Never Enter Her Frame

SwoleFox · 2016-06-29T00:47:16+00:00

I have a tendency to want to help people get out of their shitty situations. The red pill has been beating it out of me. Go in, get what you want, and get the fuck out.

"Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved" J. Cole

raisins3142 · 2016-06-29T00:09:28+00:00

This post is inspiring due to the lack of apparent anger.

I went through much less and am probably more angry.

RP-Doctor · 2016-06-29T08:10:50+00:00

Say anything you want about TRP. Criticize it in any way, viable or bullshit, but you cannot deny this. This would never happen to a man who followed TRP.

I swore this was going to end in marriage, divorce, and a blood sucking alimonymobile getting fat and collecting half your shit. So glad it didn't. Still the red flags were obvious from the beginning.

We've been over it 100 times, but I'll say it again

No single mothers
No girls who are currently in need of cash, especially if they're out of your league
No alpha widows
No "mental illness" (in the old days this was just called being a bitch who couldn't handle life)
No addictions

trippinallday · 2016-06-29T00:19:19+00:00

Well done, glad you got out when you did man

masterypill · 2016-06-29T01:29:22+00:00

Fast forward 3 years and we’ve moved 2 different times to get places that cater to her needs which both happen to be further from my job.

I felt pain when I read that. Why genetics programmed men help women so much and felt for it when they need "helps"?

Men need to analysis the situation: Will the action benefit both parties, or just become her provider. I have been refusing to do favor to women: "Hey I have a flat tire can you help?"; Or standing next to you at Starbucks but 'forgot' to offer to pay.

Guys, STOP doing women favors! You really think women can't change tires? They just want to save the energy so they can divorce rape you later.

Battle-Scars · 2016-06-29T02:10:52+00:00

You didn't enter her frame, you jumped into her La Brea Tarpit of dysfunction. Glad you got out before you became a fossil.

empatheticapathetic · 2016-06-29T00:49:51+00:00

Good for you man. Did you ever have any strange 'gut' feelings that it was wrong when you started caring for her more and more?

cardboard-blaster · 2016-06-29T01:27:11+00:00

Congrats on regaining your FREEDOM! Nothing tastes as sweet.

NarcoticDesiderium · 2016-06-29T03:00:06+00:00

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What is this?

d4ng3rz0n3 · 2016-06-29T01:34:19+00:00

You are so lucky you did not have kids or get married with this girl.

End of lease/new apartment and its a fresh start. Good for you, and now you know better.

Botanical-Concepts · 2016-06-29T03:18:03+00:00

Sounds like borderline personality disorder.

WildmanThaGod · 2016-06-29T05:06:45+00:00

I don't see how guys could ever give a girl the time of day if she already has a kid, I ain't tryna take care of anotha homies kid forget that, I mean if it's a hot teacher or mom that's a completely different story but a girl I want for an LTR? No way in hell

ex_addict_bro · 2016-06-29T04:48:08+00:00

In fact, she slit her wrist last September and I found her in the bathtub. I called 911

Good, I would not done otherwise, this was good because doing something else could get you in trouble, but:

and saved her life.

I doubt it. It looks like she wanted to be saved. IDK the details, but I bet this was hysterical attempt to gain attention.

Remember, I literally saved her life the month before this lol.

That's what you believe. Maybe she wanted you to feel important.

"Next" seems a very powerful tool. I'm not sure where will it lead to because I never used it as often as I do now (4 nexts in last 2.5 month); maybe nowhere, maybe women are broken beyond repair. Anyway, nexting looks like a better alternative than staying with women who exhibit potentially harmful behavior.

Anything84 · 2016-06-29T04:49:25+00:00

Living in LA you should be familiar with Leykis 101. If not, learn it.

melxer · 2016-06-29T06:46:36+00:00

Too bad you didn't let her die in peace.

SomeKid1224 · 2016-06-29T07:57:19+00:00

And NEVER stick your dick in crazy.

