People really don't understand that TRP is not easy. You cannot fake being RP. Faking being a Red Pill Man is just being a PUA. If you want to pick up go to seddit or read PUA books. They will help you more than TRP if you aren't willing to work extremely hard.
Basically; you need to be phenomenal. Literally, you're aiming to be the next great industrialist, the next great warren buffet, the next tech business owner on the $COMPQ with a big portfolio, you're looking to sell your tech firm at a young age and rake millions or billions in. You are the next great person of the world. Nobody is born great; It is through great effort, suffering, and work that you become a greater man, truly a god among men, and you LOVE to work, you LOVE the effort, and you LOVE it when things don't go your way, it is another way to improve. You learn from every lesson. Everything is about the next rung on the ladder and turning around for any reason for any option is not an option. TRP is not about women, women are a byproduct and too many AFC betas focus on that sole purpose, which is why they fail.
TRP IS ABOUT YOU! Nobody is born great and it's not too late.
1)Read about 1000 books, including literature, philosophy, financial, self improvement, etc. (Speaks for itself, you don't speak of it.)
2)Become a master at a task. (Something tangible and usable in an every day circumstance or in a financial way- could be a style of jokes, could be a style of frame, could be SOMETHING. But you're the master of it and you're creating and generating spontaneous information about this thing that you created, that you're the master of. You grow from this thing: There is no better at what ever it is so you're the authority to generate new theory and ideas on this subject!)
3)Get hobbies and do them every single day. (I was addicted to video games my whole life- I cut them out by getting rid of the internet and relying on my 9GB of cell phone hot spot. It was not enough to game but enough to learn, download PDFS, and research from the internet, watch videos and enjoy. Allotted bandwidth allocation really helped me.) (Socially, of course, I'll play with friends - all drugs in moderation ;) )
4)Become physically fit and healthy. (Just start going to the gym, fuck theory. Hit every muscle group and do light weights for 2 weeks until the 'ULTRA DOMS' disappear. Then get into a overall comprehensive workout where you hit every muscle group - learn biology and the basics of personal training. Learn anatomy and physiology. learn microbiology, learn how to be smarter and more comprehensive with your self care than a personal trainer... I went up +55 lbs at 6'2" in 1 year while being under 20% bf. NO ROIDS ;))
5)Learn to cook and cook healthy. (Chicken breast, quinoa, and frozen packs of vegetables from the grocery store is a cheap, healthy, and great way to start since its easy and extremely healthy!)
6)Learn discipline and willpower and maintain it 100% of the time. (Whatever method you can find to tell yourself "No" when your subconcious mind, instinct, or body wants something and is influencing your mind, then stick with the decision)
7)Become socially amazing, larger than life. (Read self improvement books which are focused on self-happiness rather than people pleasing.)
8)Understand psychology, finances, law, interpersonal relationships, courting rituals (Kings court, courting of all people- not committing. not romantic courting), culture, and general knowledge in all subjects.
9)Expand your vocabulary to massive proportions. Expand your mind to massive proportions. Know when to use your vocabulary. (The power of an idea is based solely on three points 1) articulation 2) comprehension and 3) quality of idea.)
10)Have an overwhelming sense of wisdom. (Philosophy ... There are no words to describe how much I love philosophy - If you're speaking in terms of R/Outside which is actually kind of funny, because if you think of all skills in terms of objective measures such as % of skill, you can keep a good idea of your worth and ability in a skill. Note the improvement in your head - Every skill is empirical and tangible, and if you're an existentialist you can recognize that thoughts are equally as tangible as the real world)
11)Be confident and amazing, not because you're faking it, but because you are. (Once you have completed even half this list you're already in the top 10% of the world's men. Why would you not be confident and amazing?)
