Today, I see that many men rely on dating apps during certain times of their life in order to meet women.

Many of you may have heard of a recently eliminated sub-reddit "chadfish". Its premise was to expose the nature of woman, primarily how important looks really are to them. Many posts on this subreddit featured extremely attractive men with extremely unattractive bios (ie. Nazi, criminal, mentally ill etc.) .

These chadfish profiles still got many matches and many woman accepting the chads sexual invitations, no matter how disrespectful and vulgar they may have been.

Many Incels, and blackpillers have flowed into red-pill subreddits, so I feel its needed to address some of the issues with dating apps.

  1. Most high quality women who ARE looking for a man will not use dating apps. These women usually do not have inflated egos, and are not as picky. They will happily be with a man through their own social circles, the gym, work, school, clubs and organizations, being cold approached, etc.
  2. Many men will ignore women's toxic traits just to sleep with them, but some men will not. I for example have turned down women if they showed even 1 red flag, as I dont wish to invite negativity into my life. So, the women who wished to sleep with the Nazi chad are not the majority, many women would reject him as well.
  3. Tinder only attracts lower quality women, who thus become even low quality through the nature of the app. A girl who is a 5 , with no real hobbies,personality or career prospects, can join tinder and within a day have hundreds of matches. She is fed a host of different compliments and is given attention by men in a higher status than her. This girl who is already picky becomes even more pickier, and will turn down matches for the simplest of reasons.
  4. More studies are showing that dating apps lower a mans self-esteem. You probably downloaded the app during a lonely period of your life, and you hoped to attain some validation and maybe meet a girl. The underwhelming amount of matches or dates will lower your self perception in your self. You will start to think you are unworthy.
  5. Your dating pool on tinder are the undesirables, the picky, the shallow, the clout chasers ( linking their insta accounts etc.), gold diggers, validation chasers, and free meal thieves.

In conclusion, Dating apps are something most men should avoid. If your self-esteem is still vulnerable, you should stay away from dating apps. Doing cold approaches is the same thing as swiping on tinder, except in person. In person, she is with only you, not hundreds of other matches, and therefore there is less competition. You can also rely on some of your character strengths she may not see through simple pictures on an app.

Im open for discussion and debate.