Some of you may think I'm crazy for making this statement, but I'm gonna explain the method to the madness.

There are millions of men in unhappy relationships. They're either bored with the women they're with or their woman is treating them like shit. Why do they put up with this torture? Because they're afraid of going back onto the dating market. They may have to talk to 100 women for dates or hook-ups and end up with only 1-3 women. Those metrics don't seem attractive to the average man. He would rather be tortured in a bad relationship (boredom or bad treatment) instead of get rejected hundreds of times to replace this woman. In his mind, at least he's getting laid.

So how is taking rejection and patience the foundation to a happy dating life? Easy. The better you are at taking rejection, the less likely you're gonna give up.

When you can take rejection, you're not stressing over all the women who rejected you. Those women were just practice to help you toughen up and sharpen your skills. You self-assess when you get rejected.

Patience is a must because you might get frustrated from being rejected over and over each and every day hundreds of times. What I like to do is focus on venues instead of getting the girl. I focus on being bold, solid, and confident in my approach instead of getting the girl. I focus on self-improvement than getting the girl. To me, it's not about getting "the girl", it's about having the power to get girls. I also want these women to be with me on my terms. If not, I have to respectfully dump them.

"Wait a minute! You're gonna dump women after all that hard work you put in?"

There's a reason why I make the success rate so low. I like to include all of the things that can go against you when you approach women. This includes having to reject some of the women you get with. A power move is rejecting a woman before you have sex with her. It sends a very strong message to the woman and to yourself. Most men will put up with her bullshit then pump and dump. I think not fucking her demonstrate to you and her that you have options... even if you have no options at the moment. However, the more women you get, the easier this will become for you to do.

Let's put this all together:

You get with a girl and she becomes your girl after 2 months. She acts like a bitch and disrespects you. You dump her and go back onto the dating market. This time, you are more stringent with the women you get with. You have sex with 20-30 women within that year and have a rotation of 3-5 women. These rotation of women are competing for the spot of your girlfriend. You're honest with these women, letting them know that things are non-exclusive at the moment, but things can change if they act right. These women may not have met each other, but being that they know you have other women, they're gonna be on their best behavior. The woman with the most genuine desire for you will win the slot of girlfriend. Being that she had to work so hard to get you, she will appreciate you more than the woman you broke up with. If she happens to do something that forces you to break up with her, you have no fear of going back onto the dating market and starting the process over again.

What are your thoughts?