Making Up For Missing Out

GayLubeOil · 2015-03-17T18:09:50+00:00

At this point there is nothing we can do to stop the Open Hypergamy train. We might as well profit from it. Obviously this trend creates a lot of alpha fucks opportunities. It also has the potential for a lot of literary and film opportunity as well as satire. There is definitely money to be made her.

stilllearningsed · 2015-03-17T16:51:24+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if I'm the male equivalent of this. Almost completely missed out on my youthful party days by being a pathetic, obese, spineless, hermit, stereotypical gamer geek. Learned a little PUA and finally put some effort into my body and worked my way into some unsatisfying relationships that kept me occupied for my late 20's. Finally graduated from PUA to RedPill and am now enjoying immensely being on the other side of the fence. I don't see myself ever allowing a girl to place the 'boyfriend' title on me and the few attempts so far have been sources of great amusement to me.

When I mull this over my personal saving grace is that I have always been, even during my deep blue days, vociferously disinclined towards marriage or children. In this I've been congruent even prior to unplugging. Maybe its just my male hamster pulling some overtime but, frankly I don't care because I now like who am and am enjoying the life I live.

squarehead93 · 2015-03-17T19:45:53+00:00

Man, I can't be the only one who read that title and thought it was gonna be another post by that one user (and his 10 alts) about making up for not having had a super awesome sex life in high school and college. What a relief!

Great read. Wasn't fully aware of this "reverse carousel" phenomenon where women who were good girls and married their nice guy early suddenly freak out and decide they need to experience Alpha cock before their looks are so faded they can't get even a scrap of it. Gotta admit, TRP is changing me with regards to marriage. For a while, I was in the "marriage is super risky but it's right for society" camp. Now I'm starting to think it's just a raw deal no matter what, unless you literally have unbreakable frame, maintain your good looks, and god forbid never lose your job or go broke.

tombreck2 · 2015-03-17T15:51:38+00:00

Another trend is the gay bff validation task force.

Why waste time with straight men when a girl can go out with her 4 gay bffs, get free drinks and validation, have them fend off any men that approach her because she is too hot for them, twerk on her to make her seem like the life of the party, make out with her and then go home at night to watch The Bachelor while eating ice cream and cuddling.

sealteamaus · 2015-03-17T23:26:26+00:00

feminism says women arent sex objects yet this woman goes on marriage hiatus to get her brains fucked out, to be a sex object so that on her deathbed she can say "I Lived!!!" Same old I am woman, hear me roar bullshit

leodoestheopposite · 2015-03-17T19:15:44+00:00

I can see that. After my first divorce I discovered PUA, and . .. I more than made out for everything that I missed out, and then some.

And I know I am not alone among the PUA/TRP of a certain age.

In a way while a woman can ride the CC in her 20's an educated guy, educated in PUA/TRP can ride the PC (Pussy Carousel) for decades starting in his 30's. I am living proof of that, and I am clumsy, and I have screwed up so many times.

Rollo-Tomassi · 2015-03-17T21:44:50+00:00

The Rinaldi story reminded me of this old post:

http://therationalmale.com/2012/04/24/the-pet/

It’s a mistake (and sometimes a fatal one) to ignore what you know is just under the surface. It’s comforting to believe that you’ve got a special connection, and while the conditions are right, you’ll preserve a relationship based on mutual trust and shared affinity. The flaw is in believing that trust, and kinship is unconditional; that the underlying feral motivators are subdued to the point of being inconsequential. It may be that you do have a special bond that goes beyond just the physical, but that relationship is still founded on physical rules that constantly test and influence that individual.

You know better, but the desire for that connection is so strong that you marginalize the natural impulses into feel-good rationalizations. Every divorced man I know has uttered some variation of “I never thought she was capable of this.” In their comfort they wondered how they dropped the ball, especially after having played by the rules for so long. Some knew about Hypergamy, others made it their “pet”, only their beautiful panther went feral

PraiseB2SlutFucking · 2015-03-17T19:53:04+00:00

This is why, even if you manage to find (or create - hah!) a unicorn and marry her, you are still a fool for thinking she will be forever loyal and won't want to "make up for missing out."

NeoreactionSafe · 2015-03-18T19:04:40+00:00

"Hypergamous optimization" is a great linking of words.

It's actually a Heuristic approach to problem solving:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Heuristic

This is different than male logic which typically uses "brute force" solutions and is usually able to solve for "All Possible Outcomes". Men are objectively rational.

Women use this simple Heuristic that goes like:

Is male perceived as "above" me in the heirarchy? If so, experience desire.
Is male perceived as "below" me in the heirarchy? If so, experience repulsion.

. The women never fully "knows" where she is in the heirarchy because her Heuristic problem solving is "lazy" and only looks for certain "cues". This opens the door to Players who can Game them.

The wisest women use Charm as a kind of "deep probe" of a man to discover his true "above" status (Alpha used as an Adverb) and these women will perform the best optimization and be the least likely to need to branch swing.

The dumber the woman the more shallow the "cues" are and the easier they can bounce around in the randomized Hypergamy seeking behavior. The Cock Carousel, then Wall await her.

So there is value in female Charm because if she does "lock down an Alpha" (Noun) her depth of knowledge of what she has is deeper. It's also true that she will notice a man sliding into Beta (Adverb again) mode and so she will be quick to spot it happening.

sigmayogi · 2015-03-19T16:40:24+00:00

The final blaze in which western civilization will burn. Everyone fucking each other and is never satisfied. It's almost as if this is all part of some soft insidious war against humanity.

Or maybe it's just my paranoia.

VanityKing · 2015-03-18T00:40:47+00:00

My main concern with the open hypergamy trend is the fact that politics favor women by far in terms of litigation, and pretty much any man can be victim to the long dick of the law if a plate was to cry abuse or rape. It's a pretty fucked up world for men right now, which is why I am pretty happy to have found TRP and the ideas of MGTOW. Honestly we just need virtual reality and sex bots asap, I'm pretty sick of worrying if a plate will get pregnant intentionally or cry rape or foul play if I ever drop them.

Title	Making Up For Missing Out
Author	Rollo-Tomassi
Upvotes	122
Comments	53
Date	March 17, 2015 3:46 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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