being how women are....fuck with men's brains."

{Translation: "Your frame is stronger than mine. I was testing you."}

Me: "I have older sisters. I am immune. I have seen it all."

Her: "So you know. I always try to avoid this kind of behavior, but honestly it is natural. Like all women do it. I can't help it"

Translation: AWALT!

Me: "Yes. I know. But the first step in any recovery is recognizing that a problem exists."

She is struggling with her resistance at the moment. She's actually quite clever and runs her own small, successful business, which puts her waaaaaay ahead of most 22 year-olds. OTOH, she's totally stressed out all the time and is coming to grips with the fact that her best move, as it relates to me, is submission, and giving in to my calming, masculine leadership. So she took another step down the path.

And so it goes...

xeneize93 · 2017-06-12T23:44:06+00:00

Wow reading this made me realise i have a weak frame

i-Zombie · 2017-06-13T00:34:57+00:00

Without developing strong principles and character I'm doubtful that the above advice will be of much real use in the longer term, a strong frame requires strong foundations on which to build.

The morals, mental qualities and beliefs that make up our character are often called into question after taking TRP and must be revisited, readjusted and reinforced in light of the new information, personality adjustments come later and more easily.

basedgainslad · 2017-06-12T22:56:16+00:00

cope the only way to have a solid frame is be raised on raw milk and have high t and hgh levels etc

bunny_throwaway · 2017-06-12T22:52:03+00:00

again to all you newbies here. Fix your looks first. An unattractive guy with frame < an attractive guy with [lesser] frame

aegir98 · 2017-06-12T21:27:54+00:00

Excactly what I needed. Upvoted & saved.

wander_company · 2017-06-13T18:35:20+00:00

Frame is everything. Every problem i have in life can be traced back to a weak frame. EVERY single one.

Saved. One of the best posts i've ever read

redditaccountyep · 2017-06-12T20:50:47+00:00

Great explanation. Thanks for the post.

TRP_MushaShugyo · 2017-06-12T21:29:58+00:00

Can you give more examples of actions you can take to strengthen your frame? I like the idea of this as your goal as opposed to pulling.

mooksterr · 2017-06-12T23:16:49+00:00

Great article, I really like how you broke down the fallacious thinking that being uncallous or unreactive is maintaining a strong frame. I've realized this difference through experience, but I wasn't able to understand the concept/really put into words the difference. Going to check out your site.

Adam1394 · 2017-06-13T07:00:37+00:00

tl;dr Put yourself in situations when you can develop frame.

basebool · 2017-06-13T13:37:09+00:00

Good post. I like the message of you need to experience it to learn it, not by studying theory.

Also good points by other posters by lifting, leading towards a successful life and legitimate confidence in yourself is great additions.

_MysticFox · 2017-06-13T18:49:51+00:00

How can you talk to so many people? I can't stand them and I'd rather be monk moding

mmmaged · 2017-06-14T11:49:49+00:00

Good post but there's just one thing I felt had to be mentioned. the benefits of having a "strong frame" far supersede and transcend "getting laid".

Would've hit much harder of you would have related this to the general dimensions of being a male human being on planet Earth in the year 2017.

I believe the redpill is mostly a much needed, positive, reaffirming movement that has a devastating crutch: a stupid and needy fixation on women and sex. albeit those being an important part of life I see the redpill being so so much more once the core objectives are untainted by this fixation.

aegir98 · 2017-06-21T17:51:10+00:00

Why was this awesome post deleted?

chaosrunssociety · 2017-06-13T13:55:42+00:00

This place has a gym addiction. I guarantee you can do more strenuous exercise without paying a dime or leaving your house.

Dragon--- · 2017-06-12T23:51:48+00:00

I saved this. One thing I hate about red pill is the way that some materials do take a lopsided misogynistic stance which kinda makes me close the book. This is the type of material I was looking for.

AdieuAmigo · 2017-06-12T21:56:31+00:00

Any books on this particular subject?

Title	How to Develop a Rock-Solid Frame That Magnetically Attracts Women
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Date	June 12, 2017 8:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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