Stythe · 2016-06-29T11:04:20+00:00

Crazy bitches are the worst. I dated one. I lost my savings, let myself get into drugs too much, lost my job, was housing her loser brother and got bailed on and left to deal with the outcome after being made to feel worthless. They just take and take and when you won't give they knock your prude down u til you feel guilty and start giving even more. It's brutal! I learned a lot though and it seems lole you did too so that good, but holy shit. Fuck those bitches. And only briefly.

Alpha_Centurion · 2016-06-29T12:48:59+00:00

I can't feel bad for guys who date women like this. It's like going to play with a pet Tiger that haven't eat for a week, I mean, the risks are there, in YOUR FUCKING FACE.

Benny757 · 2016-06-29T13:50:57+00:00

The power to be able to step back, and walk away. Sometimes this is the hardest thing to do, particularly when our psychological belief system has been engrained into us from - well, the beginning, to be the beta provider, the gentleman, and to deal with women doomed to be entitlement seeking by modern feminism. Another example of a modern-feminist disaster "taking and sucking" from society.

And of course your followed your psychological programming and tried to do what you felt was right. You acted how society taught you to act. You were taught to be the sacrificer.

Thank god you extracted yourself from that mess.

Time for monk mode and MGTOW now? Relationships are just not worth it. In my book, even plates are filled with risk. Currently I'm trying to just go my own way, and I am loving it. Just remember all of that energy and life that was sucked from you.

Glad you escaped.

1v1crown · 2016-06-29T15:46:09+00:00

Welp I started checking out at divorced and completely checked out at single mom. Forget the rest of the red flags. Basically this would never happen to me cuz that's a girl I would never talk to.

WhiteKnightFgt · 2016-06-29T03:58:10+00:00

Don’t date single mothers & hold your fucking frame.

How about: Don't date people who SLIT THEIR WRISTS. Moron.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-06-29T02:08:50+00:00

Wow... that's a full on disaster.

Exactly why do you care if she lives?

Seems to me if on day one you DGAF then this would not have happened.

Plus, in the Dark religious traditions it's believed that if you either take or encourage the death of another you "absorb" their energy as a kind of human sacrifice. If she knew that from the start (even if you didn't believe it) she would have no leverage.

She's obviously manipulating you.

Probably should have left her in that tub... to "rest in peace".... huh?

You need to get out of it of course.

Warning

Suicide can become homicide... she might try to kill you if you try to end it.

Trumpipede2016 · 2016-06-29T08:15:39+00:00

I'm glad I found Roosh V's stuff before I ever got into a relationship with a woman- this shit sounds horrible! Glad you found TRP.

aanarchist · 2016-06-29T10:31:16+00:00

next her if she doesn't fit in your frame*

makechangegreatagain · 2016-06-29T11:18:32+00:00

Yo man, no offense.. But how did you even continue this relationship despite all the red flags and the fact that she had kids she refuses to take care of? Nevermind the fact that there's two different baby daddies before 25..

I mean, I feel like I wouldn't fall for a chick like that ever. Even in my BP days I avoided single moms and looney tunes like this.

Were you desperate or something? I mean you live in LA there are plenty of hot chicks around you.

niczar · 2016-06-29T12:46:53+00:00

Borderline Personality Disorder.

Transmigratory · 2016-06-29T14:32:07+00:00

I reckon the key is knowing when she's trying to superimpose her frame onto you i.e. trying to make a sob story to get something off you.

cobe788 · 2016-06-29T15:30:58+00:00

That sounds like this girl is BPD as fuck. Those traits from the beginning shouldn't have been avoided. I hope everyone learned a valuable lesson here. No matter how good the pussy is, never stick ur dick in crazy. And when u meet a BPD woman---> run like hell !

redpillschool · 2016-06-29T17:27:44+00:00

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Title	Never Enter Her Frame
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	187
Comments	75
Date	June 28, 2016 11:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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