Why you should never get married (x-post from r/JusticePorn)

30303030303030 · 2013-06-10T23:00:33+00:00

Jesus Christ this is mind blowing..

What a sick cunt, pressing charges against her own kid because she forced her hand in the window and refused to retract it? Kid screaming that she chokes and hits him in front of cops?

And she got primary custody? I'm actually not surprised. Women have to work extremely hard to not get primary custody. Good job on having camera rolling for the father. Also this kid was as collected as I would ever imagine 14 year old could be in similar situation.

Kid "Mom you hit me!"

Mom: "And I will hit you again"

....

A word from the father:

"This video was recorded on Sunday, May 26, 2013. It is completely unedited. I (Caleb Leverett) uploaded the video to YouTube the very same day, but kept it set to private until June 6, 2013.

I am Parker's dad, father, biological father, Daddy and guy who cut his umbilical cord. This video was recorded, posted and released with the permission and request of my son, Parker. We only decided to release it after the step-dad in this video (Jason May) admitted to repeatedly trespassing on my land, when confronted by Parker and myself. Neither of us appreciated the harassment.

I am a subscriber to the non-aggression principle (NAP) which basically says that the initiation of force is always immoral. I raise all four of my children in a non-violent manner, i.e., I never spank my kids... EVER. All four of my kids are very familiar with the NAP are extremely well behaved; anyone who knows them personally will testify that this is true.

Until today (Saturday, June 8, 2013) there was no description to the video. I am adding it to help others understand the broader picture. Parker has lived with me full time since the day this was filmed. I picked up my other three kids from their mom and step-dad's house yesterday for my first week of summer vacation with them. The pick up was text book perfect and without incident, of which I am thankful.

I bought Parker his very own iPhone 5 and gave the number to his mom. He is free to call or text her (or anyone in her family) any time he wishes (something I was never granted). He is also free to visit her or her family or friends any time he wishes.

On this day, he is with his cousins in Gardendale, TX playing and working on the family farm. He is excited to have a job this summer. My son and I are very close and are very open. We have a full summer planned and I am excited.

I thank many of you for your kind, encouraging words. I even thank the critics, for your words are teaching Parker and I to hone our skills, and yes, Parker and I read every single word. Have a peaceful day and remember, you own yourself. No one else owns you."

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-06-10T22:59:25+00:00

FORCE THE CHILD TO LIKE ME!

pirateundies · 2013-06-11T00:03:23+00:00

This isn't even hamstering. It's full blown crazy. Oh, and if you're looking for any hint that there's at least some emotional abuse:

"Mom you're scaring me!"

"No I'm not!"

Her own kid's emotions don't even exist to her unless they serve her desires.

rapscallionx · 2013-06-11T03:10:30+00:00

look at her and her crocodile tears trying to influence that officer. It's nice to see that shit doesn't always work.

Big_Man_On_Campus · 2013-06-11T07:29:09+00:00

The manipulation from the mother is astounding. Everyone should watch the entire hour-long video. This may not be a psycho mom, but she's definitely never had anyone call her out on her bullshit manipulation. So lets do that for her, shall we?

