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Use this one simple trick to start any flirtatious conversation!

johndehlinmademedoit
June 14, 2015
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Title Use this one simple trick to start any flirtatious conversation!
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johndehlinmademedoit
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Date June 14, 2015 10:12 AM UTC
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[–]Science_isthenewcool 253 points253 points253 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Doctor's and Trainers HATE HIM! Click here to find out his one weird trick...

[–]yaardi77 points78 points79 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

[post deleted by the feminist mafia]

[–]Hard_Bodied_Man 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

good advice under the guise of the most click-baity title possible.

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[–]Hard_Bodied_Man 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

10 strange but effective ways to lose weight!

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[–]WellHungMan 73 points73 points73 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If she's looking into your eyes, it's a pretty good indicator she's into you. My friends think I have some special talent for picking up girls, but it's really just finding the ones who are already attracted to you.

[–]afroose14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

I may look dumb but i don't get it . could you explain please because everybody is looking at the eyes of everyone

[–]WellHungMan16 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Try holding their gaze for longer than the 0.5 seconds most people look at one another. If you're gazing into eachother's eyes for a few seconds, grin at her and approach.

[–]lugubriusTRP10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but you can tell when they're looking deep into your eyes and just making eye contact. Its a gut feeling, sort of.

[–]Xyereo8 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Sort of, sort of not. Even elementary schoolers understand that "he/she keeps looking at me/you" is a telltale sign of interest. And often it's subconscious.

The real key isn't "is she looking at me," its "is she looking at me more than I would expect in this situation." That's the indicator right there.

[–]Johnny10toes4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There are four looks that women give you that you have to know. There are others but get these.

  1. Look of disgust. She looks and her top lip curls up.
  2. Look of open. She simply looks. She's not sure about you but approach.
  3. Look of attraction. She looks then looks down. Green light.
  4. Look of hunger. She looks like she wants to devour you. Warp speed. All you have to do is not mess it up.

[–]straittripping 3 points3 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

one test I will do is start talking to her facing away while i am doing something else . when i look over at her a few seconds later if she is already facing me looking for eye contact there is a good chance she is interested

[–]Bronze_Bound 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

The you open with, "3 years ago, a raccoon died here.

[–]true_detective_sf 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Absolutely not. If a female holds her gaze on you for more than about 0.5 seconds, she is showing signs of interest.

[–]moiez3266 points7 points8 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

For more than .5 sec then she wants the d

[–]DionysusfromOlympus-1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

*Unless, she's deliberately teasing you and actually has a bf. Happened to a friend...

[–]2wiseclockcounter2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The Anti-dump Machine

I compiled the sosuave threads into sectioned images a while back. Shamefully, I've yet to read all the way through, but the basic premise is as you say-

don't chase the fish, wait for a bite and know how to reel.

[–]fruguy 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Looking into your eyes when? Just in normal conversation or otherwise? Most people are OK with eye contact.

[–]WellHungMan 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

In public. On the train, in a cafe, on a university campus, etc.

[–]fruguy 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How long do they hold eye contact for, for you to assume they're attracted?

[–]TheRavingRedditor 34 points35 points36 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Make eye contact long enough to notice the color of the girl's eyes!

Phew, I thought you were going to follow with some retarded line to say about her eye color.

"Your eyes are like endless oceans full of mystery..." ...Oh you're totally in bro.

Good tidbit though.

[–]moose_war14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"Your eyes are like endless oceans full of mystery..."

That actually would be a great opening line if you could make fun of it right afterwards. I think the rollercoaster of her thinking you're a fedora at first and then realize you're mocking that kind of shit would be a good emotional shift. You'd have to have a lot of charisma though when defusing it.

[–]donaldcicc8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Your eyes are like endless oceans full of mystery... and I hate mystery." ;)

[–]TheRavingRedditor 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hah true. I think just acting overly nervous/shy while saying it would let on that you aren't being serious. Pull that off and no need to prove you aren't a fedora. Jump straight to a sly smile and ask her what coffee she ordered. The subsequent conversation should rid her of any doubts that it wasn't a joke.

[–]2wiseclockcounter3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

swap mystery with "misery"... all redpill men know the only effective neg is to go straight for the existential jugular.

