I'm happily married to a former escort

Black-Pill · 2015-06-12T11:52:49+00:00

Cock Carousel -> Pre-Wall Epiphany -> Locate/ Lock Down BetaBux Provider -> Children -> Starfish/Dead Bedroom -> Divorce Rape

The End

trp_hamlet · 2015-06-12T11:21:41+00:00

You won't find your validation here.

sedatedinsomniac · 2015-06-12T11:32:03+00:00

Never get into an LTR with strippers, hookers, hair dressers, or girls named Tiffany.

theozoph · 2015-06-12T12:41:53+00:00

AWALT is never more true than with escorts. There's two sorts of people in the world who never buck the stereotype : junkies, and prostitutes.

Can't trust them, can't hang with them, and certainly can't have a family with them.

Red flags :

29, biological clock is ticking, and the Wall is approaching : it's Beta Bux time!
very kinky, sexually aggressive : chances are, she's used to variety, and one way or another, she'll cheat to get it back
she hid her past from you until you married her, and now says she only escorted to help with the family finances : trickle truth, there's more she isn't saying
you're a middle-aged, successful artist, definition of the good provider
she's asian, the smartest and most pragmatic (not to say ruthless) people on Earth
she's already got you hooked on her pussy
you're considering having children with her (bad, bad oneitis man)

OP, you're going to get burned, as have all the men I know who married an asian whore.

Advice : get the snip as soon as possible, and start enquiring about divorce laws and procedures in your area. Require appointments with all the great divorce lawyers in your area so there is a conflict of interest if she ever contacts any. That's for prevention.

Then enjoy the ride, and get ready to pull the plug the second she starts giving hints there's trouble in paradise : sex slows down, she quits her job, starts talking about children, falls pregnant (do get the snip, you can freeze that shit), cheats, propose a devil's 3some to you (unless you're into that shit) or starts making bad financial decisions (whores, especially asian ones often have a gambling problem, be warned).

Do keep us appraised, though. This is one spectacular crash-to-come we all want to be spectators to. Have fun!

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katabn · 2015-06-12T11:21:36+00:00

my_wifes_secret wrote:

Me 38, her 29 - first met at a bar in Montreal. She was with her brother & sister, so not working. Got her number, called her, and we began dating. ONE YEAR later she confessed she IS an escort. (a $900/hr escort)

I've always considered myself an alpha. I've been playing the game for as long as I can remember, and never committing - even to some 9's and 10's. This girl was different. She takes care of me better than every other girl combined. Back massages, early morning bj's, sex is always available, even the kinky stuff w/ riding crops, plugs, etc, cooks, cleans, drug-free, smart, sexy as fuck 10, gets me awesome bday presents, etc. My family adores her. We travel a lot.

I considered running when I found out. I was pissed... I was mad at the whole world. I spent a month pretty depressed, but I came out of it and said fuck it, this chick treats me like a king, and she stopped escorting and found a desk job. Plus, she occasionally sets up threesomes for us with local escorts. She's fucked hundreds of men, but this has taught her what men like, and I feel like I'm being rewarded for it daily. Plus, she is STI free. We've been happily married 3 years now.

I plan to have children with this one. I'm not sure how, if at all, this will affect our future, but for now I'm happy and in love and fuck the stigma - I'm confident enough in myself to not let this get to me. I think I found the perfect woman. I think maybe she got fucked so many times the hamster inside her died from the G Forces.

Some validation that I'm doing the right thing would always be nice, but I'll accept your comments about being a dumb motherfucker also! All critiques will be welcome.

She needed to find a provider to set down after her crazy life of an escort.

She is probablily playing you, and she seems doing it well.

If you are happy good for you but keep a golden parachute arround you will probably need it in a few years

QQ_L2P · 2015-06-12T11:39:26+00:00

Man, you know you've got a real catch when "she's STI free!" is a selling point and not an expectation.

Dude, do what the fuck you want, but your story borders so close to fantasy that nobody is gonna believe it. If only for the simple fact that if your life is what you say it is, you have no reason to ever find your way to this subreddit.

Personally, I think this is a troll, so I'm gonna tell you to peddle your fiction elsewhere.

redlightspecial · 2015-06-12T12:07:25+00:00

OP, are you white?

Just curious, because white dudes are the most thirsty for asian pussy.

It's mind-bogglingly unreal the amount of red flags they try to rationalize/hamster their way past, which I see you doing all over this thread and in your original post.

Thecddm · 2015-06-12T12:56:14+00:00

You literally married a whore

Davidkpa · 2015-06-12T13:42:16+00:00

As someone who has a friend that is a high dollar escort (we've been friends since middle school when she went from troll to tall beauty). She probably realized she was aging out and got tired of it all.

My friend has offered to threesome with me and my fiancee a few times and has tried hard to get with me. She's incredibly attractive and typically gets $400 an hour. Big time into fitness and is a certified personal trainer. But she's a whore and that turns me off quick.

She's incredibly lonely and feels like she has no friends or people she can trust other than me and my fiancee. I've saved her more than a few times, and I handle a bunch of her legal stuff for her on a discounted friends and family rate of $75 an hour.

She's literally been so lonely she's called me up during the day just to come over and cuddle while we watch something on Netflix. Yeah she has twenty regular "clients" whom she also gets paid to provide personal training to. But that's who she is to get paid, not who she really is.

