New red piller dude. Noticing harsh side-effects.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-07-19T20:30:46+00:00

At the Institute we called this "Total Emotional Devastation."

This is the phenomena that occurs when all of one's idealisms, the entire system of belief upon which one lives one's life, no longer maintains its credibility with the person. The validity of everything in which you ever believed, is gone. All those delusions by which you had previously been controlled. The puppet strings.

This is a good process, because it shows that you are becoming free. It's not an easy process, but it's worth it BY FAR.

When all those social and mass psychological forces start working IN YOUR FAVOR, you'll be able to cope with the situation much more easily. It just takes time to adjust.

footballtrav89 · 2013-07-19T19:42:37+00:00

Replace your goddess with a god(yourself). Focus on improving things in your own life just to please you. Being happy with yourself with certainly improve a lot of those side effects. It's ok to be angry but just realize all that matters now is the future.

fuk_offe · 2013-07-19T19:52:23+00:00

The world you thought you lived in suddenly vanished. All of the purpose you had defined for yourself in that world is irrelevant. You need to reinvent yourself, as does anyone who suddenly discovers that his life was based on a lie. What you're going through now is actually very similar to the confusion of a man who discovers that his beloved wife of many years has been cheating all along, or one who suddenly realizes that the Christianity he was raised on is a poisonous fiction.

Start to actively create a mental model of an ideal man who is living a good and meaningful life in the world as you now know it to be. What kinds of things would motivate him? How would he relate to the people around him? What goals would he pursue?

And then, whenever you're not sure what you ought to be doing or feeling or thinking or aiming towards, ask yourself how that guy would handle this question. Over time, internalize the model, until you become the ideal that you have defined for yourself.

exbeta · 2013-07-19T18:59:21+00:00

It's like taking the goddess away from the goddess worshiper.

I fucking love this simile. It could be worse--you could've been addicted to heroin. Don't fret, the initial feeling of "misogyny" will pass as your eyes adjust to the light.

blueice547 · 2013-07-19T19:00:05+00:00

It's a harsh pill to swallow. Sudden realization can suck for a few months, but don't let that feeling stick! As what was stated before, it's not women hate. Understanding women and why/how they operate.

2013-07-19T19:33:34+00:00

Why do my eyes hurt? You've never used them before.

rojopill · 2013-07-19T19:44:36+00:00

you're undergoing the purge, it'll get worse before it gets better. not all have the testicular fortitude to handle it...

try not to become bitter though, since the self is always coming through.

legendofpasta · 2013-07-19T20:32:55+00:00

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p3ndulum · 2013-07-20T08:28:46+00:00

There's nothing wrong with being a misogynist. You'll quickly realize that all it means is that you have opinions about women that aren't flattering to them.

TDCRedPill · 2013-07-19T19:43:00+00:00

Yup. Your brain is swallowing the pill causing a lot of your long term, preconceived notions to be examined, and often discarded. There's probably some actual pain to go along with it, but that will happen with any traumatic event, and this is no different.
Yup. Ditto here.
You have a reason for thinking of this; examine the reasoning ('it will help my drive to be more social and successfull in life') not the implication ('Man, I'll miss my 3TB of meticulously categorized porn'). Red Pill should instill you with the very scary amount of responsibility YOU have in directing your life. When you accept this, those decisions will be easier, and the regrets you carry after decisions will be less because you examined things with open eyes and took the best course of action for you.
Not being idolized or held up to impossible ideals is not the same as hating or misogyny. If feminism is the radical notion that women are people, and men are flawed, imperfect beings, then either men aren't people or women are flawed, imperfect beings. Take your pick, but I'm confident in the latter.
Yeah, that's a big one, one I still wrestle with. This goes back to the responsibility. What you want to do with your life is entirely up to you. As for dealing with women, I must point out that it does get better. You'll start to see interactions with everyone, male or female, as a dance of sorts. You'll make some missteps, and the result is you being a better dancer. Before too long, you'll be doing it for the sake of enjoying the dance. Right now, you're an akward noob with two left feet at your first class. But it doesn't take long until you feel yourself getting better, adapting, and becoming a star.

The reason it sucks is because you have no one to blame; your life is entirely on you. Stop worrying about how it means its all your fault, and focus instead on how anything is possible, you can do it, and that awesome will be all you're fault. When you start feeling pride for your decisions instead of regret for the decisions you made under duress following a lie, you'll never, EVER, consider being a sheep again.

