If you were born with male genitalia, you have to be the one who makes the first move in 99% of instances. That's the hard truth, and the sooner you accept it the better off you will be.

Is it unfair? From the perspective of modern society's definition of 'equality', sure. But I would argue that equality in the form we aspire to achieve is flawed, because it undermines nature. Everyone can see from the moment they are born that there are people who are weaker than others, more sick than others, and then there are those who are more confident, more intelligent, more good looking, more charismatic. And then there are differences between the genders too.

You've seen girls who you really want to go ahead and chat up, and yet you've been scared of rejection. PUAs tell you to chat that hottie up because otherwise you would not know where it could have lead to.

That's true, but there's another aspect to approaching that I would like to mention. Know when you walk towards that chesty blonde, that she would never have the courage to approach you if someone put a gun to her head and her life depended on it. That's just who girls are, and that's what pisses us men off because we thought 'equality' extends both ways. It doesn't.

Anyhow, remember as you walk towards her that you do not even care what her response is. She does not even know what approaching is. She just waits for someone to approach her. She is much more scared of rejection than you are; so much so that she will never dare to face it.

If you are superior to someone in any skill, do you really give a damn about what they think about your work? So go out the next time you can, and play with her. Say the most ridiculous thing you can think of and bask in the rays of her faux horror. She could never have said that, and she never will. She's not a man.

Everyone wants something they cannot get themselves. Why do you think women dream of a man coming around and swooping them away, and not the other way around? Because they know deep inside that they can never approach.

Lastly, start doing one thing, that really helps out when you want to get in the mood to approach. Go into a shop, preferably a clothing one, and chat up a female employee about a product you are 'interested' in. Shove in some remarks about the weather, and how you had an interesting encounter just a few minutes ago (make something up). Next, on the street, smile and say anything to some strangers as they walk by. Anything would do: Nice watch, nice dress, nice hat, literally anything. Go ahead and do it, and you'll be ready to approach any boobied creature that your heart desires. It'll be worth it.