Save your own life: recognize female predators

squirestrat · 2016-01-22T13:00:12+00:00

Woah? Uh, if she's being legit - wow. Dodging a bullet is an understatement. Let's assume she ain't cus' these new aged ladies can be a wee bit off the richter scale..

Christ almighty I wonder what the ends of her means would have been. If she's sticking up for all these bum fuck drugs whilst also pulling the misogyny card I feel sorry for you.

"That 1920s girl look"

I've found that the girls that pull of a "unique" look or appearance typically tend to be more coo-coo than your average TNA yoga pants cumdumster. Be extremely weary around these trojan horses man.

Pantomeme · 2016-01-22T20:22:00+00:00

Women never judge a man's vices unless she's not getting what she wants. If you don't judge her, she'll open the vault and tell you everything about herself not only willingly, but proudly. When that happens, smile and agree outwardly… inwardly decide what you want to do next, but never tell her what you're thinking, never tell her why. Not only will she not understand her own vices are what caused you to walk away, she won't be angry when you go. No drama on the exit, no false accusations, no troubles.

DforDeadpool · 2016-01-22T11:35:57+00:00

Why we don't have a "Dodged a bullet" flair?

Dustin_Bromain · 2016-01-22T11:57:35+00:00

You wouldn't even see the countless red flags fly up before this minefield of a woman instantly explodes and sends your body in a thousand different directions.

B_Campbell · 2016-01-22T15:21:17+00:00

"I don't really shy away from anything, I never do coke. LOL! I have been doing meth for several years. I don't do or fit the tweaker stereotypes. I like benzos but oxy's make me itch. And I do H once a month for pain relief. She rattled this off like it wasn't anything.

Well that escalated quickly.

billcosbyeatsbabies · 2016-01-22T16:52:51+00:00

on another note it's actually pretty impressive to do meth for 7 years and still look good enough to get hit on by an average dude. but still that's all kinds of fucked up

twatbutter · 2016-01-22T12:54:27+00:00

The instant that I read that she sent pics of her titties I knew that I was in for a treat. Good on you for dodging the bullet, but next time I'd advise restraint entirely with these types, especially if she's a drug addict. She might claim to have been high on something when she fucked you and viola, rape accusation.

Archwinger · 2016-01-22T18:42:50+00:00

This is a bit extreme of a title. This woman is not a "predator". She's just another basic bitch. A hedonist. If it feels good, do it. Right now. Don't worry about the future. Just show up at a club with 53 cents in your pocket and they'll let you in the door for free so a bunch of guys can buy you drinks and drugs. Fuck the best one at closing time. Maybe a few more in the bathroom beforehand if they're hawt.

It's cool to have standards, like not dating dirty-ass, drugged-out loser women who are so fucking slutty that they're sending you tit pictures a day after meeting you at a bagel shop. Those are great standards, actually.

But you didn't avoid a "predator". You just vetted a girl who didn't meet your standards by pretending to be drug-positive, getting her to open up about her dirty-ass drug habit. The same way we encourage vetting a girl by pretending to be sex-positive, so she'll try to impress you with her tales of gregarious sluttery as you mentally check off the "fuck only" box and make her fourth in your rotation.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-01-22T16:20:55+00:00

The woman will likely be dead in five years.

I remember when a girl who knew she had HIV was going around at a bar (this was in Kansas City) trying to get guys interested in her with excessive flirting and heavy physical contact. I was talking with a guy that just sold a house before the last housing bubble collapse and he was celebrating his big profits.

She managed to hook up with the guy.

Later that same woman with HIV was arrested after biting a police officer at that same bar.

Scary stuff out there.

Stythe · 2016-01-22T18:08:37+00:00

Seems surprisingly normal. I have to admit the amount if people that do Meth or heroin these days surprises me. I've got nothing against drugs myself, but some just aren't worth it. I thought that was common knowledge, but apparently not. To be fair though, when I think back to my druggier days, I assumed being high several times a day was just whatever too.

awalt_cupcake · 2016-01-22T21:03:28+00:00

This post had nothing to do with predators. The predators I've encountered exhibit the following traits:

Act "cool". Any girl trying to be "cool" has actively sought out men (and women) for sex. They play it coy so that it seems the men came for them. The women held open all the doors and the men followed her trail.
The first attempt they make at "connecting" with you will be a play of relatability and weakness. They'll tell you they're "so awkward" while laughing it off. They'll tell you how they were a victim of some sort. They were abused. Their ex cheated on them. They've just had it so hard (in many ways). They're shy. Anything to sell themselves as everything they're not (but they believe they are)
They'll plant the "soul-mate" seed in you early on. They love you or they think you two are soul-mates. It only took one of these for me to wisen up when the second girl tried this on me. I pretended like I've never been told that before. Anyway, they tell you how much in common you have. They are like ads in many ways. They find the common ground and make it seem like you did it.
The power dynamic is in their control but they want you to feel like you are. They'll make you feel smart, strong, desired, anything to make you feel like a man in order to keep you for your purposes. At first it's just fucking. She's your fuck-buddy but she wants the BB commitment. (We know not to allow this to happen). As soon as she has no use for you, she'll tear you to pieces. You weren't smart. You're less of a man. She deserved better.
They come to you. You didn't approach them or maybe you already swapped numbers. This is a sure sign of female predators. They made the initiative, not you. After swapping numbers they're keen to meet up and will cooperate (more than most women will).
They've have a long history of dick or relationships. Many short relationships. Many more flings. I had an ex tell me she "was worried she'd be terrible at blowjobs" so her insecurities drove her to perfect her mouth game. The best head I've ever had in my life.
They tell you not to worry about something. The man is supposed to comfort the woman. If the woman is telling you not to worry about her past, worry. She's in control.
Don't know why: but they're super happy when you first meet them. They're fucking psychos. They're cheery or fun. Who wouldn't want this girl? You think. But time passes you find out how miserable, depressed, unhappy, and often angry they are.
They expect you to answer your phone right away, but there is long periods of silence whenever you send texts. Point is, they're getting other dick or you're not serving any use for her at the moment.
They hookup with your friends. They'll tell you they hate your buddy x and y, but after you breakup they hit up many of your buddies for a dick roll call.
They hookup with their friends. Overall predator women are just looking for the next orgasm. Even if it's from their lesbian best friends.

Summary: Female predators come in many shapes in sizes but the ones I come across, they're predators posed as house pets. They want to come inside and be a part of your frame. As soon as they are, small manipulation tactics abound. Eventually they creep in your head.

pcadrian · 2016-01-22T18:29:59+00:00

It seems that vetting is becoming necessary even for plates now. These women are toxic even for a ONS. I'm sure there are more hardcore players here who can handle it, but it's not for me.

Saiserit · 2016-01-22T18:16:41+00:00

counselor for homeless war veterans

Haha no shit! The most manipulative girl I met last year was studying to do the same thing.

ShekelBanker · 2016-01-23T12:35:16+00:00

does coke

does heroin

does meth

NUKE IT

HelloImRIGHT · 2016-01-22T13:52:41+00:00

I gotta agree with /u/Momo_dollar.

Who does meth but NEVER does coke? Oxy's make her itch but she does heroin? Its the same thing they both make you itch. Everyone likes benzos.

This bitch doesn't know what she's talking about. She's just talking. Women talk. When all is said and done, a lot more is always said than done.

GrapeShasta · 2016-01-22T22:50:58+00:00

How dare you judge this whore for doing drugs. What's wrong with you? Don't you want to get laid? You're not going to marry her.

mrrooftops · 2016-01-22T19:40:44+00:00

You had the red flag with 'retro 20's look'. If she was indeed going for a vintage style that wasn't predominantly dictated by current styles and trends, it is, in my experience, a good indicator of someone who doesn't feel they fit in with the 'now' because of underlying issues. The whole psychology behind retro and vintage is predisposed towards people looking for a comforting identity within a fairytale interpretation of 'simpler' past times because in some way they fear the present that doesn't accept them.

Edit. It is no surprise that some of the most pernicious 3rd wave feminists style themselves to be parodies of 40's ~~housewives~~ prostitutes or 60's hippy.

EnlightenedViking · 2016-01-22T20:32:23+00:00

On another note the VA(Department of Veterans Affairs) is really fucked up.

Their agenda is to push meds on these guys coming home and put them in a drugged coma reliant on the system.

sacbite · 2016-01-23T04:31:17+00:00

Wow. It's good you turned her down. She was either playing you, or you couldn't have handled how cool she was, anyway. She sounds like a lot of fun. BTW, are you a Republican?

herby · 2016-01-23T01:08:13+00:00

What's wrong with me that this is the type of woman that I'm looking for?

1v1mebruh · 2016-01-22T21:17:41+00:00

jesus, assuming it's real that makes me want to hurl. what a disgusting, worthless bitch

cariboo_j · 2016-01-23T05:04:22+00:00

Dude... Lemmy used meth and drank a bottle of Jack everyday for like 40 years.

Some people can use excessive amounts of drugs and accomplish great things.

returnofthemack2 · 2016-01-23T05:55:46+00:00

While I agree with your assessment and general reaction, I wouldn't jump to IV use just yet. Snorting heroin is still a thing, and I woudln't be surprised if that was the extent of her usage. Still bad, but really a whole diff ballgame

Adolf_ghandi · 2016-01-23T10:27:26+00:00

Next time make the date. Cancel because of some bullshit reason I.e. work emergency. Then ghost.

Don't ever allow this shit to backfire

Your_Small_dick · 2016-01-24T15:26:59+00:00

Some poor bastard down the line is going to try and save her. Just be thankful you have enough self respect and abundance mentality to not try and be that guy.

Self destructive women and crazy women are out there. Do not lower your standards if you do you are basically shorting your true SMV. You cant get a 10 when you are fucking around with broken 5's trying to save them.