4:50, mom lays guilt trip, says kid she raised for 14 years isn't going to just go away because they want to 4:53, mom says, "I love you," trying to soften what she just said. 5:07, mom says she's not going to let him drive off because she loves him too much, and they're "too close" 5:15, mom immediately changes gears yet again, laying more guilt and shame on the kid for the "disrespectful and underhanded" way the child is behaving. 5:25, mom begins to poison the well, implying the dad is manipulating him 6:19, after a minute of just saying that he needs to get out of the car, mom accuses son of being "real ugly right now," declares it is very disrespectful, and threatens to call the cops. 6:40, mom directly addresses biological father, says he is not being a good role model, yes MAN UP in the face of her childishness. 7:35, mom implies there's things to do on Sunday that he's interfering with, a BBQ and swimming, and other "fun plans". 8:11, possibly the worst form of manipulation. The mother starts baby-talking to an infant sibling to get the baby and her son to interact. The tactic is to try to manipulate her son's emotions into being softer by involving him in the baby's momentary attention. I've had this done to me, it's disturbing. 8:30, mother addresses her son's heart and how he needs to evaluate if he's doing the right thing. She forces him to question his own judgement. 8:45, mom implies that son has never done this to bio father, and that he has asked to not go with bio father before. Son disagrees, and mother implies that his memory is bad. Way to go mom, make your son question his own sanity to win an argument. 9:25, mom implies that he's just telling his siblings "good bye", while shoving the now smiling baby in his face. Mom implies he won't see his siblings again if he does this. 11:23, mom denies implying she would send son to military school. Says it was all a joke. She obviously is completely in tune with the emotions of her son. I had some manipulative parents, but I never had them joke about sending me away, that's f-ing cold. 12:19, mom implies bio father just plays games. She then directly accuses him of being either high or drunk right in front of her own son. She then says he should start retaking drug testing because if he's not using there's no reason not to. That's choice mom, stay classy. 14:30, mom again forces her own son to question his sanity, condescendingly implying he was stupid for being afraid of being sent to military school. 16:00, mom then changes gears again, says she just wants to hug her son because she can see that he is hurting. For the next 20 seconds she makes up a story about how her son is fine before leaving to see bio father, and then comes back with lot of negativity. She directly tells her son that he is a "happy kid", a most extreme form of manipulation. Kids are not capable of self-determining how happy they are, when parents tell them they are when they are not, they can question their own sanity. 16:40, More emotional manipulation, as the decision the son is making is now being redirected as hurt visited on mom. 16:58, mom goes for broke almost. She removes sunglasses, looks in her sons eyes, gives a light smile, and tells him she loves him. Again emotional manipulation 17:30, mom implies her son is not behaving normally, almost telling him to snap in line and behave normally. 19:10, mom implies this is making bio father very happy because he likes to "stir up trouble". Son replies that it was his choice, not bio fathers. Mom replies, telling her son that he is basically being manipulated by the bio father. This is a basic intelligence insult, more manipulation. 20:45, mom concedes that bio father loves son, but qualifies it with "to the best of his ability." She then says that fathering a child and parenting a child are very different. She essentially insults all fathers, everywhere, directly to her own son. 21:31, mom implies that he's only increasing any possible future punishment for this decision. 22:07, Mom tells bio father to man up, that his own mother would be ashamed of what bio father is doing to manipulate this son of his. 23:12, mom tells son to get out so they don't have cops all over the road, transferring her humiliation to her son. 23:26, mom tells son that it's just a large temper tantrum, again all condescension, no meeting of her own sons intellect. 24:10, mom asks son why he doesn't just do the right thing, asking her son to man up. 24:40, mom implies that son's decision is damaging long term relationships with siblings, mom, and stepfather. 25:30, mom tells son that this is all forever, that she has never left son so therefore, son cannot leave her. 26:53, mom says she can't believe son did this on "today of all days"...The next couple of minutes has some sniping between bio parents. 