Should small weak guys even bother trying?

ShawnRhoden · 2015-01-12T04:24:45+00:00

Look bro I am going to be honest here. Stop being a bitch.

You mentioned a couple of things. You're 5'11 and you get a lot of replies on plenty of fish (online dating).

This means that you are above average height and you are at least average looking.

Just because you are skinny doesn't mean you have to be beta. Hit the gym and speak up. Don't let others walk over you.

Realize that you have it better than most.

Acariah · 2015-01-12T03:59:59+00:00

My first two years of college I was 5'10 and 100lbs flat. A few years later and now I'm up to 155lbs solely from lifting.

Before I seriously started lifting, much like you, I assumed I would be that size forever. Attributed it to my metabolism and 'shitty genetics' leaving me so scrawny.

I'm by no means a big guy now, but I still get huge amounts of compliments on my physique and can pull most girls no issue. Thanks to the fact I was previously skin and bones, I look like I weigh far more than I actually do since it's almost all muscle on my frame.

I know this isn't exactly what you're asking in your post, but take it from me man; Start lifting and don't half-ass it. No matter what you think, unless you have serious serious health issues you can always make progress. If you already have every other RP attribute down like you say, this is the only thing left for you to accomplish so you should seriously just man up and do it.

Nothing screams BP to me more than dismissing an avenue to potentially better yourself without fully exploring it.

tl;dr: Not exactly what you're asking, but seriously, lift. You can do it. Start slow, work hard. Take that initial hit fully realizing how small and weak you are and get over it. Nobody who follows TRP would ever give up.

GuitarHero07 · 2015-01-12T04:35:56+00:00

It is possible for you to transform yourself but it's going to take time. I didn't start getting laid on a regular basis until I was 27. There were many times when I just wanted to give up as well. Middle school, high school and college went by with scant success. Even at the age of 25 and 26, getting laid was a monumental task for me.

I'm short, I'm foreign-born (not white), naturally very shy/socially awkward and for most of my life, I was very skinny. Even when I managed to get girls into bed with me, I was so nervous that I absolutely sucked in bed.

Today, I have a pretty muscular build, I dress well and I have a high income. I am very confident with the ladies and in the past year, I had sex with 13 different women. They weren't all models, but all of them were at least decent and a few were truly hot. At any given time, I always have 3-5 girls that want to fuck me. A few years ago, I could only dream about banging a new girl every month.

Obviously, this transformation didn't happen overnight. It took 6-7 years of hard work. I read as much as I could about game, PUA, the Red Pill etc. I go to the gym religiously and bust my ass. I have been rejected hundreds, maybe thousands of times. I made an effort to be more outgoing and charismatic (basically just forcing myself to get out there and meet people).

There were many times when I just wanted to give up. Even today, I am sometimes tempted to call it quits when I face adversity. It does suck that some people have it super easy while I had to struggle to achieve my modest success. But hey, the universe isn't fair. That's something that I've truly internalized.

I was very fortunate to have an inquisitive mind and to live in a time when almost limitless information is available instantly at my fingertips. I was fortunate to discover websites like this one and I can truly say that they changed the course of my life for the better. They helped me to improve myself physically, mentally and spiritually.

It is natural to feel bitter and angry. I felt the same way. Try to channel your anger towards useful pursuits. Don't worry about things that are out of your control (your natural build, what turns women on etc.). Focus on what you can change.

I'm not going to tell you it will be easy. And the journey may be long. But it's worth it!

silentSmooth · 2015-01-12T05:29:04+00:00

I feel for you. Come on, let me give you a hug. You'll find the right girl, just be yourself.

Or,

Start lifting like a beast. Free weights, not some sissy weight machine.
Get your testostorine levels checked.
Cold shower every day. Why? Because it'll teach you to take action and stop listening to your emotions.
Voice coach. Explain to the teacher you want to project more and then practice speaking loud all the time. In shops, on the phone, etc
As an experiment get sexual as fast as possible n POF, remember less is more and your time is valuable.
Remember you're a man, not a victim. You make shit happen and life is sweet. Enjoy life and give off positive sexual vibes.

smokingmonkey420 · 2015-01-12T04:06:17+00:00

SMV = LMS

If you lack in one area, you must compensate in another.

Mire_Lurker · 2015-01-12T04:10:34+00:00

You do understand that if no one did physical activity they would all be small and weak right?

AlchemyPhoenix · 2015-01-12T05:02:56+00:00

Until you gain that weight, be sure to dress really snazzy. Skinny guys in t-shirts look like drunk chodes in bars, but if you own it, you can go for that Euro chic fashion model look. Or go grunge. Pick a tribe that feels honest to you and dress to it. Mystery is a skeleton, but he dresses to the nines and carries his frame rock solid.

token_stache · 2015-01-12T05:09:06+00:00

Hypertrophy training. That's what you want to look into.

mentalfloss2 · 2015-01-12T04:48:10+00:00

You say you're RP, but you aren't.

You're here making excuses as to why you aren't who you want to be, and your focus (banging tonnes of hot women) is BP as well.

jmotrain · 2015-01-12T04:29:04+00:00

You sound like a little whiny bitch. I'm short (5'7) and skinny and I have still pulled women. Instead of complaining on the internet, maybe you should be in the gym working towards getting bigger. "Boo hoo hoo, I can't gain any weight, I'm not white". Keep making excuses or have an external locus of control and you'll be stuck with a life of banality and mediocrity.

Sorry, tough love it is. WAKE UP IDIOT! Now go down some protein and hit the gym.

zealeo · 2015-01-12T07:53:18+00:00

Don't let genetics get in the way. I had the ultimate shitty skinny genetics. When I was 18/19 I was 6'2" 145lbs. Consistent eating and training have brought me up to a solid 215lbs.

If physical stature is your only qualm then trust me, give it a year or two of being consistent and it will no longer be an issue.

Title	Should small weak guys even bother trying?
Author	mentalfloss2
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Comments	26
Date	January 12, 2015 3:38 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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