She's been doing it for nearly a decade and has $500k saved up that we put into a Trust that is being handled by a corporate trustee and she gets nearly three percent interest on every three months (she makes more but she puts it back into the principal), so sitting on her but she makes nearly $60k a year while I bust my ass to barely break $125k a year.

But now she's 31, desperate to find love and incredibly conflicted on how to do it and is seeing a shrink for help. I've toyed with the idea of fucking up her head and making her a submissive but even I have my limits to being a complete asshole.

nainomis · 2015-06-12T12:09:34+00:00

Whores have feelings too. But how do you feel about getting 100's of guy's sloppy seconds? Seriously no wonder she treats you like a king, you're propably the only person who will have her

ComradeCynic · 2015-06-12T13:23:58+00:00

Do what you want. However, keep some cash in a separate account that she knows nothing about; or even have actual cash in bills somewhere in a hidden place - so if she divorces you, you won't get wiped out if she clears out all your joint accounts.

UrsusG · 2015-06-12T13:26:29+00:00

Flipside:

I LTR'd a prostitute (stripper, but we all know what goes on in 'exclusive' dances in the booth) because I enjoyed her services.

It was meant to be a Red Pill deal: I provide upkeep and treat her decently and with outward respect, she gets to live at my place, provides pussy exclusively, on demand (within reason, I'm not a monster), plus cleaning and cooking.

It has devolved into her cleaning the house all day (because her cooking sucks, but okay, at least she gave it an honest try), demanding cuddling, talking, sharing feels, decorating the house with fucking potted plants and other assorted picket fence non-sexual shit that I didn't sign up for.

And sex has gotten way too fucking vanilla for my liking too.

tl,dr: AWALT

Malinois · 2015-06-12T13:38:55+00:00

You plan to have. Children with her and it would make you smile knowing that all of those dicks she deliciously sucked used and abused the same lips she will kiss your son on the forehead with?

Have at it...When the sex dies down and she hits the wall, you will be chained to her for LIFE!

Good Lord, son...You are about to find out the hard way why you can't turn a hoe into a housewife...

I've been there...I was nearly engaged to a high end escort myself, until I found out...

Fuck em and chuck em...

Tarnsman4Life · 2015-06-12T14:17:01+00:00

Dude you are the kind of guy who likes to pull the ripcord at the last moment arnt you? You have jumped out of the plane, the ground is fast coming up at you, the second you have kids with her it will be too late to pull the rip cord and after that, maybe a year or four or five WHAM.

Do not mingle your finances, keep cash on hand, get a fucking prenump and make sure you both have a lawyer review it(seperate lawyers).

Can it work? Maybe. But the chances of this blowing up in your face are pretty high, maintain frame, keep an eye like a hawk on her and plan for the worst.

prodigy2throw · 2015-06-12T17:39:21+00:00

Please update us after a year. Sounds interesting.

youngtafari · 2015-06-12T16:06:02+00:00

If she was making $900/hr and couldn't parlay that into some kind of self-sustaining business, where she wouldn't have to get a desk job, than she probably isn't a keeper

SCROTAL-SACK · 2015-06-12T17:22:00+00:00

She's fucked hundreds of men.......... Plus, she is STI free.

I wouldn't bet on that, champ.

rpscrote · 2015-06-12T19:12:51+00:00

but I'll accept your comments about being a dumb motherfucker also

Get ready to lose half your shit. She's playing you like a fiddle

freethinker34 · 2015-06-12T20:57:03+00:00

If your goal is to aquire superior genes in terms of what you consider "10" looks for your children, you are making the right choice despite what all the red piller's in here are saying.

Yes her past is an indicator of lots of red flags down the road, the people here are correct about that. But what they don't consider are the positives. If you are prepared to face a cheating spouse, divorce, and heart break in exchange for a few years of good time and some children then you are making the right decision. And there IS a possibility that she will actually be a great wife. The choice is yours, but you need to make it with a clear head and aware of the possibilities. Good luck

oneonlydk · 2015-06-12T23:08:39+00:00

Literally, captain save-a-ho

alpha_buffalo · 2015-06-12T12:58:09+00:00

100% Troll.

If you are getting what you need why marry?

There is certainly a problem if you seek validation because she has sat on 100 dicks.

Any woman who has sat on 100 dicks regardless of her now settling down cannot be ultimately set for a LTR and even if so it should not be you. After 100 dicks what makes you so sure you're the last one? Worse off that she's a 10 as you say.

Wake up and go get a 26 year old who hasn't had to charge anyone for what is abundant.

Divided-Line · 2015-06-12T14:37:07+00:00

I don't believe a word of this.

battyryder · 2015-06-12T17:40:55+00:00

who gives a fuck, she treats you good right? personally i wouldn't marry a whore. but if you don't mind then why fucking come here and seemingly brag about it. sounds like it does bother op though

getomc · 2015-06-12T12:48:18+00:00

Invaders! Sound the alarm.

beachbloke · 2015-06-12T15:34:15+00:00

I am upvoting your post because the comments are great. You are oneitis'd for this girl dude. Wake up! AWALT! She's not one in a million. She's just another girl, and she is lying to you in more ways than you will ever find out.

Title	I'm happily married to a former escort
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Date	June 12, 2015 11:10 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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