29:22, mom snipes at bio father, implying that he was drunk-texting her. Son directly contradicts mother, saying dad wasn't drunk, only had 2 beers, mom argues with son over how drunk bio father was during a text message, but backs down and waves hands when son actually holds ground on that issue. 30:38, mom reaches in car to touch son, a clear sign of emotional aggressiveness. Son reacts quite viscerally to this, telling her to get off. He then starts yelling at her, getting very upset at all the fighting in the house. Mom has just pushed too far and has outwardly upset her child. 31:20, mom again forces son to question his own sanity again, disagreeing with him over all the arguments they've supposedly had in this house. 32:50, beta dad now points out to son that this decision separates him from his siblings, son expresses displeasure with this manipulation and mom and beta data accuse son of being disrespectful and rude. So if he sits there quietly, he's being disrespectful, but if he calls them on their bullcrap emotional manipulation, he's being disrespectful. They then directly imply that he's being manipulated by his bio dad to do this. Great Job Parents! 40:30, mom questions son for deciding to leave family that loves him for a man who lives in a shop and only sees him 48 days a year. Son says it's because they don't fight. Mom says it's because he doesn't know bio dad. This is classic divorce manipulation, the moms experience with bio dad must be the same as the kids experience or something is amiss. 42:24 is the moment the mom realizes nothing is working, she tries to open the door, realizes her son is holding the door locked, and tells son that he needs to remove his hand, then accuses son of being "Very ugly" to her. 43:23, son flies into near rage, fully justified, as parents admit that judges aren't available, and cops that are coming don't know anything about what's happening in this situation. He's frustrated that he cannot determine his own fate, and his parents are using him for an emotional tug of war. This part is the hardest to watch, because you can almost watch the son's psyche tearing in half. 44:56, mom literally tells son that he's ruining things because they have a trans-am for him in the back that they were going to surprise him with (or something to that effect). so transparent it's sad. 46:36, mom implies it's the son who has problem, and only him. 47:58 mom questions son's embarassment, implies he is hiding shame over this event. 48-49, Son starts saying some serious things to mom, implying he will ignore her in the future. Mom replies that this is "not real family" when ties are cut. ~49:10 or so, the cops show up, the tears start to re-flow. 50:00, mom starts explaining herself to the cops, realizes she has nothing to accuse either the son or father of in front of the cops, finally just cries and says her son needs to come home. 51:15, mom starts sobbing loudly as she goes into home for ID. 55:53, son accuses mom of hitting him, and she responds with "I will hit you again." Yikes. She corrects herself to "spank", but the son confronts her on this, accuses her of hitting him in the face, even putting hands around his neck. very tough to watch, the kid is pleading with the cops to let him go. 58:05, event turns into a physical confrontation between mother and son over unlocking the car door and pulling him out. Son resists without becoming violent. Mom is probably legitimately upset for the first time in the event. Cop has to step in between to prevent it from becoming a disturbance, mom backs down. Cop is definitely a pro, deserves commendation for dealing with this crap. 1:02:46, mom implies kid is forcing her to be arrested for creating a disturbance just for getting the kid out of the car. Son replies, "if that's what it takes, mom you're scaring me."... mom replies, "I am not scaring you." clearly she's so in touch with her sons feelings she feels free to simply tell her son what he is and is not feeling. She then continues to imply that worse things will happen to him when he gets in the house. Nice. 1:04:48, new cop asks basic questions, son does not want to go in, claims he's scared to go in (can you blame him?), bio dad is willing to take son, new cop says, ok, there's nothing we can do. Mom hits wall, pulls out the "I just want a hug," excuse. 1:07:09, mom asks cop point blank what she needs to do to press charges against her own son, in order to get him out of the car, pretends to be injured by her own son to make this happen. Son calls her out on this very calmly, the manipulation is laid bare. All she cares is getting her son, rational behavior is gone. Son rolls up window after that exchange.