12)Be loud, because you're proud of who you are. (People will tell you to quiet down, these are people with anxiety- I had anxiety due to high IQ/bad epistemological frame of reference for perceiving (programming) when I was young which I've since turned into a strength. Just ignore them and continue being loud and they'll have a fear of being a social wet blanket- It's a shit test from the anxious - Loud = fun, fun = scary to the anxious)
13)Take care of yourself, because you're worth it. (Appearance, hygiene, fitness, haircuts, clothes, posture)
14)Everything is work. You're in a constant state of meditation. The thing you enjoy is improvement. It does not matter what you're doing as long as you're out there and creating a tangible skill. When you're being social you're living in the moment but also analyzing every second on multiple psychological layers and analyzing body movements and twitches. At the same time you're not making anyone aware of it. Your mind has become so powerful it is akin to a god. You recognize the psychological phenomenon and power balance which is taking place at all times. (This is advanced, Learn to meditate. Learn to think of what you've learned. Become an autodidact.
15)You take no shit. You have no regard for others opinions or ideas or ideology if it counters your own. You're not above a logical argument, you can change your convictions based on objective truth presented. You also know better than to listen to fools. You recognize that through your self-education you've reached a point where you literally know better than others in all regards. You don't need to ask questions.
16)You understand rationality and logic like a god. A logical mind is a godly mind. You keep it to yourself, you never speak of logic, you never utilize logical straight talk. You avert, you dodge, you joke like a social god. They will love you more for this. If they ask you a direct question; it is a demand, you do not give into demands. You avert and resort to reductio ad absurdum if you must. Never give them a straight answer, and everybody has a breaking point where they will buckle and not care and accept you for being a person who does his own thing. Even the hardest boss will crumble if you maintain this frame.
17)You can speak power talk with a honeyed tongue.
18)You speak the language of women fluently and understand their consciousness. (Psych + TRP theory)
19)You achieve a full comprehensive knowledge of yourself and your mind. You achieve mastery over instinct and mind. You merge the two and achieve a dualism between the mind and body. (meditation + philosophy)
20)You 'change your mind', literally shape it into an entirely different operating system.
21)Thrive to be the best, it is not a competition with others, the only competition with yourself.
22)Be free of social influence. See: Autonomy
23)Be stoic. (Learned via Machiavelli and things such as how to win friends and influence people, 48 laws of power, etc)
24)Be a master of your emotions. (Lifting assists, more test)
25)Grow, learn, and be happy. (Complacency is the true death)
26)If you're unhappy, confront it immediately in the proper way (Which you will learn through philosophy psychology and self improvement literature, as well as creative ways of expressing it through the great works of literature)
27)Become financially free before 30. (With the expansion of mind and confidence this is very possible)
28) LAST: Women come to you, Testosterone is king. Doing these things will naturally increase your testosterone. Do not do steroids EVER. You're a F***ing idiot if you do. Cheating yourself is something a PUA does. You do this naturally the whole way with no shortcuts. There are no shortcuts to becoming a RP man. You're not a misogynist. You don't hate women, you love women. You understand women, they understand you. There is no inter-sex communication barrier. You speak to them as a man and they speak to you as a woman and there is true harmony. Feminists, activists, the most man hating of women, and even lesbians will sleep with you. I have been a first for two lesbians. This comes from self improvement. Your ego does not get in the way of accepting that you have a current inability to communicate with some people, and this is where philosophical reading comes in. Philosophy is the study of ideology, by reading ideology which differs from your own you can often understand the entire idea somebody is trying to present to you than they do by the first 3 words they utter. Books such as On Liberty, The subjugation of women and utilitarianism by John Stuart Mill will help you to completely understand where they're coming from. You don't have to agree, but you understand the idea.
29) ALL drugs in moderation, not dependance. EDIT: A comment suggested this needed amplifying. If health concerns of medication is prescribed or required for the homeostasis of your being and optimal health, as long as all other options have been exhausted- you must look after yourself. If you end up being low test at 30 despite doing stronglifts, eating test boosting foods, fats, olive oil teaspoons, eating protein, watching macros, ensuring you eat red meat with lots of fat, diet and proper sleep, and you're still in the levels of estrogen/testosterone to that of a woman- Supplementing test would be okay every day. If you have chronic pain which is impossible to cure, vaporizing or eating marijuana is okay as long as you can handle your shit and it doesn't affect your functionality. Health optimization is important. DISCLAIMER:I am not a registered physician and any opinion I have on medication, dependance, health, usage, quantity, or ingestion of any substance, hobby or otherwise is for entertainment purposes only.