TankVet · 2013-07-19T23:55:46+00:00

Yeah, maybe you should find a balance. Not worshiping women isn't misogyny. Hating women is. You can find a feeling/activity between hate and worship that may be beneficial to you.

rebuildingMyself · 2013-07-20T07:20:54+00:00

"I can't go back, can I?"

"No. But if you could, would you?"

W-Z-R · 2013-07-20T10:59:19+00:00

Misogynism is bad because it means you hate women and womanhood, but sexism on the other hand is fine, completely. It's just accepting some harsh truths about the nature of women and in fact we men are hardly perfect either. But once you've taken women out of the centre of your life and replaced that with yourself, you'll be happier and have much more choice when it comes to women.

TheNextStepinLogic · 2013-07-20T17:57:56+00:00

You need bros. Seriously, dudes who you can just chill with and have real talk. Women want you to obsess about them. But if you focus on getting what you want then women will obsess over you. So find a good group of friends and set some goals bro. Then work your ass off. It's easy to be a beta pussy orbiter just like it's easy for women to be sluts. But living a life worthwhile... now that's gonna take some hard work.

fuk_offe · 2013-07-20T18:30:31+00:00

It's normal. I've been through it, it's normal to feel like that when you are ERASING and RELEARNING what you thought to be correct for the years you've been alive.

We're all gonna make it bro.

IllimitableMan · 2013-07-19T18:48:29+00:00

Dude, I was EXACTLY like you. It's a total change of perspective. You will adapt. Remember, TRP is not women hate. It is understanding. You don't have to express TRP directly, just live it.

Wiskie · 2013-07-19T19:33:11+00:00

I feel you, but it can also be liberating. No longer are you confined to the [false] Disney storybook concept of love, happiness and a life well-lived. Without being overdramatic, it gives you more power over yourself--a good thing.

JonnieCage · 2013-07-19T22:21:07+00:00

While I don't have any physical symptoms, I have noticed how my thought process changed. I used to think alpha fux beta bux was a one off situation. But looking back on what my girlfriends went after vs what they claimed they wanted definitely tells you something.

chegothy · 2013-07-20T11:10:52+00:00

I feel like I'm going through a similar thing at the moment. Different side effects however. For me, it's more like a feeling of running on autopilot. Like nothing particularly matters; it doesn't feel like there's any great "goal" anymore, as ridiculous as that sounds.

For my entire adult life (all four years), I've always been in a position of having at least one woman around. She's either been a girlfriend or someone I've been chipping away at to make her a girlfriend. For the first time, I find myself in the situation of not having any main female figure in my life. Nor do I particularly want one. I still feel a degree of repulsion and betrayal, which I'm trying to get past, but it's pretty damn hard. I'm trying to do the whole focusing on myself business, but I feel this inner anger and frustration is clouding my focus a little at the moment.

I guess you could say the logical part of my mind has received the best wake-up call in the world, but the emotional part is experiencing one of the biggest tragedies it's ever known. Ah well, these things take time. I'll just keep running on autopilot until I come to terms with it.

realniggasstandup · 2013-07-19T19:03:02+00:00

Lower opinion of women that feels dangerous or unhealthy. Fear of becoming misogynistic.

Step 1: Abandon leftoid definitions and mentality. Leftoids are the people of victimhood. Just look at the recent Trayvon Martin case. SImilarly, lesbians will throw around the word misogynist in attempts to play the role of a victim (to get more sympathy from others). Acknowledging the reality that men and women are different doesn't make you a misogynist any more than acknowledging whites and asians have higher IQ than their black and hispanic counterparts makes you racist; it's just how it is. Playing the victim to get sympathy is the only way leftoids win since they have no moral case for anything they advocate for. The entire leftoid political framework is based on victimhood.

Step 2: Acknowledging that men and women are different will make your life better and your partner's life better. Modern women have been misguided by lesbianism to seek masculinity and abandon femininity. There's a reason why women's happiness has declined since leftoid culture took over. Feminists (political lesbians) have encouraged women to forget their fertility, seek careers, to slut it up, and finally live a life of spinsterhood. Look at the website: pininterest.com; Predominately women and predominately filled with pictures of feminine stuff. This is what women want/desire. It's certainly not an unhealthy view.

2013-07-19T20:50:28+00:00

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Date	July 19, 2013 6:43 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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