[–]throwbp8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Take it one step further and try to see your reflection in her eyes. You are literally looking in her eyes not at them..use with caution because it can give a strange/intense vibe

[–]BigG12341 points42 points43 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Then use your reflection from your reflections eyes to look at her reflection off of your reflections eyes and you got her in bed in no time

[–]2wiseclockcounter1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

works best if you cue your boombox to play this song as soon as you lock eyes.

[–]CpCdouchebag 28 points28 points28 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This title reads like a buzzfeed article.

[–]2IVIaskerade5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you lock eyes with someone for more than 10 seconds, you're either going to fuck them or kill them.

[–]thor_away924 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly just look deeply into one eye until they look away during conversation. It gives them butterflies.

[–]mashisuh5 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

But I know the color of every girl's eyes. I live in China.

[–]Hunter2isit2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can see this going awesomely, hilariously wrong for a socially awkward would be red piller

Remember, the longer the eye contact the more dominant she knows you are. Her walls will melt as long as you maintain eye contact! /s

[–]Evileddie133 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit. This happened to me a week or so ago, I deliberately 'looked' for eye color. It worked, changed the tone of the convo.

[–]AlcohoIicSemenThrowe4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

My main problem isn't getting women interested in me or walking up to them. It's the actual conversation. I always say the same things, get bored and they don't give any input to the conversation. Any help would be appreciated.

[–]4delicioustreats2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Me too, I'm bored as fuck with women. They have so little to say, seem so vacuous. And I know they're just gonna back stab me in the end. Bitter as all get out.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You have to make the conversation interesting while talking to someone who is fundamentally uninteresting.

That's why I don't make conversation. I neg her. Tell fun stories and escalate.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Boring/dumb people exist to be made fun of. It's the only way you can tolerate their company.

[–]let_terror_reign1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Add most women to that list, when you're not balls-deep in them

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you serious though? What about the ignoring them advice?

[–]skirmisher 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More tricks that helps (some of them are pretty helpful):

http://distractify.com/people/psychological-life-hacks/

[–]The_Man110 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I see that user name. I guess we have swallowed two red pills.

[–]johndehlinmademedoit[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You too, huh? Yeah, that other red pill is massively bigger than this one (for me at least). Most of this red pill has pretty obvious to me since I hit puberty. That other one is obvious now, but at the time... Well, you know...

[–]MuzakNinja 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Very good and simple trick. When I'm on stage I make it a point to look into their eyes. They pretty much form a line at the end of the show.

[–]muffdivers1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Came too late... What was it? and why was it removed?

[–]stop_talking_ -2 points-2 points-2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

One thing I do is look at girls as if I was already in love with them. It sends a signal of "I want that" to their brain. It's like when we get a shot of cleavage.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

Makes you look as a desperate beta. Question : does it ever work?

[+]NeoreactionSafe-6 points-5 points-4 points 11 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link

Good little trick.

I know for me I really prefer the "german eyes" over the brown ones, though there are people with brown eyes who are northern european. I've got the "german eyes".

I'm pretty sure brown is the dominant gene, so you really need german-german eyes to have certainty that any kids you have will have them.

It reminds us that most of the "desired features" (the beautiful blonde goddess look) are actually recessive traits.

This means that the earth might see the end of such beauty if trends continue.

[–]1CowardlyPetrov15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

So, in other words, blue eyes and racial purity?

[+]NeoreactionSafe-7 points-6 points-5 points 11 years ago* (17 children) | Copy Link

Some are blue, but those are more rare. Some have that sort of sparkle and those are the most prized. Germans have a sort of greenish color... sort of a blend. Mine actually change color slightly depending on my mood. (or at least so women say)

Racism and Sexism are tools of the Feminists... who we despise.

As a white male I get a free pass and can reject all arguments along those lines.

So yes if you want to breed beauty you cannot breed the wrong DNA.

We are scientists here... a man with brown eyes mating with a woman with germanic eyes will reduce the probability of germanic colors by 75%. This is a scientific fact.

If you want to breed for those traits you must be aware of how DNA works.

People who envy other races are sick, sick people. (a beta trait)

Love yourself and your DNA, it's okay.

