Stop Asking Women for Dating Advice

AnonTheGreat01 · 2024-02-07T10:54:12+00:00

This post is not good because you've misunderstood the fundamental reason why women cannot give this advice.

1) It's because they are (almost universally) only able to reason from their own PoV.

2) Below a certain attractiveness threshold, men are invisible to women.

This means that women will only give advice in terms of what men who they are already attracted to could do to improve even more in their eyes.

You think that they don't want to tell uncomfortable truths. And although this is a part of the explanation, they often believe that they are telling you the truth.

The reason that this is useless for the majority of men, is that the majority of men are not already attractive.

This is why they will tell a scrawny, unconfident, bad social skills guy to 'act nice' and 'be a gentleman'. Because they are thinking about the GigaChad who has them in their rotation, and treating them like dirt.

In addition, the concept of an unattractive (invisible) man becoming attractive, is an impossibility in most girls' eyes. They do not believe that SMV is something that is flexible. They do not even consider it.

justin_w95 · 2024-02-06T22:39:54+00:00

If you wanna hunt a gazelle you don’t go ask the gazelle, you talk to the lions.

hmanasi93 · 2024-02-07T00:55:29+00:00

We will be back with more at 11: Hypergamy and AWALT.

This subreddit continues its downtrend with more generic regurgitation of the sidebar.

alleyteris · 2024-02-07T13:34:32+00:00

As a dude one time said : i dont care for what women want, i care for what they respond to

GoldAd4679 · 2024-02-07T05:10:04+00:00

This sub has lost hope if this is whats being posted.

AriesLeoSagFire79 · 2024-02-07T02:49:52+00:00

LPT: Ask us feminine gay guys (especially if you find the rare conservative ones) for dating advice.

Like men, we dgaf and will be brutally honest about what is and is not attractive. Like women, we see multiple layers and the emotional depth attached to them.

The cute, twinky ones who are actually feminine (in the RP sense - not just flamboyant queens) pull hard, and we see the good, the bad, and the ugly when it comes to game.

And we’re selective af.

We also see (and hear about ad nauseam) the cringe that our friends put up with when they were single and how off-putting it was. And we see quite well how their husbands/LT boyfriends laid it down.

We also make our friends better wives/girlfriends because we understand male psychology better than they do just like we understand female psychology better than [those of you struggling to pull] do.

But if you pull up on us looking for advice, you better be prepared for brutal honesty because we don’t give our softness and submissiveness to just any type of man (although women and other fem men usually get our gentleness by default.)

MGTOW_FIR3 · 2024-02-07T06:51:12+00:00

Anyone already on this subreddit probably isn't asking women for dating advice in the first place

mister_k1 · 2024-02-07T05:50:40+00:00

who the fuck is asking women on how to date other women??

heychirag · 2024-02-06T22:40:07+00:00

Goes back to: Never ask a fish how to catch a fish. Ask the fisherman.

onrappel · 2024-02-07T00:04:10+00:00

In other words, sidebar

omega_dawg93 · 2024-02-08T03:50:41+00:00

"never ask a deer how to hunt deer."

i typed this statement in the r/askmen forum and more than a few women asked me what the hell i was talking about. one even asked if i was high... bc, "the deer can't give me any info."

smmfh.

_ENO__ · 2024-02-29T11:08:55+00:00

Women have absolutely nothing to fear these days, we bend our backs into Pretzels so they are absolved from the outcomes of all poor decisions and this is why we have all this nonsense going on. But what women do fear the most is failure.

So, by asking her for advice you put the responsibility into her charge. Responsibility comes with the risk of failure, the failure that you she won’t look like a good person if she’s honest.

Since women are terrified of failure, if it’s on an instinctual level or not it kinda makes sense why covert contracts absolutely don’t work.

And if you see a guy asking his girl to put out more, he doesn’t get it.

If you see a guy wanting to "communicate" his problems to his woman, he doesn’t get it.

If a girl is telling a guy "we don’t have sex tonight." and he doesn’t touch her, but is waiting for her to initiate. He just doesn’t get it.

gingarot · 2024-02-07T01:10:02+00:00

Everyone should search in this sub: On the implications of powertalk and other language categories and read it if they haven't already.

Feminism is powertalk. Example: Not only does no not always mean no, "No means no" doesn't mean "no means no". It doesn't mean "All men must ask permission before mating". "No mean no" means "If you can't both discern the difference between no that means no, and no that means yes, AND you can't discern that 'no means no' doesn't apply to everyone, then we want YOU to be in the group of men that asks permission before mating. Because your lack of powertalk skills is unattractive, and we want to make sure that you don't try to sex us without first giving us an escape valve that we can use without looking mean."

Icy-Assignment-9344 · 2024-05-28T23:08:37+00:00

I've been in the opposite situation actually got bombarded by insults because I didn't want to have a child and to marry my gf... Those women giving advices seem like they hated so deeply that fact

Title	Stop Asking Women for Dating Advice
Author	throwaway384983
Upvotes	144
Comments	37
Date	February 6, 2024 10:17 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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