As more people subscribe to this sub, I have noticed increase mention of the false belief that women hit a brick wall and somehow the tide changes and the score is finally tied. Sure, women may hit a wall, but there are still thousands of thirsty men willing to wife it and will do almost anything to hit it. I know several slightly overweight single moms that are cute in the face and their increased chubbiness just gives them a bit more ass and tit and with the right clothes they look alright…or at least good enough to get hit on every day. Do YOU get hit on every day? The most effort these women need to put in is simply not eating and heading to Colombia for cheap lipo and implants. That alone brings them from a 4-5 to a 7-8. This is reality. Where I live, there is a large Cuban as well as Central/South American population and I must say Hispanic women age rather well. The wall is more of a very gradual hill.

There are also posts about the alpha jocks in high school or college that did not do well academically and now they must end up with low paying jobs. Again, this is wishful thinking. Those guys are usually more likely to take a chance than you and may work in shady but lucrative businesses. From strip clubs, to small time drug sales, to porn studios, don’t be mistaken, they make their money and possibly more than you with your engineering degree. Think of it this way, what comes easy to you academically may come to them with difficulty. So they work at it. And just as social interactions are easy to them, you need to work at it. If you just started dating girls in high school or college and got your first lay as a junior or senior in high school or worse yet college, you are way behind. How long would it take someone 5-6 years behind you to catch up with you academically? 10 or more years? How long will it take you to catch up with the high school alpha stud if you are 5-6 years behind him socially? How long will it take you to catch up if he has been lifting heavy in the gym for 5-6 years or more than you?

My point of this observation and rant is - it is all on you. YOU need to improve. YOU need to do something about the situation you are in. You need to approach. You need to learn to read subtle body language for clues. You need to be funny. You need to learn confidence. You need to know where to go for a good time. You need to learn how to be interesting. You need to learn to not be a thirsty beta. You need to lift heavy. You need to fix your diet. You need to learn to dress well. You need to educate yourself. You need to have the good job. You need a decent car. You need a clean nice place to live. You need to fix your teeth. You need to fix your acne scarred skin. You need to fix your hairline. This does not come easy and certainly not by playing video games, smoking weed, snacking on Doritos and Mountain Dew and jerking off to porn. The problem is you and only you, so fix it.