Here's the first update following my original post to the Red Pill.
Introduction
I left off my last post still absolutely gutted by some girl who, in hindsight, honestly didn't even deserve my attention.
However, being the culled beta we all deride on this sub, I took her out on multiple dates and spent a ton of money hoping to impress this girl.
Big surprise to most of you, that didn't work, and I didn't get laid, ended up as nothing more than an orbiter.
I really took it to heart and, after discovering this sub, decided I needed to focus on myself and make myself a better man.
I stopped reading the fantasy books and picked up The Art of War and The 48 Laws of Power. I began hitting the gym five days a week. I devoted myself to my music production.
After two months of hard work, I was beginning to see improvements in both my mental and physical health.
I was seeing the world through a new lens.
Body
I joined Tinder and OkCupid as well, figuring it might be a good place to start. Followed the advice of many on this sub to get a great profile set up. The matches started flowing in.
It just so happened that this one girl (23, cute, thin, short, exactly my type) took a big liking to me. Of course, she threw the classic shit test at me, "I'm not looking for a hookup."
I agree and amplified, soon enough I had a dinner date at a hibachi restaurant scheduled.
Fast forward to the actual date, I showed up a couple minutes late and didn't apologize - I'm a busy man of high value after all.
I tried to be commanding and hold my frame, and the dinner seemed to go well, didn't attempt any kino though.
Next, I suggested we do something fun like bowling, but that didn't seem to excite her, so I settled for a movie instead.
Once settled in, I started the kino by touching her thigh and eventually holding her hand during the movie, and she reciprocated with IOIs like stroking my arm and leaning into me.
As the movie was ending, I just leaned in and got the kiss, no problems at all.
Old me would have been scared shitless and never gone for it.
New me just seized the moment.
We made out some more in my car, and then I dropped her off at her car. I tried convincing her to come back to my place and listen to some music, but she said "next time, I'm not that kind of girl."
We all know that was another shit test, but I didn't want to push my luck, and decided to call it a night.
After waiting a couple days I sent her a message to see if she wanted to cook dinner together at my place.
Everything was planned, and I made her this bomb pasta alfredo dish, we watched some Netflix and made out some more. I tried to escalate, but her anti-slut defense mechanism kicked in, and she resisted me taking her shirt off.
I decided to take a step back and resisted the intimacy for an hour or so, fooled around on my phone and let her wrap up some homework due the next day.
Of course, she came at me with some intensity after the work was done, but again resisted going any further.
I let it be, knowing it would happen after another date or two. I let her leave, I had more important things to do than worry about some random girl.
Old me would have been thinking about her nonstop, but new me decided I had better things to think about.
Naturally she was eager to see me again, I had been holding frame relatively well, passing most of her shit tests, and so we did another hang out night at my place.
Started out much the same as the night before, but this time I threw her on my lap and got her grinding on me a bit.
I could tell she wanted it, she was wet when I reached down and rubbed her pussy. The shirt came off, and soon enough we were in the bedroom. We all know what happens next.
Aftermath
She already wants to see me again tomorrow night.
Once upon a time I might have thought about this girl constantly, texting her every day.
Now, I know better, thanks to all of you, and I spend my time, energy, and focus, working towards bettering myself.
She's lucky enough if I just let her along for the ride.
Like you guys always say, she's not mine, it's just my turn to have some fun.
Looks like I landed my first plate.
I'll be looking out for another one this weekend, I'll never let myself get ruined over some broad ever again. Best to keep that abundance mentality and keep on working towards myself.
Summary
Fucked a girl on the third date, landed my first plate.
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