I'd like to feel sorry for the mom... who am I kidding, she's an emotionally manipulative woman who is getting the son she deserves.

Desmadre · 2013-06-11T01:32:50+00:00

I love this, the very end reminds me of the Terminator 2 movie where they throw the T-1000 into the lava and he desperately changes into every form he knows. Well this hamster did the exact same thing and pulled out all the stops to make her ex husband look like a criminal. She gives no shit about that kid, he is just viable to maintain her lifestyle.

2013-06-11T01:41:24+00:00

I'm not sure who I want to bitch slap first. The psycho, controlling, manipulating mom, or the fat stepdad awkwardly standing around trying to intimidate in a situation he has no fucking business in.

Edit: Them driving away felt like happy ending to a movie lmao

anthropophobe · 2013-06-10T22:46:25+00:00

Quick summary? Just don't want to watch an hour-long thing.

gnimsh · 2013-06-11T01:42:20+00:00

Man just imagine what this is going to do to his siblings.

They found out where he is and why he's not staying there with mom and stepdad, and then they'll all cry about how they don't want to be there either after discovering they can say no.

Invincibull · 2013-06-11T01:51:01+00:00

Fellas, take note of the bafoon that she is currently married to. This guy is grade A certified fagatory. I can tell from the way this woman composes herself that she shows zero respect to him, and he doesn't do a damn thing about it. He is merely there for her financial prosperity.

This guy didn't happen by accident. He made a thousand mindful and calculated choices to end up where he is now. He currently is paying for 4 kids that are not his and has an unattractive disrespectful woman for his wife. He chose this life and look at how happy he is.

Purebred fagatory.

Elonine · 2013-06-11T02:42:20+00:00

PERMIAN FOOTBALL RULES!!!

nillotampoco · 2013-06-11T05:06:19+00:00

Sigh. Yes, there are crazy people in the world. No, it does prove anything in terms of whether marriage is a good thing or a bad thing.

If you want to get married - do it. Just make sure you get married to the right girl.

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2013-06-11T05:36:18+00:00

EDIT: Nevermind, some adults come out at 27:10 (why did she say "all by themselves"? Maybe they were in there by themselves for a bit?)

Not sure if anyone else noticed, at 14:51 the step-father takes the <5 year old into the house.

At 23:40 the mother says "Will you call Marissa and have her come across and watch the kids. I don't want them in there by themselves".

You're welcome Caleb Leverett.

2013-06-11T08:09:08+00:00

Why you should choose who you marry carefully and not let your dick make the decision.

EDIT, wait, what? She is not even hot.

formatlostmypw · 2013-06-11T06:08:05+00:00

kinda sad how the cop flip flopped like that, and I feel bad for the mom, seeing her at that low spot.. there are two sides to every story - and I hope the boy is happy, somewhere. there is seriously something going on. it could be teen angst, it could be angry mother\stepfather abuse.. maybe both. messed up. and that football dude is pretty huge.

edit: ive been thinking about it, and i think the law sounds kind of fucked up there. if she has legal custody, then the husband should be responsible to drop the kid off, right? i dont know the law well enough but it almost seems like you can manipulate the child during your hours. i dont know, been thinking about this for a while - and will think about it some more. hope the boy is happy.

slippery_people · 2013-06-11T05:30:43+00:00

That dude was huge.

Decibelle · 2013-06-11T06:38:52+00:00

Man... nobody wins when something like this happens. This must be awful for both sides. :(

EDIT: Just to clarify: imagine how you'd feel, hearing a child who is meant to be taken back to your home tell you, "I don't want to be near you any more." It'd be heartbreaking. Everyone loses in this kind of situation.

Endevour · 2013-06-11T15:19:10+00:00

Watched the entire thing from start to finish. This whole video evokes some strong emotion. In my country, children can choose which parent they want to live with at the age of 12.

NiftyDolphin · 2013-06-11T16:49:00+00:00

This was just a proxy-fight between her and her ex-husband.

She obviously viewed her custody of the children as a way to show that she was better than her husband. Her solipsism caused her to believe that if she thought that way, then her husband must think that way also.

Custody of the child = points. Must win.

R501 · 2013-06-12T04:06:01+00:00

I had a hard time watching this. This happened to me when I was a kid, but the cop made me go back with my mom. Luckily dad got full custody of me a couple years later at 13/14 years old. She died in '07, and the truth is, my life is better off with her gone and I rarely miss her.

In keeping with the Matrix theme, I'm like the character Kid, who awoke to the truth by self-realization. I never really thought that growing up with a super-hamstering-selfish-bitch-mother was the cause of my awakening.

whynoflyingcarsyet · 2013-06-11T08:00:33+00:00

All I see is one crazy woman ruining the day for five decent guys.

redpillschool · 2013-06-11T15:34:46+00:00

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Title	Why you should never get married (x-post from r/JusticePorn)
Author	CirxChakrAS
Upvotes	68
Comments	64
Date	June 10, 2013 10:01 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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