The newest sickness is Transracialism

http://wizbangblog.com/2015/06/14/transgender-is-out-transracial-is-in-and-barack-obama-is-running-for-president-in-2016/

...which is so fucked up it's hard to comprehend.

You gotta laugh at how crazy it's gotten.

[–]Manuel_S8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I'd seriously expect the masterrace to know a bit about probabilities... guess we got to leave that to the mediterranean guys.

Anyways:

Blue eyes + brown with a recessive blue = 50% odds of blue.

Blue eyes + brown with two dominants = 0% odds of blue.

Two brown eyes, both recessive + dominant = 25% odds of blue.

Do you have a recessive? If you are brown but one of your parents is of the blue variety, then for sure you have a recessive. Otherwise its more of a crapshoot because you don't know what your parents had (dom + dom or dom + recessive)

No 75% there when one of the mating pair has blue eyes.

[–]NeoreactionSafe-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

Correct my DNA knowledge because my genetics class was probably 30 years ago.

As I remember there are typically two gene pairs.

Blue - Blue --> mates with --> Brown - Brown

So you get:

Blue - Blue

Blue - Brown

Brown - Blue

Brown - Brown

...which means 75% of the time you get Brown and 25% of the time Blue.

Correct?

Dominant gene means in a Brown - Blue the Blue will go recessive.

Blue - Blue mates with Blue - Blue ----> 100% Blue

So the breeding thing is a reality.

[–]Manuel_S2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

You are forgetting:

You have two of them. So mother + father each have two. But the child inherits only one from each, and its random. Either is as likely as the other. You never get both from same parent, which is what you have there.

From a blue blue or brownbrown you can only get one kind, but from a brownblue you can get one or the other.

So its: Blue+Blue with Blue+Blue -> 100% blue.

Blue+Blue with Brown+Blue -> 50% Brownblue and 50%blueblue

Blue+Blue with Brown+Brown -> 100% Brownblue. So 0% appear blues, all have recessives so their children can show blue.

Blue+brown with blue+brown -> 25% pure brown, 25% pure blue, 50% mixed. Because brown is dominant, only 25% blue will appear.

[–]NeoreactionSafe0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

I think we got it.

Your percentage depends on your starting point.

Dominant / recessive means any time Blue is not matched with Blue you lose the Blue. So it matters to breed carefully.

If you want a rare recessive quality you must breed for it:

How recessive genes "disappear":

http://study.com/cimages/multimages/16/500px-Punnett_homobrown_x_homoblue.png

Which makes the envy of the "white princess" by people with unrelated DNA so bizarre. By mating with the object of one's desire they actually remove that beauty from the earth.

One day the world might be uniformly brown. No variety at all.

[–]Manuel_S2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Also on what you yourself have for starters. Blond hair is more complicated, but also recessive (mostly)

Seen too many pasty-faced mousy-blond fat swine with blue eyes. Blue doesn't compensate. I'd go for other traits. Intelligence, health, frame (height and tendency for good figure)

Blue eyes and white skin and blond hair are in fact less convenient in this day and age of vanishing ozone.

As for being attractive... dude... proper black-haired chick with that smoldering look? Long, flowing black/brown hair? That's hot

[–]NeoreactionSafe1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I was into the brown eyed brown haired girls for decades. In fact it was a sort of joke that all my girlfriends looked the same with brown / brown.

I dated a Irish / African woman who had a child with a German guy. The thing is that the kid looked 100% African despite being only 25% by DNA.

The features of white europeans are almost 100% recessive, so when you mix into the brown gene pool you pretty much no longer exist as the former.

It will be a shame if the beauty disappears.

But I suppose at least it will end racism because there will be all brown.

[–]Manuel_S1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, actually once mixed in it will keep popping up and in surprising combinations. But the mostly pure variety will be rarer, of course.

Seen many cases of mixed with africans where you can easily see both sides, or the white even had a stronger cast in features or some such. Its not linear at all.

Anyway, why are you mourning it? You got the stupid nordics activelly trying to make their towns into mosques, and succeeding. I'm in southern europe, and we got 10x LESS muslims by % than france, and much less than sweden.

What feminism infects us also came from thereabouts.

Idiots. At least they suffer from that before we do.