30) The way people perceive you DOES MATTER. You need people. People need you, the difference is that they may view you in a socialist light where as you may view them in a strictly utilitarian way. I.e. Mutual enjoyment of hobbies and conversation- but no nice guy traits such as unwritten contracts etc... (Social influence). One man can only achieve so much and it is necessary to employ the skills and knowledge of others in order to achieve goals which are beyond the self. By projecting an idea via the mind you can create it in the physical world with no effort except for communication of the idea to others. Getting others to physically create your idea is a akin to godliness. Money allows for creation on an unprecedented scale, Money is the modern equivalent of the of liberty. Money is freedom. You are a slave until you are financially free.
31) Working is for betas. You must work to get your start up liquid. I moved to 'hell' in order to make over 6 figures to fund it. I worked 12+ hour days 7 days a week. It took me 5 years to achieve financial freedom from a point of no debt. I learned the financial markets and now my money works for me. I did all of this without a ticket or formal money producing education. I am the next Warren Buffet ;)
Edit3: 32) TIME IS THE COST OF IMPROVEMENT. You can only improve as much as time you have left in your life. Starting now will maximize your importance to the world. If you start this at 6, you will be a global tycoon influencing world events if the conditions are right, if you start at 30 you may only become a great nationalist rather than globalist. The time to start is right now. Failure is the cost of improvement. learn to love failure and learn to think of it. See it as an opportunity to improve and try better. The time to start is right now.
In no order, that's how I did it. Going to give rough stats to remain anonymous
I do not come from wealth, my family was on welfare my entire life. There is no connections or nepotism to assist me. I was often living poor. I was, however, EXTREMELY fortunate to have a very excellent public education system. Age: 25-30
Time taken : Approximately 10 years, 2 careers, 1 very long LTR, the lost "unicorn love of my life" (Or so I thought- caused the start of the RP segment of my self improvement journey.)(2 years), and about 300 other women or so.
Hope its helpful to some.
SEE: HALO EFFECT
EDIT: Before I learned of TRP, I called the RP MAN the "enlightened man" and still do. I learned the concept from some philosophy books I read when I was very young (16). Neitzsche's concept of the uberman is an exceptionally good one... Thus spoke Zarasthustra is a great lesson in humility and practicing dualism. To know one truth of a thing, but to keep your mouth shut because it's annoying as hell for educated people to spout their mouth to the average person. Great lesson... And a book which is very angry(It is translated from German and written by a man with syphilis after all.. and his girlfriend cheated on him, the unicorn of his life,( And she gave him it) and then he locked himself into his room for a few years basically and wrote some real crazy but brilliant RP stuff. The female perspectives are not relevant to modern times)
Edit2: Philosophy can be VERY red pill. It is written by the most brilliant minds throughout all of history. It is a gigantic discussion bouncing from the early greeks to modern times. Example: The concept of platonic love comes from 'Plato', Socrates apprentice which wrote the symposium... The philosophy of platonic love. Basically, the Symposium was pretty much about how Socrates and Plato were the first "Bros". Philosophy contains every idea in human existence. Nobody wants to hear you drop quotes or talk about it though. It can also be very blue pill, but it is written logically and concisely in general and to a point. With an extremely large vocabulary (Or quick access to dictionary.com and not letting your ego get in the way, whenever you get immersed into a semantic intensive text you can quickly reference the definitions for entire philosophical ideas contained within a word. Philosophy all builds off of eachother, and has its own created language- I would suggest that you read in the order of formalized education on your own).
Final edit: This isn't the top. I said complacency is soul death. In my current state if I stop improving I accept this as the pinnacle. No matter where you are, you are always a student. Master of one thing? Student of 99.999% of everything else.
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