This weekend I came very close to having sex with this girl at her graduation party, only a few hours after her boyfriend had left. After a long night of drinking and board games, everyone spent the night. Her brother and uncle were present. We did everything else but have sex only because there were too many people around.

I told my main plate about the situation (She doesn't mind me sleeping with other women). She said I'm a certified homewrecker. She reminded me that I started messing with her when she had a boyfriend. The same with 2 of my other plates - one of which broke yesterday. However, 3 of the 5 women that I've been messing with had boyfriends when I met them.

I'm not 100% sure what this says about me but I say all this to reiterate the notion that hypergamy is very real. If you are in an LTR you must maintain some level of dread in the relationship. My main plates ex-boyfriend was a football player, nice smile, nice supportive family with money, he himself was a decent guy (I went to high school with him). I would also say he was pretty masculine himself; by no means was he, Mr. Nice Guy. I think about where he could have failed but I can't really think of much - he is Chad (At least in looks). However, In her eyes, I was simply just a better option and the skills I've learned here made things that much easier.

She's not yours, it's just your turn.