Some of you complained about the previous field report for whatever reason, but I don't worry about the ones who complain. I post these for the ones who want to hear about a guy who posts advice on Reddit, but also posts about him doing the things he talks about.
I went out to Walmart today and saw a cute 19-year old Walmart worker (I know because I asked her her age). She was friendly and the interaction only lasted less than 5 minutes.
I was walking in Walmart checking the aisles. I saw a cute Walmart worker who was stacking the shelves. I was about to bitch out (gotta be honest with you guys), but I circled around the aisle and greeted her. I asked her her age and asked her for her number (I said other stuff in between). She told me she had a boyfriend and couldn't give me her number out of respect for her boyfriend. I told her it was cool, have a nice day, and I walked away.
Even though I approached and got the rejection, I didn't like the way I approached. I felt a little timidity in my body (I bet she picked up on it) . For those of you who don't like cold approaching, I suggest doing it to get out of your comfort zone. Some of you use dating apps, social circle game, or just warm approaches (former acquaintances). Like I've said before, cold approaching is like taking a cold shower. You just have to jump in or your mind will make you hesitate due to being uncomfortable.
Tips: I would say a good thing to focus on initially is seeing the girl and approaching almost immediately without even thinking about it. This is what the PUA by the name of Mystery called "The 3 Second Rule" and Tariq Nasheed called "Grenade Macking", both meaning approach almost immediately before your brain makes you bitch out. If you get rejected, you've had a success. If you get the girl, you've had a success. The success comes from taking action and building that confidence outside your comfort zone, the girl is a bonus. So if you get rejected, be a good sport and tell the woman "take care", "have a nice day" etc. Walk away with your head up, not with your head down like you failed and are disappointed.
Side Note: Be aware of your body and how you feel after the interaction. When you're feeling timid or have zero confidence, it will come out in your voice and it will come out in your body language. Be aware of this and use this exercise to get rid of it.
Are these field reports of getting rejected helping you guys out?
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