[–]ChiefBigLeaf0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm a white guy with blue eyes, and because white people have become a global minority and the majority of the population is becoming more coffee colored over time, I was thinking having kids with someone with darker skin than I would put my kids in a more advantageous position. And also they wouldn't get sunburnt as easy as me, they'd probably like that.

[–]Manuel_S1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Make sure they got a good brain and get proper education. Percentage-wise, that's whats becoming rarer.

[–]1CowardlyPetrov0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Did you really just call dominate genes, genes that dominate on a genetic level, beta?

Nah, that is CLEARLY racism. If blue eyes were superior they would just win.

Just like how women would just win without government nannying if they really were just better than men at everything.

I don't see how stories about idiots and insane people disproves that.

[+]NeoreactionSafe-7 points-6 points-5 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Think about your logic.

Step One: Envy of people based on certain physical charactoristics.

Step Two: Desire to mate with those charactoristics.

Step Three: Realizing that the very thing you hope to achieve becomes lost.

The worst cases seem to be the beta Indian programmer types that want the blonde girl. Why be this way?

One should be proud of their DNA and want to preserve and extend it into the future, not to transform yourself into another race.

Envy of others DNA is the most beta trait possible.

Racism and Sexism are to be rejected and people should just focus on their own DNA and it's preservation.

Return to natural hierarchy. (family, tribe)

[–]1CowardlyPetrov4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Really? Because I fuck girls with pretty faces, big tits, nice asses, and tight vaginas. I don't remember the color of their eyes.

Anyway, you could have just said yes, you are a racist idiot.

[–]NeoreactionSafe-5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Racism is part of the State.

Just as Feminism is part of the State.

As a white male I get a free pass on those issues.

Red Pill does not advocate State sponsored diversity or anything like that. If we want to have sex outside our race we are free to do that, but if we want to breed within that's fine too.

Red Pill doesn't advocate racial blending... it's indifferent to it.

[–]1CowardlyPetrov2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's retarded. Socialists try to argue that racism against whites or sexism against males is not real because "they are a part of the system". They're wrong on being a part of the system, but it doesn't matter because they're also wrong on principle that that would make it invalid.

You are just stupid. Racism doesn't require a system or the state to exist. Neither does sexism.

Are you even fucking real or are you just a feminist plant?

[–]NeoreactionSafe-2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

The State is what drives Racism and Sexism.

That's the whole point about how cultural marxism (SJW) functions.

The goal is to worsen relations so that people fight each other and it's working very effectively.

All we can do is watch from a distance. (free pass)

Degeneracy is driven by the State.

Feminists love the State... so how would I be one?

(your logic seems outside Red Pill or Neoreaction)

Do you even read Neoreactionary stuff?

[–]chinawinsworlds-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Green is rare. I'm Scandinavian and don't like blonde hair/blue eyes. It gets boring after a while.

[–]MyRedAccount0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If you bring this up in the future I recommend saying blue eyes. Calling them German makes you sound like a Nazi. I have grey-blues(they verge on white all the way to dark blue), and am a darkening blond, so I have to remain conscious of that shit myself or I'm liable to make enemies with people I'd rather be friends with.

To the rest of you, it's not even about racial purity. Blue or green eyes are a free cuck test, and actually those with green eyes have the best one. Yeah, it's not as good as a DNA analysis, but it's better than nothing, and doesn't require spending any money. Even if one of your kids is stupid enough not to want one, but, "their," child has the wrong eye color you and they will know the woman is trying to BB them.

[–]ToshiroOzuwara-3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Calling them German makes you sound like a Nazi.

Maybe he doesn't give a fuck.

[–]MyRedAccount0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Is this a Nazi forum? No? Then is it good strategy? Probably not. Not giving a fuck is good for convincing women of certain things, it's not a universally useful strategy and can get you wrecked.

[–]ToshiroOzuwara0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Wrecked by an internet tough guy like you?

Indeed that is scary stuff.

[–]MyRedAccount0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I didn't threaten you silly.

[–]ToshiroOzuwara0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Then why are you talking about people getting wrecked?

[–]MyRedAccount1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not going to dignify that with any reply besides scary stuff, but substitute beer for lunch.

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