PabloEscoba · 2016-01-22T16:00:23+00:00

Misogyny is why i cant get a date

Yes him too, and your nasty drug habit.Cunt

getbackdownhere · 2016-01-23T02:39:33+00:00

I see most of TRP were DARE superstars, lol.

You've been lied to most of your life about many things. Women are one thing, drugs are another.

You hear about a bitch doing meth for 7 years and your training comes right back to you. Pictures of "before/after meth", all the "X is not normal, but on meth it is" PSAs you were spoon-fed. It's amazing to you that she's even still alive!

Either this bitch is some kind of damn super-bitch from krypton and our yellow sun makes her impervious to the dangers of meth... or... what you think you know about meth is actually wrong.

Naw, couldn't be that the same society that's been trying to keep you asleep all your life about women is lying to you about drugs...

TheMGhandi · 2016-01-22T17:09:53+00:00

First thoughts on reading this story is she uses drugs to get over counselling war veterans.

Secondly, I don't think she sent you her tits, but someone similar to hers on the internet. Although, she is signalling that she does crazy shit and isn't afraid, in or out of bed.

My last thoughts are that she's trolling you. Why else would she talk about getting high? Who fuckin knows...AWALT.

Edit: a word.

MyLittleAtomBomb · 2016-01-22T19:08:10+00:00

That's why I wrote The Slut Test.

Women will always ping off the man for her expected behavior and then match it.

You have to immediately break through her slut barrier so you can see who she truly is. I recently achieved this with a very polite Turkish girl and once that wall was broken, she asked me to rub her face into the dirt when I fucked her.

Terrifying.

Galactic-Unicorn · 2016-01-22T19:33:16+00:00

Did you report her drug use to her employer for a 'random' drug test.

If counsellors are registered health professionals she will likely be struck off. And she should be struck off. Vulnerable people are at risk.

gonorealover · 2016-01-22T19:45:34+00:00

This story makes no sense.

That women is bullshitting you. She probably doesnt even know any of those drugs .

thenemaxofredpill · 2016-01-22T23:34:52+00:00

She had that retro 1920's girl look

Every chick I have ever met that is trying to pull off some old skool look like the Bad Billy or roaring 20s look...have all been crazy.

TRP Rule:

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

I mean, seriously, who could ever take a chick serious who thinks a pin up girl is her style?

watcher45 · 2016-01-23T04:12:37+00:00

This trash works with vets. Dammit, have to think about if any did anything serious because she brought her twisted perspective to them in a vulnerable moment.

occupythekitchen · 2016-01-23T22:56:55+00:00

I'm kind of in a dry spell. A self proclaimed feminist wanted to fuck, she literally came up to me and said lets fuck. Well I wasn't in a hurry she told me she lives next door to where we were so I chatted her up. She told me she got the guy working the bar last weekend and he wasn't acknowledging her. Well I noticed her promiscuity but whatever it was one time and she said she always uses a condom so whatever. We drink and chat up then we leave the bar and walk to a gas station nearby. I grab a few beers to take back to her place and the attendant tells me they're only accepting cash, no big deal there's an ATM there.

While I am at the ATM the attendant talks to her and another guy comes up and starts saying, I bet you don't even remember my name. I'm at the ATM about to withdraw money and after I hear that I hit cancel and walk straight out. I bet she didn't even notice I was gone for a few minutes. I immediately went to a bar got a shot of Jack Daniels (told the bartender what happened so he made it a double) to cleanse my mouth of that dirty AWALT germs.

I fucked up let the dry season make me desperate, thank god nothing more happened. I dodged a bullet. Self proclaimed feminists are pretty much telling you they are whores.

illmatic708 · 2016-01-24T02:39:46+00:00

You can do H without shooting it btw. Not saying this girl isn't batshit crazy but don't automatically assume she has aids or the hep because she parties

PaperTownz · 2016-05-03T06:11:26+00:00

damn I woulda at least had sex but then again I'm 19

LOL shows what I know

Musicgoon · 2016-01-22T17:17:54+00:00

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Momo_dollar · 2016-01-22T12:46:20+00:00

Ever considered she meant weed, your reaction made her think you was a square and she replied sarcasticall ?

I'm not a councillor and have little to do with the homeless or war veterans but " heroin for pain relief " sounds more like something she heard from a homeless guy / war vet and just her general choice of drugs for her age it's possible she was just telling you what she hears from her patients etc.

musicvita25 · 2016-01-22T15:24:14+00:00

I didnt read after she sent you pictures of her tits.

Im so fucking knowledgable about this shit that I get more turned on by a sexy girl not putting out so quickly then the opposite these days.

Maaaaarty_ · 2016-01-22T22:13:09+00:00

There's a bunch a chicks like this in California . their names are usually Natalie, Chelsea or something fuckin basic . they throw u off but they're the best to avoid .

TheRefocus · 2016-01-22T23:54:27+00:00

I need to ask someone about something that has been bothering me a bit about a girl i dated. Can anyone with some good experience with women pm me i can't put this out there in public.

Save your own life: recognize female predators

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Title	Save your own life: recognize female predators
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