TL;DR - If you want to attract women and build friendships, stop talking all the time, and start acting. Conversations are secondary to real shared experiences when it comes to building relationships.

A high-quality man has high standards for how he spends his time, so don't waste it on subpar interactions. Either lead a texting interaction to a real experience, or go focus on something worth your time.


Talk is cheap. If you want to be magnetic, that's one of the most important things to learn. People don't stick around for the conversations you've had - they stick around for the feelings they EXPERIENCED - and the stronger the feelings, the stronger the impression. They want to feel something, not to exchange information.

Women talk aimlessly for hours. They don't do it because it enriches their existence - they do it because there's nothing to do. Women bore themselves to death with empty conversations, and some guys get the foolish idea that that is what women truly want - to sit and talk. This of course could not be more wrong.

People desire ACTION. Both men and women want people they can do things with, not just sit around and talk endlessly. Men want men in their lives, who they can do things with. Women want men who take them along to experiences and adventures. Never forget that. That doesn't mean conversation doesn't have its place, but if you have to have conversations, at least make them have some value - you can use the conversation to get to know the other person (build trust and vet them); create an experience out of the conversation itself (evoke emotions in yourself and the other person); or allude to action-oriented lifestyle (share your stories and experiences).

Use your conversations intelligently, sitting and talking about nothing is pointless when you can use your time to act. Either create an experience or pave the way for one with your conversations.

The point of this post comes back to texting people needlessly. Conversation for the sake of conversation has no value. Texting is inherently unexciting, because it's as far removed from an actual experience as it is possible. You don't build attraction when texting chicks, when there is not even the "experience" of being face to face with someone - there is no feeling. In fact, attraction is lost when you show people that you are willing to partake in idle chit-chat that leads to nothing - it implies not only that you are willing to waste your time, but also that you have no better "action" to take your time up with, which communicates nothing beyond an empty and boring life. Text only for logistics, it's the only winning move.

Stop texting excessively during quarantine, focus on the ACTION that can actually be beneficial and worthwhile for you during a time like this. A high-quality man has high standards for how he spends his time, so don't waste it on subpar interactions. Either lead the interaction to a real experience, or go focus on something worth your time.